In today s society, why is it difficult to pass the level of trust between strangers?

Mentality problems, communication problems, this is there are several possibilities, your communication is not enough, resulting in this kind of thinking between you, over time, naturally lower and lower. It's not a pure friendship between you, there's already interests involved, which will also lead to a decrease in trust, but that's not the case for everyone, it's the status quo in China, and you can't blame anyone, because you won't be moved by interests, and it doesn't mean that others are the same as you. In fact, there will be reasons for insufficient communication.

In fact, you don't have to think too much about this, as long as you continue to believe in others, just believe in it, and keep a bottom in your heart. Because if you trust someone you trust, he will be more trustworthy. Trust the people you don't trust, and they will be trustworthy after a long time.

In the adult world, trust between people has always been based on some kind of certainty. For example, if you have been very good with a person since you were very young, you have a lot of contact with each other, and you know each other's temperament and character, then you will think that this person is credible, because in your heart there is a certainty that he will never do anything, and most friends and friends trust each other from this; For example, you grew up in a relatively favorable environment, no shortage of food and clothing, never because of the problem of survival resources and competition with others, over time, you will naturally stand tall and look far, will not easily distrust others because of some small things you think, this trust in others The certainty of trusting others comes from your values formed by your growth environment.

There are two reasons why people trust each other less and less: too little understanding and communication, too many misunderstandings, a lot of this kind of situation, too much understanding, knowing everything about others, knowing that he can not be trusted, in today's society, honest people are indeed often deceived, and they will be laughed at stupidly, but in fact, many people appreciate honest people, but the current social environment.

Without trust, there can be no social order. A society full of trust is a society with a sense of security and happiness. In today's society, there are too many standards, too many experts, and too many rules, so people can't believe it, and they will suffer a loss.

More and more Chinese are suffering from a phobia of deception, they have been taught countless times since childhood, do not talk to strangers, in the past natural disasters were many disasters and few disasters, now natural disasters are many and man-made disasters are more, everyone is not willing to easily give trust to others.

I believe that the trust between people is closely related to the world view, outlook on life and values of two people, and in the current world, especially in China, the socialist market economy has only developed for a few decades, in these decades, because the entire social system is centered on economic construction, people have little time and energy, and few initiatives to learn spiritual things, that is to say, the speed of economic development in the past few decades has seriously exceeded the speed of people to obtain spiritual support.

Because now the competition in society is becoming more and more fierce, and people's hearts are becoming more and more complex. The demand for trust between strangers is getting higher and higher, for example, when they see an elderly person fall on the road, they don't dare to help them, for fear that the other party will blackmail them.

Analysis of human nature, selfishness, greed, etc., in fact, are self-interest, which is the natural character of everyone, it is it that shapes the changeable character of people, almost no one is not seeking profit and avoiding evil, so it is not difficult to understand the various phenomena in today's society, treachery, chaos and abandonment, many words, representing many people resulting from poverty, sorrow and misfortune, and these three words are the root of Leibniz's evil. I think it's probably due to these factors!

Nowadays, it is becoming more and more difficult for people to trust each other, which is the inevitable stage of economic development. In the next few decades, with the slowdown of economic development and the construction of the social credit system, people's demand for spiritual culture will increase, and mutual trust between people will become easier and easier.

People pay more and more attention to personal gains and losses, so people pay more attention to your "value" in their interactions, and what help or influence this value has on them. If, unfortunately, you are not of much "value" in the eyes of others, or you are dispensable, then you will not feel guilty about the conflict that arises from a small contradiction. The reality is brutal.

I remember that I was chatting with a friend, and he suddenly threw out a question: "Whether it is doing business or making friends, it seems that there is a wall between people, and there is a growing lack of trust?" Thinking of my own work experience and life experience, it is indeed necessary to ** this phenomenon. It has become a fact that modern society is full of trust and distrust everywhere because of materialization, socialization, and pluralism.

Trust is built on multiple factors, so it is not possible to simply list a few specific conditions. Different people may have different standards of trust. But in general, people often consider the following factors:

Honesty: Whether the other person treats himself or herself truthfully and whether he speaks honestly.

Reliability: Whether the other party is able to consistently deliver on their promises.

Sense of responsibility: whether the other party is responsible for their actions and whether they can bear the consequences.

Common values: Whether the other party has similar values and whether they have similar moral standards.

Confidentiality: Whether the other party keeps personal information confidential.

The above are a few common factors that build a trusting relationship, but different people may have different opinions. When building a trusting relationship, it's important to evaluate the other person based on their own needs and values.

It is your heart to trust a person, and there are no conditions to speak of.

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People should trust each other, and they should not lend money to homeless passers-by because they are afraid that they will be cheated, and they should not help the elderly because they are afraid of being cheated by them.

If people trust each other, maybe you borrow something from others, others will be very happy, no longer stingy, because the other party believes that you have borrowed and repaid, the relationship between neighbors will not be bad, there may be no thieves in this world, maybe people will get along very well, there are fewer ruthless people, fewer thieves, fewer stingy people, and there is no longer the title of "iron rooster".

If you have a little more understanding, I believe that the winter in the world is no longer cold, more understanding, more warmth, just like a fire in winter, if we have more understanding in the face of a disabled person, give a smile to the disabled instead of a contempt, surprised look, maybe the disabled will not have the courage to live if they are not there, if we try to let the elderly on the bus. If a pregnant woman, a child younger than herself, or someone in difficulty does it, then the person who sits down will be grateful to you and have a warm heart, if we ......