I told my boyfriend that my dad beat me, and he said my dad was all for my good?

Fathers beat their daughters because their daughters have done immoral things to shame their families, and if you yourself want others to feel safe without realizing it, it will not comfort you. Because men know men best, why do they beat you, your boyfriend also counts. Just because your boyfriend doesn't hit you doesn't mean you're right.

You tell your boyfriend that your dad beat you, and then he says your dad is all for your good, and that's fine. As your boyfriend, that's all he can say. Maybe your dad really wants your good, even if your dad is not like this, he can't say bad things about your dad, in order to comfort you, he can only say this.

What about your boyfriend.

I think he did the right thing.

The other party is your father.

It's the two of you who got married.

It's not easy for him to meddle in this matter.

Besides, I'm not married.

If you meet a stunned young man.

Go up to your dad.

That's really stupid.

On the contrary, he cares about you.

Enlighten you. If you have a mistake, find the reason from yourself.

Of course, it's not right to hit someone.

Your boyfriend is right, the parents beat the child supervisor in order to educate the child well, but the method is not right, I don't know what you did wrong, causing your father to beat you, and you are still a girl.

Why did your dad beat you, if you don't fight your boyfriend will definitely say that for your own good, he can't provoke you and your dad, in case you come back to your senses one day and say that he provokes your father-daughter relationship, how bad it is, you can only say that your dad is for your good.

It's very wrong to hit you, you can't hit anyone no matter what, your boyfriend said this for the good of both of you, so you understand more, think about why your dad hit you, what mistakes you made, just change it.

You can't blindly spoil you just because you're a girlfriend, right, at least it depends on why you were beaten by your father, if you do something wrong, your father can't discipline you, so what else can you do. If you're right, then your boyfriend should defend you.

It's definitely okay for your parents to beat you, and it's impossible to beat you if it's okay, so there's nothing wrong with what your boyfriend said.

It may be that your boyfriend is more straight, and he can't understand what you want to express to him, so if you want comfort, you should tell him directly, otherwise you will easily have conflicts.

Looking at other replies, I was confused. Doing something wrong is doing something wrong, and hitting someone is inherently wrong, whether you are right or wrong. There are so many methods of education, why should I hit you.

Hitting someone is beating someone, don't hurt you with an excuse that is good for you. Your boyfriend thinks that the beating is for your own good, so it is recommended to stay away, and maybe in the future, he will also say that it is for your own good while domestic violence.

Think about it, why did Dad beat you? There is always a reason for beating you, he can't say that he likes you, it's always something wrong with your meal, Dad can't say, beat you, this should be supported, think about it, change it, for you to live in your mother-in-law's house in the future, it has always been beneficial, Dad beat you, this is the accumulated experience, the accumulated wealth to you.

That's right, he can't stir up your father-daughter relationship in order to please you and comfort you.

Your boyfriend is right, you should understand it.

In fact, it's beautiful for him to say this, after all, it's your father, but the way of education is a little bad, isn't it, but parents are good at protecting their children.

Yes, I've never seen anyone beat you, you should think about why, this is your family!

Dare to ask how old Gu Liang is? It's a few grades.

Although your dad beat you, I know your dad is all for your good! Fathers and parents generally beat us, and it is us.

Summary. Good morning, dear! It doesn't matter what his family's attitude is towards you, and at the same time your boyfriend is a little impulsive, he just needs to stand firm in his position, and he doesn't have to conflict with his family, believing that true love will overcome everything, this situation; You also want to advise your boyfriend to communicate well with his parents, they will understand.

Hope mine is helpful to you, thanks! 

Good morning, dear! Don't care what his family's attitude is towards you, and at the same time your boyfriend is a little impulsive, he just needs to be firm in his standing, don't have to conflict with his family, believe that true love will fight and win everything, this situation; You also want to advise your boyfriend to communicate well with his parents, they will definitely find understanding. Hope mine is helpful to you, thanks!

If you can explain their situation in detail, the teacher should be more accurate in the search and analysis, and if you don't communicate with the teacher, the teacher can only analyze it based on your words.

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It was because of some small things, and then my boyfriend and his dad got into a fight.

Then his dad felt that since my boyfriend and I moved into his house, his parents had quarreled with him because of me.

Well, it also shows that your boyfriend cares about you.

Dear, is your relationship his father disagreeing?

You come to ask this question, it means that you also care about your boyfriend, the teacher hopes to help you better understand his thoughts, help you maintain your love, if you want, can you tell the old cracker in detail about your specific situation?

Is it in, dear? You can tell your teacher about your situation in detail, and the teacher will provide you with a solution based on experience and expertise.

- Please persuade your boyfriend to calm down and talk to his dad if he has something. Otherwise, it's easy to misunderstand, and it's not beautiful.

Besides, if you have real feelings, it is difficult for your parents to interfere; But respecting parents is also right, and communicating with elders as a younger generation should be rational, polite, and restrained, which is more helpful to solve problems. For example, if your boyfriend has a different opinion with you, and he yells at you, can you stand it?

Go and talk to your boyfriend and persuade him to be more patient when getting along with his dad, and don't set up and increase communication barriers for you. Do you think it's good?

Wishing you happiness!

How old are you and your boyfriend?

Any idea why his dad doesn't like you?

What is the situation of the two of you in love, is there anything wrong?

What is your boyfriend's attitude, to you, and whether he really likes you, loves you, and wants to be with you despite the opposition of his family.

