I always want to break up after something goes wrong, should I do that?

Of course, this kind of behavior of yours should not be, if there is a problem between the two of you, the first thing you should do should be to find a solution, instead of thinking of breaking up as soon as there is a problem, this is a sign of cowardice, because it is impossible for every couple to have no problems, as long as two people are together, there will always be friction, so all you have to do is to actively look for a solution to the problem, instead of running away from it, do you really think that breaking up will solve the problem? When you meet the next person, it's still the same. The cycle of death caused by this is only yourselves who suffer in the end!

Like myself, I often quarrel with my boyfriend, I cry every time I have a problem, but my boyfriend will come to coax me, although every time I will break up with him, but he never cares about what I say, because he told me: What pair of lovers in the world who came to the end, every time they quarreled, did not think about breaking up a thousand times? It can be said that every couple of lovers has thought this way, but whether we want to do it or not is our own choice.

You must know that two people are just quarreling, and it is not a deep hatred, is it necessary to break up for a little problem? Of course, this is not necessary, you must know that it is far more difficult for two people to be together than to quarrel and say to break up, if it is so easy for two people to break up, then why go to all the trouble to be together in the first place?

Since it is not easy to be together, it should be cherished, and we will solve the problem well, you must know that even family members will quarrel, let alone between our lovers. But aren't we still reconciled after a fight with our family? So it's the same when we quarrel with someone we love, don't break up easily, or you'll regret it!

No. Seeing this topic, I suddenly remembered what Rosie's boyfriend said to Meng Yun in the previous raiders: In our time, broken things have to be repaired, and love is the same, and if something goes wrong, you have to work hard to solve it, but for the young people of your era, it seems that if it is broken, it will be replaced with a new one, and there is no such thing as repairing.

Meng Yun was silent there for a long time.

I think Rosie's boyfriend is quite right, if something breaks, you have to fix it, and if something goes wrong, you have to work hard to solve it, instead of blindly breaking up. Love is a matter of two people, when you established this relationship, it means that you are responsible for each other, in this case, this responsibility must be borne to the end, as long as one party insists, then the other party can not irresponsibly say to give up (of course, stalking).

I think something went wrong or something had to be solved, and I kind of hated cold violence, but this is a precursor to a lot of boys breaking up? They will want to break up as soon as something goes wrong, but they won't say the word about breaking up, on the contrary, they will take the method of escaping and letting the girl say it, for me, this kind of boy no matter how good my impression of him was before, as long as he knows that he is a person who is willing to use cold violence, he will be directly divided into the ranks of scumbags in my place every minute. I hope that whether it's a couple or a friend, we have something to say about things, why don't you have to be cold and violent, right, I've always admired the kind of boy who is decisive when he encounters things, he will solve things for you at a critical time, I think this is a more reliable person, in comparison, the kind of problem always hides behind others, it's embarrassing, you say it's okay to have a small problem, once something big happens, you can't rely on it, so ah we have a problem or solve the problem.

If you want to analyze the reasons after a breakup, you can start from the three aspects of emotion, material and life, because most of the experiences you experience when you are together belong to these three levels. The first thing is emotion, because the first change that two people feel when they fall in love is that both parties may be very happy when they are just together, but after a long time, there will be all kinds of contradictions. This kind of conflict may make two people feel very unpleasant, but after the conflict is resolved, the relationship between the two parties may become closer.

But in the end, the step of breaking up shows that there is indeed an intractable problem between two people, and at this time you can consider why both parties broke up. At this point, you will be able to understand what the problems between two people are, and you will be able to figure out whether the two people can continue to come together. If you can't continue to be together, you can pay attention to this problem in your next relationship and let your future self avoid this problem.

In addition, material conditions are also a very important factor, because when two people are together, they will inevitably be connected to the material reality. Material is an indispensable existence in everyone's life, if it is found that the consumption concept of two people is not at the same level, it means that these two people may indeed have some essential contradictions. Therefore, at the beginning of the relationship, you should pay attention to the material conditions in advance, which can also summarize your future experience.

In addition, the needs of life are also very impactful, because two people may not be able to meet each other when they are in a long-distance relationship, and in this case, there will be big problems in the lives of both parties. It is an inevitable result that two people do not see each other for a long time and their relationship fades, and they can choose to send some small surprises to each other during this period. Only in this way can the relationship be kept fresh, and if it is not done, the two people may also break up.

At this time, you should calm down, reflect on whether there is any problem in yourself, and also reflect on what the contradiction between two people is caused by what, and consider the problem from the perspective of the other party, so that you can analyze the specific reasons.

I think the first thing you should do is to adjust your mentality, and conduct a comprehensive analysis of your relationship, and understand that there is never a certain amount of negligence or mistake in the process of getting along with others.

Think about why two people broke up, why there is a problem, and whose problem it is, you can also consider your own problem appearing, and correct it in time to prepare for the next relationship.