Do you find life boring? It seems that they are all living for others

Everybody has a lock in their soul, and the chains on it connect people they know and who they don't know, and it's called vanity.

Vanity is the way others look at you, what others think of you, there is no so-called difference between living for others and living for yourself, in the final analysis, they are all living for yourself, and the difference is how much you value vanity, when family is contrary to ideal love, people choose differently not to live for others or themselves, the former is because vanity brings him more feelings than his own ideals and love, and the latter is the opposite, generally people who have your kind of sigh are indifferent and vain people, that is to say, people who live for themselves, at least for now If parents have a certain amount of wisdom, then they will "have their own children and grandchildren", I am optimistic about such people, because they dare not dare to abandon vanity, at least theoretically, dare to theoretically, theory is the beginning of practice, and then will not change because of society, that is the degree of implementation of a person's beliefs

In fact, to put it mildly, since there have been human beings, so many years, so many dynasties, but you have been born to the present, but you have such parents, but let you enjoy things that your predecessors can't use, but you can't enjoy things that future generations use, but let you have this kind of consciousness and have such thoughts, relatively speaking, what a small chance this is, this probability is smaller than the chance of a meteorite hitting the earth, human life is only a hundred years, and because of secular ideas, feudal dogma, not doing what you really want to do is the real stupidity She who loves will not have a second identical her If you miss it, you will miss it Youth will not have a second identical youth If you miss it, you will miss it Best friend will not have a second identical friend If you miss it, you will miss it Parents will not miss It is a gain and a loss After the throbbing of youth Farewell to the tail of youth and come to be filial to your parents Putting such a child is our own creation After all, we are already created in this world.

For the sake of the family, for the sake of face, for the sake of comparison, for the sake of money...These things all have a prefix called "yours"....These are the things at the bottom of life, which are called material. For ideals, for youth, for wishes, for love....These are the spirits. A person's life cannot only have material things, because such people are called philistines.

I'm sure you're not. There is sunshine in your heart, but it has not yet pierced your confusion. You have the fragrance of flowers in your heart, but you haven't crossed that ocean yet...

People should first live for themselves, and I am for ideals, for aspirations, for love ......For the unknowable future, for the knowledge you don't know.

Life is only a hundred years, live in style, and then die in style, this is a chic life!

Classic, agreed!!

Hungry What do you want to do so much Do you know Tao Yuanming Learn from him Actually, it is because of these that people become indecisive in their careers and do not want to make progress.

In response to your question, from a philosophical point of view:

It's not fun to live, why? People live in the world, is to enjoy the whole process of personal life at the same time, but also with their own knowledge, intelligence and fighting spirit to pursue a happy life, but will be restricted by a variety of objective factors, sometimes will feel powerless or difficult and difficult, life is difficult, dwarfed, and the ideal goal is too far away, the gap is very large, resulting in upset, frustrated psychological feelings, so some people will sigh "life is boring".

In fact, you don't see all living beings working hard in the world, relying on their own hands and brains, intelligence and hard work, in order to seek food and clothing and happiness in life, everyone is busy, struggling, fighting, gambling, struggling, who is not restricted? Who doesn't have difficulties? It's just a matter of size and quantity.

No one can transcend the laws of nature and society, ants still steal life, let alone people? Lower your personal desires a little, tailor your clothes, and be content and happy; The pain of his desire is better than the happiness of freedom.

for food for thought. If you think it's good, give it to me!

We are not accustomed to change, traditions, ideas, habits, and we feel safe and easy to seek common ground by hiding behind these things. But they neglect to think and analyze. Many older people around me have given up reading for many years except for the news, and human nature remains the same, but knowledge needs to be constantly updated and expanded, and the same thinking is not an innate ability, and it also needs to be constantly studied and trained.

Many old people don't know that they don't know, they just complain that they can't keep up with the world today, in fact, it's not that the world has abandoned them, but that they choose to be left behind, they can stop working hard, stop fighting, and use this as an excuse for their failure.

Ideas are not inherently harmful. Ideally, it helps us to establish the necessary distance between people in a world full of conflicting interests, and to make cooperation between people possible. It makes it possible for us to learn from past experiences and be able to plan for the future properly.

As human beings in society, it is impossible for us to be without ideas. The problem only arises when we are too attached to what we have experienced in the past and when we try to grasp the future too much, that is, when we are so confused by ideas that we use them to expel our awareness and feelings of the present. At this time, ideas, whether usually considered good or evil, become poisons that corrode our hearts and deprive us of our freedom and happiness.

Our focus is no longer on the mind, but on the brain. And those who try to grasp freedom and happiness with their brains are like trying to take it forever with a bucket because they like the waves of the sea, and they can only get a basin of stagnant water.

Countless facts around us tell us that age, experience, social status, the accumulation of material wealth, and seemingly solid family relationships alone do not make us more capable of happiness and freedom. An elderly elder, a person with a prominent position, a wealthy man, a husband, father, or even grandfather with decent and intact family relationships are often inferior to a child who has not reached adulthood in his ability to obtain happiness and freedom, and in his understanding of happiness and freedom. This is why people often lament that the more people live, the more boring they become, and when facing death, they lament that death is like a lamp going out, and that life is meaningless in the end, just an empty one.

