What would you do if a loved one who had passed away suddenly appeared in front of you one day?

I will definitely hug him and cry first, and then say, whether he is a human or a ghost, true or false.

The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait. It was really painful, and the one I remember the most was my grandfather.

When I was a child, my family was very poor, I lived by farming, my grandfather attached great importance to me and my younger brother, and I worked very hard, as if the whole village counted the land that my grandfather had packed, whether it was winter or summer, my grandfather would get up at five o'clock in the morning, feed the pigs, feed the donkeys, and then go to work in the field, and after eating at noon, I would sleep for a while, and then I would go to the field to do farm work in the afternoon, not to mention, we also have a big orchard, which also needs grandpa to take care of, it is really hard.

Grandpa hadn't eaten anything good, nor had he worn any good clothes, so he couldn't bear anything.

It wasn't until my sophomore year of high school that my grandfather found out that it was stomach cancer. When I was a junior in high school, my grandfather left.

I don't know why, maybe I wasn't sensible at that time, or maybe it was at that time, facing the death of my loved ones for the first time, I was a little overwhelmed and a little reluctant to accept it, but I just felt that suddenly, my grandfather seemed to be gone.

Later, my brother and I both went to college, and our lives were getting better and better, we could eat whatever we wanted, and we could wear whatever we wanted, but my grandfather, who had fought for us all his life, was gone, and every time I thought about it, I would cry bitterly.

If Grandpa comes back suddenly, I will definitely hug him, and then take him to see our current life, tell him about the changes between me and my brother after he is gone, and then take him to enjoy the current life, to make up for the hardships he has endured, and the tiredness he has suffered.

It's just that there is no if, and the death of a loved one is really the biggest regret in this life, because there is some filial piety that cannot be made up.

<> I will hold my grandmother tightly and ask her to never leave me again, please let her stay!

When my grandmother died, I didn't have time to see my grandmother for the last time, and there was no way to make up for this regret, and I resented myself countless times why I didn't have time to rush home to see my grandmother for the last time, and why I didn't have a good chat with my grandmother when I left home during the holidays. However, all the regrets, I have no way to change, because grandma is no more, forever left me, for the first time to experience the feeling of the death of a loved one, so painful, so helpless, if grandma can appear in front of me again, I will apologize to her, tell her how much I miss her during this time, tell her how sad I am when I didn't have time to see her for the last time, tell grandma how much I love her. Grandma, if you can, please let me see you again, hold me again like I did when I was a child, let me listen to the song you hummed once, let me eat the braised pork you made again, let me look at you.

I will definitely sit in front of the door with you after dinner, listen to your old stories, listen to you talk about your father's childhood, and listen to you talk about your concern for your aunt. I will definitely listen to you, study hard, I will not be naughty and make my mother angry again, and I will definitely be a good child.

Grandma, if you appear before me again, I will take you to another city to be reunited with your sister, who has known your wishes for many years. Every time I hear you talk about your aunt, I can feel the helplessness and regret in your heart, how much you want to see your sister before you die, but for various reasons, you can't do it. If you come back again, I will definitely take you there, no matter how difficult it is.

Grandma, I really miss you, are you okay over there, are you still used to the days without me, if you can, please come back and see me once.

<>To my grandfather, who I've never met.

My grandfather and grandmother had three children. My grandfather died in an accident when my mother was thirteen years old, and my uncle was only seven years old.

After my grandfather died, my grandmother raised three children by herself. The family has no money, and my mother dropped out of school before graduating from junior high school, so she went out early to earn money and helped her grandmother pull her younger siblings to grow up.

Maybe he lost his father when he was too young, but his uncle was very sensible when he was a child, and he was very self-respecting and self-reliant. When the second aunt got married, the family had no money to prepare a dowry for the second aunt, and the uncle wiped his tears vigorously.

When I was a child, I didn't remember my uncle very much. I only know that he works in Shenzhen, and occasionally his mother will receive a letter from his uncle to go home, and she will receive his uncle's entrustment, and she will help his uncle take out the money he sent home and send it to his grandmother.

In my memory, the first time I met my uncle was one year, when my grandmother left my house, she told me that my uncle was coming back and that there would be a lot of delicious food, so I followed my grandmother home. I think I must have met my uncle at that time, but all I remember is a table full of raisins, red dates, and walnuts. To tell the truth, it's the first time in my life that I've seen so many delicious things at once.

Maybe my grandmother spoiled me too much, and when I was a child, I always liked to run to my grandmother's house. Every time I went to my grandmother's house, I would pass by my grandfather's grave, and my grandmother would always ask me to pay my respects.

Sometimes they are lazy and pretend to say goodbye or not. Miraculously, when I go back to my grandmother's house, my stomach will be upset. Every time this happens, my grandmother starts to stand up with chopsticks, and it is said that if the chopsticks can stand up, it means that there is a ghost.

I don't know if the chopsticks are standing up, but I always hear my grandmother scolding my grandfather in the air, you dead ghost, rare grandson, you just hide away and take a look, it's good now, make the little doll uncomfortable here.

So, I always thought that my grandfather just passed away, but he still exists, but he can't see it, he can't touch it, and when you talk to him, he can hear it.

If my grandfather suddenly appeared in front of me one day, I would be super happy. I'll take him first to see his grandmother, then his children, and finally his grandchildren.

In my house, my mother treasures a ** of my grandfather's youth, tall and thin, and his plain clothes can't stop the heroic spirit. Part of the genealogy of my grandfather's family is still written by my grandfather, and the writing with a brush is super beautiful, and the writing is still in traditional Chinese. It is said that my grandfather's craftsmanship in repairing the stove is also well-known and quite good.

Sometimes I think that if such a capable and talented grandfather had not suffered a sudden misfortune, the fate of their family would have been very different. If he were still alive, under his influence, I would probably be able to get a little more book fragrance when I was a child.

If we know that our loved ones are about to leave the world, try to leave them happy and good memories, people are born, old, sick and die, and we have to face this fact.

This should be accepted as soon as possible. Because people's birth, old age, sickness and death are unavoidable, there is no need to be too sad.

I will look at this matter, because birth, old age, sickness and death are the basic content of human beings, and everyone will die when they come to this world.

In the course of life, there will always be some inevitable pain, being hit by sudden misfortune, or losing a loved one. The sudden death of a loved one can be the hardest thing we can bear. Try to confront yourself with the fact that grief can be opened, and grief is the beginning of healing.

1. Accept that the loss is real. It will take time and patience, but it is also the most important step to realize that everything that is happening is real, and you can try to talk to others who can provide you with help and comfort.

2. Let yourself feel pain and loss. Your intimate death is intimate, and you feel pain and sorrow, which is a very important, unavoidable natural emotion. Feeling your own pain can be one of the hardest things to deal with, but it's also a crucial step in wound healing.

3. Holding memorial ceremonies or other forms of remembrance can help emotional healing. Designing some beneficial ways of remembrance will help to grief, recognize the facts, and better do separation. Duan macro called.

4. Don't forcibly restrain the pain. Don't suppress and restrain the pain and sadness of your grip, release tension with tears and laughter, and understand that feelings can rise and fall like a roller coaster, which is difficult to control and does not need to be controlled.

5. Ask for help. Friends may not know how to help you, so your initiative to help them know how to help you is most effective, and if you feel that you can't adjust, you should seek help from a professional help agency, such as a psychological counseling center.

6. Take good care of your body, mind, and spirit. Pay attention to physiological reactions, such as poor appetite, sleep disturbances, difficulty concentrating, etc. Taking it seriously and conditioning, balancing your diet and getting enough rest and exercise can help with the healing process.