Why is it so embarrassing? What do you mean by embarrassment?

Those people we once thought would never be forgotten, in the process of our forgetting, were forgotten by us for a long time, in fact, the embarrassment is also very normal now, you have your life, she has her life, after all, it is a breakup, and there is a blank memory, you say that you like her very much, maybe it's just the familiar habit in the memory, or, it's the regret that you didn't reconcile after your efforts, however, things have passed, no matter what the original reason was, the result is the same, Since it's already a fact, don't be obsessed, I think you told her so directly, it's right, it's also very responsible for that girl, and it's also responsible for yourself, I support you!

Thinking of her, yes, whether it's because of habit, or because of loneliness, or worry, you want her to live well, right, so, don't bother her anymore, if she still takes the initiative to find you, you should make it clear to her, she may not accept it now, but I think she will understand in the future, I wish you happiness!

You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you once loved each other.

You can't be friends after a breakup, because you've been hurt.

Since they didn't grasp each other at the beginning, then don't hold a grudge against anything, and don't be nostalgic for anything.

Put it when it's time to put it!

Unless both of them have completely changed! and new emotional acquaintances! Otherwise, the mistakes of the past will be repeated!

Only when you lose it do you know how to cherish it!

Time is really a strange thing, and there are different people walking you along every stretch of the road. Including friends, since you can't afford to change, let it be.

The word "embarrassing", in "Shuowen": embarrassing, not right. From the sound of the voice. Awkward, embarrassing too. From the sound of the son. It shows that the word "embarrassing" is a phonetic word.

"Embarrassment" has two meanings: one refers to behavior, indicating that the demeanor is abnormal; The second refers to the dilemma, which shows that it is difficult to deal with.

Later, it was mostly extended to "no three noes."

Fourth, the dilemma and no landing".

Why is there "embarrassment"? In what ways?

First, to quote Hegel: to be is to be reasonable.

Since the word "embarrassment" exists, it means that there is a factual basis in it. In some ways, this is manifested in the subconscious of people who have a kind of evasive mentality that is not conducive to the environment, and even if they do not leave, then they will definitely exist in embarrassment for a while.

There are many types of "embarrassment", and the phenomenon of "embarrassment" can occur anytime and anywhere in various environments, and no one can avoid it. In general, the following situations often occur:

1) Cold field. This is common, and no matter what person has experienced. When most people are together, they often can't stop talking, but once two people are alone, they seem calm, like a closed mouth, and rarely have words.

2) Look at each other. People's eyes are both gentle and vicious, not everyone is willing to look at each other, afraid that the other party will peek into the secret. For example, at the time of dinner, in order to avoid other people's eyes, I often bow my head and eat violently, and in the end I am still "embarrassed" to be full.

3) Embarrassment. Such shameful things happen all the time, and sometimes they can be the result of preparation or lack of consideration. For example, when you make a purchase and payment, you find that you don't have any money in your card, or you don't have enough money, so you are bored and embarrassed.

All these are the harm brought to us by "embarrassment". What is that "embarrassing"?

The environment is fundamental, but the effects of the same environment are not the same. Some people adapt to changes in the environment, and some people don't adapt to it, which leads to weirdness, which gradually leads to unbearable scenes.

Take the most common thing about the bowl falling to the floor, for example, if you are eating alone at home, if you accidentally drop the bowl on the floor, you may just be frightened, and then you can take it up or throw it away when it is rotten.

If this happened in a banquet with a large number of people, the situation would not be ordinary. If you accidentally drop the bowl, a loud bang will attract everyone's immediate attention. It is not only about facing the crowd of attention, but also about what stubborn eyes are tolerated, and what some people are more or less criticized.

It is not without precedent for "embarrassing" people to do "embarrassing" things. The forty-sixth chapter of "Dream of Red Mansions": In order to protect his status, the "embarrassing person" flattered Jia Yu to help this husband who had some stories, and asked Jia's mother for the big girl Mandarin Duck who "couldn't eat without her" as a concubine.

