How to stabilize a wanderer who is confused!

01 is 15 years old, so you are only in your early 20s, and it is really difficult for a man at this time to become famous. Those who choose to study have been studying hard in school, and those who choose to improve themselves have not accumulated capital to a certain extent, and they are only helping people to work! The landlord is too anxious!

Since you went out to work at the age of 15, I thought of a way to make you stable: now for many laborers, going out to work has become the mainstream, but I heard that it is very tiring, and it is a job to eat young, if you have a long-term plan, it is fine, if you don't have a long-term plan, like some people I have seen work to earn some money and squander, only in the future when you enter middle and old age, the consequences will be tragic.

Now for you to have a long-term plan: to return to your hometown, to your hometown. It's the place where you were raised, and the sense of belonging must be strong, so what are you going to do when you go back?

At present, the labor force is outside, and a lot of land in the countryside is deserted, and even if there is no waste, no cash crops can be grown because of the lack of labor. Go back and investigate the advantages of your hometown, I believe that there are advantages everywhere, but it depends on whether you have unearthed it, for example, whether you can develop breeding industry, sheep raising, chicken raising, or you have a large area of barren mountains, whether you can develop fruit cash crops, or you have abundant aquatic products, but they have not been exploited, whether you can develop fish farming, as long as you want, you can do anything. This is how bold the heart is and how productive the earth is!

Of course, I am talking here to return to your hometown to develop your own business, you have to have a full plan, just planning is estimated to take half a year to a year, for example, market research, how to sell my sheep? Whether it is retail or order ** to the restaurant, it is necessary to fully consider, and you also need to have a long-term vision, such as sheep raising, which should be spaced at intervals in different regions, all need to be considered, and these are what you need to learn. From**?

Of course, it is necessary to read relevant books, and what you do must be guided by science and abandon the backward concept of production in the countryside!

Of course, it is easy to say, but it is certainly not easy to do, but I have seen several examples of entrepreneurship around me, and the successful ones are the last to persevere.

Funding is a problem, I don't know how much money you have accumulated now, if there is a tens of thousands, of course it is good, if not, then accumulate it, loans are also a method, and now the state encourages loans to the new rural economy! Don't think about being afraid of losing, don't dare to lend, opportunities belong to those who have courage, don't fight now, do you still want your descendants to have a lack of stability!

That's what I said, hope it helps you a little!!

1. The most warm thing is a home, if you want to be stable, you have to find a nest for yourself.

2, the happiest thing is a woman, if you want to be stable, you have to find a companion for yourself.

3. Bread is the beginning of all life, if you want to be stable, you must quickly find yourself a job.

4. Spirit is the pillar of matter, if you want to be stable, stop posting, what should you do.

Maybe you haven't encountered a reason or reason to really stop wandering, I think, except for civil servants, other industries and positions are temporary workers, and this is not a big deal, the vast majority of people in China are not living like this.

Every year is sad, every year passes; No home everywhere. Is the situation born from the heart? There is no need to be sentimental and at a loss. Everything starts from now, I believe that there may not be results if you pay, but if you don't pay, there will be no results.

Then find a stable job.

That's better than what I play at home.

You don't have to ask us that question. It's you! It's you who feel lost.

In the brave heart, the protagonist did not feel lost before he died, and shouted that freedom (freedom) people should have confidence in themselves. I don't have a diploma or a degree, but I have healthy hands and body.

As long as you're willing to look for it, no one will want it.

In fact, the definition of wandering in the dictionary is: wandering from place to place, with no fixed whereabouts, no fixed residence, wandering, indulgence, and no restraint. From this definition, wandering is first of all a very free thing, unrestrained, no need to worry about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, no need to worry about being late for work tomorrow, worrying that you will be fired by your boss ...... squidIn my mind, there are four kinds of people who like to wander, and I will analyze them one by one.

The first type is a person who wanders only for the pursuit of freedom, a person likes to wander, his initial idea is to pursue himself, he does not want his life to be bound by some conventional rules and regulations, and in the depths of their hearts live a restless and uninhibited heart. In addition, people who like to wander are very stubborn and have made decisions that are difficult to change, even if this habit will bring some trouble to their families, they will still follow their hearts and will not compromise for some practical problems.

The second type is a person who chooses to wander because of a serious conflict between his ideals and reality. Most of these people are dissatisfied with reality, and in the face of this conflict, they choose to wander, and they want to find a point that is in line with their ideals on this road, to pursue their ideals, such as some wandering singers. They chose a relatively free way to pursue their ideals, did not compromise for reality, and wandered for a brave heart that dared to innovate and struggle, which was understandable, but they just chose a different way of life.

The third type of people, I think, are the lowest level of wanderers, because the reason why they choose to wander is not because they are willing, but because they are forced by life to escape from reality, and after choosing to wander, they will also say that this is the life they have been pursuing. When encountering some major setbacks in life, there are many people who are in a state of collapse, and choose to wander and escape in order to avoid the problems in reality. Leave the problem to your family and let them bear everything, this kind of wanderer is the most irresponsible coward who does not dare to face life, we Chinese have an old saying:

I can hide from the first day of junior high school, but no more than fifteen."

In this era of natural selection and the winner is king, this kind of person who has no responsibility and is only dedicated to himself is bound to be eliminated. This last type of wandering person is a person who is extremely insecure, and they often have the heart to rise with the wind and fall with the rain.

There is no convincing argument that they choose to wander, they have no goal, they just want to wander, maybe their hearts are very lonely, and they do not have a good listener in life, so they want to seek some security in this unknown journey.

Man lives. In order to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

It will be very hard, how can you live without money?