What can we trust if we give but don t get a reciprocal return?

A hard work and a harvest, there will always be a reward for payingIt may be that at the moment our efforts have not achieved immediate results, but at this time we must not be discouraged, quantitative change to achieve qualitative change, or it may be because our efforts are not enough, so at this time we must insist on patience, adjust their mentality and start again, I believe that one day our efforts will achieve corresponding returns.

Hard work may not be rewarded, but if you don't work hard, you will not succeed. There will be no pie in the sky, every success is the accumulation of their own efforts, even if sometimes our efforts do not receive the same return, but all efforts are worth it, one day there will be a god of luck to come to us, and all this is the result of our efforts.

I remember when I was in school, there was a classmate in our class, she was very hard working and serious in her usual studies, and her vision was particularly broad, her knowledge was very wide, and she had a lot of knowledge accumulation, but her results in every exam were not particularly ideal, and she felt that her efforts were in vain in the eyes of other students. But her mentality is very good, she firmly believes that one day there will be a return, so she has been working hard and persevering, and finally waited until the college entrance examination to get her due reward. That year's college entrance examination questions are very flexible, there is a lot of extracurricular knowledge, for her this is a good opportunity to show her talent, on the contrary, those who only know to read textbooks, only limit their vision to textbooks, they are also miserable, so when their efforts do not get the same harvest, do not be disappointed, perseverance will definitely be rewarded.

Opportunity is reserved for those who are preparedTherefore, in the usual study and work, we must continue to work hard, and constantly improve their strength, so that when the opportunity comes, we can firmly grasp the opportunity, if we blindly complain in ordinary life, then even if the opportunity comes, we can only watch him lose in vain, so don't leave any regrets to yourself, don't choose to relax when you should work hard.

If you haven't paid all the time, then it is estimated that there will be no return, so even if it is possible to harvest, then work hard, and there may be unexpected surprises.

In love, your efforts may not necessarily be rewarded. Because love is not necessarily equal, the other person does not ask you to give so much, you are willing to give. So don't complain if you pay, after all, it's our own willing feelings.

Trust your family, trust your parents, don't give up your life because of temporary gains and losses, don't trust others, not everyone is like this, and don't do everything with the mentality that you need someone to reciprocate.

If there is no reciprocal return, it means that your efforts are wrong, and there is still trust in life, but we are not familiar with people.

Some of our friends are very willing to help others who need help to Sue Changsong, or help others to do something, which is the spirit of Lei Feng and a noble virtue.

They are indeed very sincere to give a lot, they are within the scope of their ability and energy, to help others, it is a kind of joy for them, they take helping others as a kind of fun! They don't want to get anything in return, as the people being helped, they must know how to be grateful for the reward, work hard, carry forward their traditional virtues, and do a good job of inheritance.

Similarly, there are also people who like to help those in need, and this behavior is worth learning from and commendating.

However, in the hearts of a small number of people, there is such an idea that how much they give, they also like others to repay themselves equally. There is nothing wrong with having such thoughts, as the saying goes: the grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring.

Let's imagine if you help someone and ask for something in return, which is perfectly reasonable, and if you have the idea to ask someone else in return. In this way, you will have an expectation in your heart, and you will unconsciously use some vague ways to imply that the other party will repay you according to the same value in your words and deeds with the helped, and it is an invisible pressure on both parties.

If the person being helped is really working hard, due to the difference in the growth and education environment of each person, or the difference in ability and wisdom, it cannot be done within a certain period of time, which will produce extreme panic and guilt and great mental pressure. It will also have a certain impact on their working life and mind.

In the same way, people who help others will inevitably have loss and complaints, bad thoughts and emotions, and their mood will not be good, and their quick command will directly affect their work life and the happiness of their families, and they will doubt whether they should help others.

Isn't this a kind of mental torture, therefore, the best way, asking for a moderate return, for the person being helped by others, is the real embodiment of the meaning of help, but also a kind of motivation and encouragement. It is also a process of enjoying happiness for people who help other socks Zheng people.

Try to love someone. Giving may not necessarily be rewarded; If you don't give, you won't get anything, and don't expect miracles.

Man is lonely, and the only way to alleviate the pain it causes is to accept it calmly.

If you haven't experienced it, you'll never understand these truths, but it's good to hear them.

It can not be beautiful, it can not be cute, it can not be gentle, but it must be honest and kind.

Love all that is good, praise and enjoy the beauty that they bring. When difficulties come, face them with a smile and solve them with wisdom.

Have the courage to admit the mistakes you have made and take responsibility for them. Never give a friend who has betrayed you a second chance to betray.

No matter who you are, you have your own limits. Especially trust. Know how to listen to the advice of others.

What others say is remembered in the head, but what is said by oneself is kept in the heart.

Summary. Many people see hard work as a short-term reward and give up when there is no short-term return. Actually, no, hard work is a long-term process, and there are many things that you have experienced before that will show value later.

It's just that when it will show its value, no one can say. Behind all the is buried in the bitterness, hold on.

Effort is a long-term process, and we encourage each other.

I always believe that there is no return without paying!

Many people see hard work as a short-term reward, and when there is no short-term return, they turn to cavity rock and give up. Actually, no, hard work is a long-term process, and there are many things that you have experienced before that will show value later. It's just that when it will show its value, no one can say.

Behind all the is buried in the bitterness, Wu Heyu holds it. Effort is a long-term process, and we encourage you.

That's what it means?

After all, it's all long-term.

And there's more. If you don't pay, you won't be rewarded.

Sometimes the payoff may be small, but that's what you get.

Heartache, despair, nostalgia for old doubts in life Especially when other people's efforts are not as much as yours but more than yours, you will question yourself more, when such a thing happens once and twice, in addition to reflecting on your own questions and answers, you will feel that life is like this.

If you've been trying for a long time and still haven't been fruitful, think about what you did it for in the first place.

Understood, thank you.

There is no point in the pursuit itself, and the process of seeking is so dazzling in itself.