It s so hard, why do you want to be a female doctor?

On the one hand, it is to realize his life ideals and make his life no longer dull; On the other hand, I also want to make myself a person who stands out and change my destiny.

Because people now have high requirements for women, not only requiring women to be gentle and lovely, but also requiring women to have enough economic strength and work ability, so many women have to pursue high education and expect a high-paying job in the future!

Because the education in today's society is getting higher and higher, and the people around me are basically undergraduates, so if you want to become better, you can only study for a few more years.

Most of the female doctors around me are like this: they can wear makeup and dress and match, they like to go out and relax on the weekend - go out for outdoor sports or eat and shop with friends, they are still obsessed with young idols, they will chase the current hit dramas and variety shows, they will vote for them who participate in the talent show, they will pay attention to the dynamics of the people they like, they like to watch food broadcasts on Douyin, and they are no different from young girls. The most important thing is that there are really no three words of female doctor on their faces.

But this does not mean that as doctors, they have fallen and are no longer dedicated to scientific research. On the contrary, they are more serious and focused, but they know more about what they want, how to arrange their time and plan their lives, how to make themselves full of motivation on the way forward, and more aware of the meaning of struggle and hard work.

Yes, the female doctors in my eyes are simple, cute, serious, and high-quality, they pay attention to the beauty in life, they treat their feelings seriously and cautiously, sensible and reasonable, even if the general environment imposes a lot of pressure on them as girls, but they still choose to wait for love. They can create good living conditions for themselves without relying on anyone, they are brave enough, completely unrestrained, capable of getting what they want, and they are materially and spiritually independent enough, so that a boyfriend is just a nice to the cake for them, not a necessity.

Is that a female doctor who doesn't want to find a boyfriend? I can say with certainty: no.

They are full of expectations for love like teenage girls, they hope to have a companion on the road of life to rely on, and they want the right person to appear in the ...... that can reduce the strange vision given by society

But the reality is that their circle is getting smaller and smaller, and they know fewer and fewer boys, and the probability of hail closure is lower and the quality of men is also unsatisfactory. Rely on other people's introductions, boys run away as soon as they hear about female doctors, and I don't think I need to say much about the impact of labels and prejudices. And invisibly, the different experiences brought by different academic qualifications lead to great differences in everyone's three views and topics, and it is difficult for an undergraduate man to communicate with a doctoral woman on the same surface without barriers, even if a female doctor is willing, a male student may not be willing, after all, the psychological pressure is too great.

Some people may say that they are so good and have a high vision, they are too picky. Yes, they are picking, but not picking his RV deposit, but picking someone who is willing to be sincere to them and can see that there is also a little girl behind the female doctor, and pick someone who is willing to grow up and struggle with them, if there is no such person, they would rather be single.

To sum up, this is the reason why high-quality female doctors are still single, this is not a problem of one side, this is a real social problem. And it's no exaggeration to say that this phenomenon will get worse and worse!

High education, high income, high age, high vision.

The vision and requirements are high.

First, because you're on top. No one dared to approach. Second, check your emotional intelligence index. Finally, it is necessary to realize that marriage and family need the simplest common sense of life. Then learn a little more common sense of life.

Why has it been difficult for a female doctor to get off a single degree, why has a female doctor already read a doctorate and got a doctorate, it stands to reason that she is a very good contemporary female intellectual, why has it become difficult to get off a single? In this regard, some people think that female doctors are generally not good-looking, and they are not popular in the face-watching society. There are also people who say that female doctors have a high vision and look down on men with general academic qualifications, and there are not many male students with the same education.

Some people also think that female doctors are busy with academic research all day long, and they have little love experience in a small social circle, so it is naturally difficult to get out of the single.

In fact, each female doctor is an independent individual, and they have their own reasons for the difficulty of getting out of the single. However, under normal circumstances, it is difficult for female doctors to get out of singles mainly due to the following three reasons:

1.There are not many male PhDs with the same qualifications.

In this era of paying attention to the right family, female doctors are highly educated and generally speaking, the family conditions are not too bad, which has produced a common threshold for female doctors to choose a mate: master's degree or less is not considered. It is not difficult for friends who pay more attention to education to find that the number of female college students is now more than that of male college students, and the number of female doctors is generally higher than the number of male doctors in the same major and circle.

This imbalance between men and women has a direct impact on the path of female doctors.

2.The sense of independence of female doctors has been further enhanced.

Knowledge brings people a deeper and clearer understanding of the world and self, and the female doctor wanders in the sea of books, and her understanding of self-independence and liberation is further internalized. The current situation is that even if it is difficult for a female doctor to get out of a single order, the female doctor herself is not in a hurry. A high degree of education gives them the confidence that even one person can live a very chic life, and they would rather spend time waiting than settle at will.

3.Age may be a major resistance.

It is common to be able to get a doctorate degree after the age of 28, and in this society where women basically lose their free love channels as soon as they pass the age of 25, female doctors can often only turn to the blind date market if they want to get rid of their singles. In the blind date market, female doctors are often equated with the image of strong women, which is far from the traditional female image of husbands and children, and is naturally not popular.

Because female doctors have very high requirements for their boyfriends, and they want to find someone who is very consistent with their three views, it is very difficult, but I think I will definitely meet the person I love.

Because the requirements for the other half are relatively high, it is more difficult to get off the single.

Because men mind. Many men mind that women are more educated than themselves.