My girlfriend is about to go on vacation, and I want to pick her up but she won t let me go, how can

Updated on psychology 2024-04-03
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't let you go, it's better not to go, either she has a family to pick up, and now she doesn't want to have you in front of her family publicly, in this case, respect your girlfriend's ideas, and it's better not to take it. Or ......If there is another man to pick up, it means that she has a man who is more important than you, and this situation is obviously not suitable for pickup. Either consider not wanting you to be tired, if you are sure that this is the case, you can pick it up, at least it can show that she is not afraid of being tired.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Is she worried that you are wasting your travel money, or feeling sorry for you too hard, if you still want to go, just surprise her and go by yourself, if you ask the reason, you can also figure it out if you don't go.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    My girlfriend is about to go on vacation and you want to pick her up, but she won't let you pick her up, and I think this situation should respect the girlfriend's approach. Probably considering the problem of spending money back and forth.

    So try to look at the problem from your friend's point of view, and if you have to pick it up, then you can only try to communicate tactfully.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Quietly pass, surprise him, so that he will like you very much, women like the romance brought by surprises, very modern, you have to learn to be romantic.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe she has friends to go back with, or maybe he's going to see another boy, so he doesn't want you to pick her up, it's better to figure it out, if that's the case, I'd suggest breaking up as soon as possible, or then there will be endless trouble, listen to someone's advice, it's better not to be together; Finish.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because it's about to be a holiday, you want to pick her up, but she doesn't want you to go, which means that the other party hasn't thought about it yet, and living with you is insecure for fear that something else will happen.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, if you don't let you go, you won't go, she may also be afraid that it will delay your business, just wait for her at home.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your girlfriend is on summer vacation, you want to pick him up, and he doesn't want to, then you ask him to wait for the holiday and then go to him, if you don't want to, forget it, this kind of thing can't come reluctantly, and people may not have a better one, so you have to be firm in your thoughts, and if you don't want to, forget it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should tell her I'll be going to pick you up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Give your girlfriend an unexpected surprise and tell him that you've arrived at his school or where he works.

    He was surprised and delighted, and suddenly appeared beside him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You want to pick him up, but people may think it's too abrupt, and then he might want to go home or something.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, ask him why he didn't let you go, was he afraid of trouble, afraid that you would be tired, or what? If that's the case, you're definitely going to surprise him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    As for my brother, it's like sugar, always talking sweetly to my mother, and my mother just can't stop the hateful "sugar-coated cannonball". Once, my father and my mother had a big fight over a trivial matter. The two of them haven't taken care of each other for a whole week

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not necessarily that she doesn't like you, but it's certain that she has something to hide from you! Of course, maybe she is not confident, afraid that you will be disappointed in her when you see the deity and see her living environment!! I'm afraid you look down on her in your heart!!

    Maybe there's a mess on her side that you can't clean up!! Or you have friends, or you haven't made your boyfriend public!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Scrambled eggs with cucumber, what else can I do? Go straight to it. You don't have to tell him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Women's minds are sometimes very subtle and complicated, often sometimes men think like this, thinking that he will definitely do this, but in fact, otherwise he did the opposite, encountered this situation, and it is not easy to assert that he is unwilling to pay attention to himself, but some girlfriends are very subtle, and even said that he went to other girlfriends to share the happiness and joy between the two of you with his girlfriends, and then let everyone refer to him, whether he and you should continue, Or whether it's appropriate or not, etc., in short, there will be nothing else. If he doesn't want to be nice to you, then because of what you should know in your heart, but this situation will not happen, I wish you will be together sooner or later, and happiness will always belong to you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Two ways to choose by yourself:

    1.The other party wants you to take the initiative to make this decision, depending on how deep your feelings for her are, it can be understood as a test of love.

    2.Maybe the other party has a deep relationship with your best friend, and then you don't get along long enough or you don't have a flat relationship with you, so you don't reach the other party's unbalanced state in the relationship between your best friend and your boyfriend, so you choose one of them. If your girlfriend will make a choice, she will definitely explain to you in detail why she chose her girlfriend and didn't choose you.

    This is clear to you without lz! How to choose LZ must also be cautious!