I was impressed by a fable I read in my early years, which said that man is like a little mouse in the field when he is young, free and carefree. But as the little mouse ran, he found that a wall was slowly appearing on either side of him, and the wall was getting narrower and narrower. What made the little mouse even more creepy was that when it seemed to be about to run to the end, there was a cat squatting in the narrowest place, staring at it.

Feeling lonely and helpless, the soul is erased by difficulties, the flood of memories is flooded, and there is a great rebellion in the sky.

Life is a journey.

In this world, the meaning of life should be cultivation.

As a human being, it is not easy for us to come to this world for a walk, since we are human beings, we must have shortcomings, and the practice is to remove all these shortcomings and pollution.

Recorded from The Grace of the Butterfly, page 174.

Every person's life is actually the journey of every life, every life is passed in a hurry, every life is very short, every life is very impermanent, and we all understand this. However, I found that on the road of life, as long as I realized a word, a little truth, and the meaning of life, that is the value of life.

Recorded from page 2 of Walking Through the World.

The meaning of life is not in fame, not in profit, not in wife, wealth, children, and fortune. The meaning of life is to cultivate the Tao, to pursue the true truth, to experience the true great wisdom, to practice it, to the unity of heaven and man, to return to the sea of Bilu nature, the bright sea of Buddha, the kind of enlightenment, the vast and bright, the whole world admires.

Does life have to be meaningful?

The avenue is invisible, and the sound of loud breaths. The meaning of life lies entirely in how you look at life, since everyone always has to die, and if you are worried about dying or not, then why should we worry? Instead of struggling to find the meaning of life, you should enjoy life on your own terms.

I'm alive, I'm happy. That's what my life is all about.

What do people live for?

Physiologically, living is to thrive!

On a perceptual level, being alive proves that you exist and that you are worthy! These values are reflected in various aspects, the work you do, the remuneration you get, etc., which are tangible values. Your care, help, love, etc., make your parents, wives and children, brothers, friends, etc. happy and happy, these are intangible values.

In this way, to live is to be a complete person.

How can life be fun?

It's all a personal decision! Every decision we make affects the individual and the people around us, how you treat others, and how others will treat you! In this way, how you treat life, life will treat you!

In fact, life is simple, as Xu Sanduo said on TV, "To live is to do meaningful things, and to do meaningful things is to live".

Of course, we also know that the society we live in is quite complex, which requires us to study hard, to change, to adapt.

On the other hand, society also gives you a stage to perform, which is the value of your existence.

With a friendly perspective, a sincere attitude, and a courageous attitude, do what you should do now, and complete what you should do as a child (or parent, friend). Your life will not be worth it!

Hope to see you change!

I send you a word and encourage you!

Tianxingjian, a gentleman should strive for self-improvement!

Those with a good name seek fame, those who are good seek profit, those who are lustful seek lust, and those who are idle seek leisure. As the so-called "each has its own way of living", everyone has what they care about the most, as long as they stick to their ideals, life is meaningful, don't blindly compare with others. There is a kind of person who lives the most boring and tiring, that is, he always cares about what others think of him, and lives in the eyes of others, which is destined for you to live for others in this life, and of course you will lose yourself, what is the meaning of such a life?

I used to think about this problem, at that time I was very confused, very depressed, naively thought that the world is less than one of me, and then gradually understood that people live to prove the meaning of their existence, the value of existence, is a person to mix up the individual, to have ideals, pursuits, struggle, always maintain infinite enthusiasm for life, work and the world, I think only in this way, life will be worthwhile.

Do what you want to do. And sweat, pain, relief, nervousness, laughter.

Man lives for a hope that tomorrow will be better than today, that is, more beautiful, richer, happier, and healthier.

Establish a goal (which can't be too high, not too low) and keep working towards it. Establish another goal, or continue to work towards the set goal.

Everyone has different pursuits, do what they like, and strive to accomplish something to make the people around them happy. Don't worry too much about the people you don't like and don't like you, and enjoy the scenery before you reach the end and become famous.

Do meaningful things, enrich yourself and care for others. Try to make your life as full as possible.

People are a thinking reed, how far our thoughts are, how far we can roll, so I think it is a good way to read more books, go on trips, broaden your horizons, improve your thoughts, and then decide your life - decide your own - decide your own.

Some people live for the sake of living, some people live for a better life, and some people live for the sake of society.

What you realize is a law, a result.

Life is an accident, death is an inevitability!

The process of living is life!

Don't ask yourself to take every step is right, only ask yourself to take every step is no regrets, life is enough!

Find the value of your existence while you are alive! Make your life a little fuller!

Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once!

To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life!

If you can't find the value of your own existence, just think about yourself, give yourself an explanation, give your parents, friends, and the one you love the most!

Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset, giggle a little, and draw a perfect picture of your life...

The meaning of being alive is to find the meaning of being alive:

1) Everyone has their own meaning in life. Man, live for yourself. Meaning is working towards one's own goals.

Success takes sweat. Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy. On the contrary, if a person does not have ideals, what is done is to do it for others to see, what can he experience, people can not even experience these by themselves, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, Why don't you be happy every day".

3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.