In short, the word "embarrassing" is a loss of grace for people, hurts themselves, and loses their good personal image. Rejecting "embarrassment" is not impossible, but adhering to the principle of not being surprised when encountering problems, and maintaining a state of extremely good psychological endurance.

Embarrassment is a Chinese word with two meanings: one refers to abnormal behavior and demeanor; The second refers to a difficult situation that is difficult to cope.

Basic explanation. abnormal behavior and demeanor; Embarrassment: How embarrassing it is.

Difficult situation, difficult to cope: It was really embarrassing at that time Dilemma, awkward situation.

Embarrassing aThe situation is difficult to deal with. b.The look and attitude are abnormal.

"embarrassing" (gāngà): Difficult situation, not easy to deal with.

Example of use. 1.He talked to himself for a long time, but no one answered him, which was very embarrassing.

2.All clues are broken here, and the investigation of the case has stalled, and it has fallen into an embarrassing stalemate.

3.Before we could say a few words, he walked away, much to everyone's embarrassment.

4.Hearing this, he looked very embarrassed.

5.Under our repeated questioning, the other party was dumbfounded, and the scene was very embarrassing.

1. Embarrassment is a Chinese word, pinyin is gāngà, which means that it is difficult, embarrassed, overwhelmed, and difficult to deal with. It was first seen in "Shuo Wen Jie Zi": "It is embarrassing and not right." ”

2. The word "embarrassing" is "embarrassing" in "Shuowen". "Saying": "It's not right."

From the sound of the voice. "Awkward, embarrassed, from the voice. In other words, the word "embarrassing" is a shape and sound word, and next to the shape is "尣".

What does "尣" mean? "Kangxi Dictionary": "尢' (wāng) is originally written as '尣', which is commonly known as '尩'.

And the word "尢" is explained in the "Shuowen" as: "lame, bent shin (person) also." From the large, like a deviated shape.

Duan Yu commented: "Lame, Jian also." The lame are mostly composed of flexed shins.

Looking at its seal body, "尢" is indeed like "a person with bent shins".

Embarrassment is a Chinese word, pinyin: gān gà, which means difficult situation, embarrassment, overwhelmed, and difficult to deal with. It was first seen in "Shuo Wen Jie Zi": "It is embarrassing and not right." ”

Awkwardness means that people encounter a situation that makes people feel embarrassed, at a loss, in a dilemma, and difficult to handle.

Embarrassment refers to the fact that some people do something that makes them very uncomfortable, uncomfortable, and embarrassed.

I think embarrassment is a little bit embarrassing, of course, there are different aspects, such as love: when you have someone in your heart and confess to him, but the other party rejects you, then whenever you face him or her, you will feel very embarrassed, in other words, it is very unnatural.

Misconduct, resulting in a difficult situation. Used as a continuous word: "embarrassing". 1. The situation is difficult to deal with. 2. The look and attitude are abnormal.

Embarrassment means to describe a person's actions or words at a moment that embarrass and embarrassment to the extreme.

It's an emotion, it's just very dry, you can't speak, and then the atmosphere suddenly cools down.

For example, if you are walking with your girlfriend and suddenly a gust of wind blows and lifts your girlfriend's skirt, your girlfriend will look very embarrassed. It had to be blocked by hand. Do you understand? That's embarrassment.

It's just embarrassing, embarrassed, shy, in a situation where you embarrass yourself.

Embarrassing moment: I was bumped into by a colleague when I was crying, and it just so happened that mascara was not waterproof. Emergency tip: Find the dressing room, pick up the lotion such as lip balm and hand cream around you, rub a little under your eyes, and then gently wipe off with a tissue.

Misbehaving, causing embarrassment to the police, I think it's embarrassing.

Dilemma, not up or down, unable to solve the problem, and losing face, afraid of people discussing, spreading, bad reputation, ugly things.

I just came out of the toilet and accidentally burped loudly, and the seven aunts and eight aunts are all watching at home!

