What should I do if I have a conflict with my roommate?

When you have a conflict with your roommate, of course, one party needs to take the initiative, and one party needs to compromise first. Otherwise, such a roommate relationship will become very awkward, and everyone lives in the same dormitory, looking up and not looking down. If anyone is not pleasing to the eye, and no one is happy to see anyone, then it will only make the whole dormitory atmosphere very embarrassing.

My classmate had a particularly bad relationship with one of her roommates, and as long as they were both in the dormitory, they would give each other a look. It's just a quarrel, maybe there won't be a lot of quarrels between adults, and the act of fighting, which seems too naïve. It's just more of a cold war, and no one talks to anyone.

Even if there is something, it will bypass her, and if you can, you will definitely not talk to her. What's even funnier about my two classmates is that they will be angry with each other, and if the other person sleeps, they will deliberately make a lot of noise. This is also quite childish in the eyes of others, but they do it, and they both feel that it is the fault of the other party.

So one of them eventually moved out of the dormitory and didn't live in the dormitory. This is also a method, but I think this is a way to solve the problem, it can only be calm and peaceful on the surface, but the root of the problem still exists.

I have a roommate, Xiao P, who is very possessive, and she is very good with the other person in the dormitory, and she is always with her. But then I got involved with them, and I was with them whenever I could. It could also be said that they would take me with them for everything.

But at the same time I'm an independent myself.

But that's the case, my relationship with Xiao P is just not light or deep, I'm better with another person, Xiao P always thinks I'm going to snatch that person away from her, and I'm always telling me about the tacit understanding between the two of them. I can't stand her like this, and gradually the contradictions between us will appear.

During one of the lessons, I just jokingly told the other person not to talk to the ticket. But Xiao P took it seriously, she was really stingy that day. Maybe I was at fault for not keeping my mouth shut and saying something I shouldn't have said.

She also scolded me, "Be sick!" "Oh my God, I can't stand it, just kidding? We haven't spoken a word since, and I've tried to talk to her, but she always looks like she's on top.

I don't want to talk to her anymore.

Although it is said that after such a contradiction occurs, one party needs to take the initiative to talk about it, and perhaps the contradiction will be resolved. But there is no need for the other party to be unforgiving, and sometimes it may not be with you. Contradictions cannot be created by one person, and the problems of two people need to be faced and solved together.

Finally, harmony is achieved.

Contradictions cannot be resolved without speaking, and they cannot be resolved by silently ignoring anyone. When a conflict occurs, you can discuss the problem with both of you in the dormitory, and solve it together with a group activity.