Your attitude towards your boyfriend, if you like each other very much, find out the contradiction and solve it, if you can't solve it, you will drag your parents, and you will be able to accept you after a long time. You are kind to his parents, and they will always like you over time, and you don't say why you don't like you, it's hard to solve it.

If you don't like you for no reason, you should be more attentive first, behave better, if it doesn't work, it depends on your boyfriend's attitude, it's a big deal to cut first and then play, and in the end it's really not good, please let it go, girls can't afford to hurt.

I don't think you need to be afraid, because the person you marry is your boyfriend's father who is not your boyfriend, your boyfriend supports you, you respect your boyfriend's father, and it would be good to have a clear conscience.

Knowing each other and knowing oneself can survive a hundred battles, understand the situation of his family, let your boyfriend try to communicate with his parents, ask his parents for their thoughts and opinions, boyfriend is a bridge, very important. As long as you are not in a hurry to get married, work slowly and there will always be a way. I'm the same as you, even more tragic than you, my parents directly strongly objected, and the trouble was vigorous, and I said that if you don't go home, I don't want you as a daughter, but we still persevered, hehe, now we are very happy, as long as each other's hearts are firm, work together, there is nothing that cannot be solved, calm down, bless you, dear

The quality of their family is not very good, they don't like you in time, and they shouldn't scold you in front of you and blow you away? Such a father is really speechless, what is your boyfriend's attitude?

You try to do your best, don't let him look down on you, do what you have to do, and you can also ask your boyfriend to regulate the relationship.

It's not that I want to speak ill of the countrymen, but the problem of patriarchy is still very common in the countryside. And his parents came to scold you without asking the reason, this is a very excessive thing, is our Beijing girl so easy to bully?

Besides, you left your home and ran all the way there, so they didn't want to think about anything, and you beat and scolded people for this trivial matter, is this unreasonable for you? Although Beijingers love to talk about reason, we can't take care of it, right? Turning around like this and leaving, I'm so sorry for the temperament of the northerners.

Call the police to the public security bureau and ignore it, you go directly to the police station, and if the person on duty does not accept it, you will go directly to the director, you tell them that you are from Beijing, you see if they can handle it, the public security bureau should have accepted this matter, if this is not accepted, what is it called the public security bureau? Besides, if your family knows about this, your parents will never tolerate their daughter being bullied outside and running home to complain. If you don't deal with the next level, you will find the next level.

They have to be brought over to make the guy apologize for another 48 hours.

If you really don't want to call the police, then find a print shop, print out your bullying deeds, and spread them directly into the village to see how the family stays.

Don't look for the village chief, it's useless. The village chief must be persuading, turning big things into small things, don't look back, things can't be solved and be bullied.

Such a man beats you because of this little thing, it's really not a thing, how can you get out of this breath if you don't lock up the girl for 48 hours?

Just want to ask why the landlord is still willing to be with each other.

Not a person of the same world at all, he doesn't understand love, or backward thinking, and breaks up completely.

Such a person you can choose to sue.

You go back to this kind of man, maybe their family can't get used to your daughter-in-law from the city.

I don't have the quality to beat a woman is really a man I advise you to divorce Why suffer with her You decide for yourself.

For no reason, the point is how he hits you.

I don't know if it's true! There's no way to identify it.

In this case, parents generally hit their own children!! It's not so much an example as it is just that it is dishonorable for their children to do such things (most parents think that premarital sex is dishonorable, especially for girls).

As for your boyfriend, he is really cowardly, even if he won't stand up for your dad to beat you when your dad beats you, he should at least protect you and let your dad stop beating you, and he actually got angry with you because of this, so it can be seen that he doesn't care much about you, if he really loves you, don't say that his dad will feel distressed when he beats you, even if your dad beats him, he should feel indifferent.

There is also a possibility, that is, he thinks that you have been caught hurting his self-esteem and face, so that he can't get down the steps, then you can communicate with him well, your father's violence or not has nothing to do with him, after all, you are his girlfriend!!

There is also a possibility that you are scared by your dad, and you can also explain it well.

But in the end, he is still cowardly, and he can even be said to have no responsibility at all, but the two of them are also fate, if you really love him, try to reconcile. If he is still so cold, then there is no need to continue, a man in such a situation not only does not stand up for you, but finds an excuse to distance you, and he is not worthy of being with you!

Well, looking at what you say, dare to ask how old you are? If you are a student, your dad is for your own good, he doesn't want you to be distracted and wants you to concentrate on your studies. No, I'm a little hard to say...

Your dad must be against you being with your boyfriend, and the reason why you are in this situation is that you lack communication... Ask your dad why, and then make a decision. Also, persuade your boyfriend that your dad may be beating you for your own good.

To be honest, maybe your dad doesn't want you to fall in love early or hide from him to fall in love. But your boyfriend didn't stop you when he saw you being beaten, but instead said that your dad ignored you again, do you think this man is worth living with in the future?

Huh · Your dad is too violent, and in the face of this, your boyfriend beat you hard, which shows that you don't recognize him, so he doesn't have the courage to communicate with you!

It's not possible for you to get married.

If you want to fight, you have to hit that man! Dad,.

The father is feudal and patriarchal, and the man is also cowardly, so it is more reliable to suggest that you work for a few years and then talk about your feelings!

Hurry up and change someone who even your father is afraid of how to mix in your house in the future.

How old are you two, it's normal to be young, and your dad is too old.