Both parties like each other, and they can't be together for some special reasons, so they can only secretly.

First: Accidentally saying the wrong thing and saying something childish.

In the relationship between men and women, two people have been together for a long time, and it is inevitable that there will be times when they say the wrong thing. This kind of behavior sometimes makes me particularly embarrassed and embarrassed in front of my lover. For example, we just said that we told some cold jokes that made people feel unfunny, said some particularly childish things, etc.

This kind of situation where others can't get the meaning you express, and your face is embarrassed, makes people feel particularly embarrassed and embarrassed. Sometimes, other people's laughter or nodding is pandering, rather than really understanding.

Second: mistakes in behavior, strange behavior.

In the vacancy between men and women, sometimes because of a short circuit in the brain, some embarrassing things often happen in front of the lover. For example, when we met, we found that we were wearing the clothes backwards. When we were eating together, we found that the chopsticks were taken backwards.

When I was walking, I fell in front of my lover, and the fall was ugly, etc. These mistakes in behavior, strange behaviors or unexpected situations that happen accidentally will make you feel particularly embarrassed once they happen in front of your lover.

At this time, I actually wanted to burrow into the cracks in the ground, and I felt that I had no face to see anyone. However, it is worth mentioning that if the other party loves you, it is a little embarrassing, but in the eyes of the other party, they don't care too much, and even think that you are a little funny and cute. If your lover doesn't pretend to love you and doesn't love you enough, maybe some of your behaviors will make the other person feel disgusted, and even feel that you have lost his person.

In our youth in middle school, we left many good memories. This period is our most precious time.

Because at this stage, we don't have much pressure, the only pressure is to study.

We don't need to worry about anything other than studying. Maybe you didn't feel this when you were in middle school, but when you grow up and go out into the workforce, you will find that there will be more and more worries.

1. Fall while running.

When we were children, that is, when we didn't go to school, or when we first started school, we felt that it was okay to fall, and after falling, we just got up and kept walking. But when we go to junior high school and enter puberty, both boys and girls begin to pay special attention to their image. On the one hand, it is my appearance, such as hairstyle and dress, etc., and on the other hand, it is my usual behavior.

Everyone wants to behave as decently as possible. But there are always moments when we are embarrassed to find a crack in the ground.

For example, falling on campus is a particularly humiliating thing. In general, there are more people on campus. Sometimes we will inevitably fall down when we are playing, and the posture of the fall will be particularly ugly.

At this time, he would wonder if he had been seen by other classmates next to him, especially the person he liked. But sometimes there is no way to do such a thing, and it is unexpected.

2. Shoes are stepped on during running exercises.

When I was in middle school, some schools would organize running drills, that is, in the morning or at the end of the first two classes, students of one grade were organized to run in the playground. Because all students in a grade have to stand on the runway, the distance between classes is not very far, and the distance between people must be very close.

Therefore, in the process of running, it is especially easy for the students behind to step on the shoes of the students in front.

Sometimes we will find that when we are running the scum Liang exercise, suddenly a shoe is exposed in the place where the class in front of us has run, which means that a classmate's shoes have been stepped on again, and within a few seconds, a classmate will jump out on one leg and go to find his own shoes.

This classmate must be very embarrassed, and he must also want to find a crack in the ground to get into.

Isn't it because you are embarrassed and embarrassed because Huai Yan has no topic? I think if you find a topic that both of you will talk about, I think it's good, oh, starting a chat may be the same as talking about friends on the topic of Kim Jong You, and chatting may take a process, so you can get used to it slowly.

Actually, this is one of the things I've been trying to figure out, and I think I've had this thought.1I care a lot about the other party's impression of me, and I'm afraid of saying the wrong thing, so I simply don't say anything or even don't say it. I guess I'm not confident 2

I don't have the slightest interest in each other.,I don't have the slightest curiosity about everything about the other party.,There's no way to talk about 3.The other party is also embarrassed, and there is nothing to talk about.