If you don t fall asleep at 12 o clock at night, what if you don t like anyone the next day?

Because you are a person who does things for yourself, you don't know the rules of life, everyone comes to this world, they are equal, you are rich, you have a status is also three meals a day, but also warm clothing, people are poor is also three meals a day, but also warm clothing, you have no qualification to comment on others, let alone look at people unpleasant.

Nowadays, everyone is accustomed to sweeping the snow in front of their door, and too few people will pay too much attention to such an unpleasant person and give it care. What's more, even if you go to explain to him that it is his problem, he will not appreciate it, which will lead to him becoming the target of public criticism.

In today's society, there is a huge pressure from all sides, and most people have psychological problems. Anxiety, or depression, are all potential mental illness dangers. The kind of person mentioned by the subject, always feels that he is right, anyone is humble and narrow in his eyes, so he doesn't like anyone, but this arrogance has led to everyone hating him, and even isolating him, and the worst thing is his own pathology, but he doesn't know it.

I think this kind of person has a big psychological problem, he is too anxious, and he feels that all people and everything are not in line with his heart, and all of them are not pleasing to the eye. When facing this kind of person, if you can have a clear conscience, then you don't need to argue, you don't have to care, and the clear person is self-clear.

There are always some people and things in life that make us look unpleasant and don't like it so much, and the reason is probably because they don't meet our three standards. Before you think about why you don't like someone, think about why you like someone. I like a person mostly because he is pure, simple and unpretentious, and there is also a reason that most of the people also appreciate me, so they will put her in the friendly zone, otherwise they will be blacklisted.

More and more I find that everything follows the law of conservation, if you like a lot of people and can accept a lot of people, then you will also be accepted and liked by many people, but if you don't like some people, there will always be the same number or even more people who can't accept you. But whether a person is pleasing to the eye or not is completely his own subjective will, why not try to downplay this personal emotion.

In addition to increasing one's negative emotions and affecting one's life, living by self-anesthesia also actively refuses to grow and progress, which is quite dangerous. The ancients said: When you see the virtuous, you can think together, and when you see the unvirtuous, you should introspect yourself, so when you meet people who are better than yourself, you should learn from each other, rather than silently hostile to each other.

When you don't like others, there is also a possibility that the person you are focusing on is better than you, at least slightly better than you in some point. In order to satisfy your jealousy and unwillingness, you will definitely try to find the unpleasant points of the other party and amplify them, so as to convince yourself that the other party is not as good as you. But in fact, this is just an illusion created by yourself, whether you look at it or not, the other party is still excellent, this is a fact.