    In both cases, the landlord will 'face the wall' again!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Summary. Good evening kiss, go to your girlfriend on vacation, girlfriend disagrees, maybe she wants to take a break on vacation, she doesn't want to go out, and she hasn't told her family yet, she is not ready?

    I'm going to find my girlfriend on vacation, but my girlfriend doesn't agree, what kind of mentality.

    Good evening kiss, go to find a girlfriend on vacation, girlfriend disagrees, maybe she wants to rest on vacation to stop Jian Peiying, she doesn't want to go out, and is it that she hasn't told her family yet, she is not ready?

    I've been communicating with him on my mobile phone, and we haven't met each other yet.

    Dear, this situation is that she is not ready to meet you.

    I met him on October 20 last year.

    Girls love beauty, for example, before she meets you, she has to go to the beauty shirt wheel yard, to do hair, and to **, but also to buy clothes or wheel letters, all the preparation work of this sedan chair takes a while.

    She shouldn't be ready to see you yet.

    Once he told me that I wouldn't see you when you went, and it wasn't time for me.

    Yes, that proves she's not ready to meet you.

    That is to say, your relationship is not very mature, and it has not yet reached the point where you don't see each other for a day, and it needs to be further deepened and strengthened.

    If your relationship matures, he will take the initiative to ask you to meet her, or she will come to see you.

    Oh, I see, thanks.

    Uh-huh, do you have any other questions to ask the teacher?

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  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'm going to find my girlfriend on vacation, but my girlfriend doesn't agree, what kind of mentality.

    It may be that the girl is shy and doesn't know how to face this step yet, and wants you to accompany her. Or maybe it's because he's worried that your money isn't enough to spend, and Lun Zaofeng doesn't want you to spend too much money, of course, she may not be confident, afraid that you will be disappointed in her when you see the deity and her living environment, afraid that you will look down on her in your heart, and maybe she has a mess that you can't clean up or have friends, or you don't disclose your boyfriend. In this case, you have to give the girl a sense of security, ask her why she doesn't go, and make it clear to her, after all, your treasure will definitely tell you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Then you can discuss it with her.

    But if you haven't gotten married yet, if you want to go, go to **!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    During the Chinese New Year, when your girlfriend is reluctant to go home with her for the New Year, she should be more generous as a boyfriend, and don't show her displeasure because she doesn't go home with her for the New Year, which looks a little stingy and unmanly, or has some quarrels with your girlfriend, and makes yourself and your girlfriend feel so bad.

    Analyze the causes. When your girlfriend is reluctant to go home with you for the New Year, you have to analyze what causes it first. It's because his girlfriend already has a plan for the New Year, and it conflicts with her own plan; Or the girlfriend is not psychologically ready to meet her parents, etc., after considering these factors, you will no longer be entangled in this trivial matter.

    Comfort your parents.

    When your girlfriend is unwilling to go home with herself for the New Year, she should report to her parents in time, comfort her parents, don't let your parents worry about herself, let your parents not be happy, and have the opportunity to see your future daughter-in-law.

    Empathy. When your girlfriend is reluctant to go home with you for the New Year, you should consider the problem from your girlfriend's point of view. Because the unit of work is different, the nature of the work is different, and the occupation is different. During the Spring Festival, you see that medical staff will still stand on the front line to serve the people's health, and many people have given up the opportunity to reunite with their families during the Spring Festival and silently make their own contributions in their posts.

    Not every couple will have the opportunity to embark on the journey home for the New Year during the Spring Festival.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Listen to your girlfriend, she is the most important decision-maker, let you do whatever you want, don't think about it, and naturally everything will go well!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I look at this issue; You first have to talk to your girlfriend about it. Tell her that it's best for her to go to your house with you for the New Year. Marriage is a major event in life, go to your house to meet your parents, if she also needs you to go to her house to meet your parents.

    That's what you should do as a couple. If she doesn't want you to go to her house either, she doesn't want to go to your house. You have to go home for the New Year by yourself.

    It's fate that you can never run, it's not fate that you can't keep if you want to.

    Fortune Telling Street; Kaiyang; The eight-character fortune telling name was changed to feng shui.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It is a pity that the development of human beings does not develop according to this good wish, and people want to live a good life, but all kinds of contradictions and conflicts between human beings have made human beings endless.

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