I m in love, but I ve become stupid, what can I do?

Updated on educate 2024-04-04
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You'll find out later.

    Actually, you're in the situation you're in.

    It's the best moment.

    It may be difficult to go back in the future.

    So please cherish it.

    Rather than wanting to control something.

    These are all manifestations of your love for Him.

    I wish you all happiness

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't you feel blessed with this feeling?

    If so, take your time and enjoy it.

    It's the feeling of love that counts.

    To hell with sanity!!

    Landlord, your question supplement is very wasteful.

    To be in love is to find a feeling that is not me.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Girls are like this, people in love are happy people haha.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Normal, falling in love is not stupid, it is still called falling in love

    Firm over!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe. Your boyfriend is stressing you out.

    Affects your personality because you want to show yourself too much in front of him.

    Actually, it's not necessary.

    Be your true self.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Agree with the following. It's normal to be silly. But it depends on whether the other boy's love you or not, and whether he is responsible for you or not. If you do something you regret because of your stupidity, it's not worth it. Other. To hell with sanity. O happy woman.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Is it because your self-confidence is not strong? Both parties in love are equal, and since they have chosen each other, they can rest assured that they will show their true nature.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Ask him if he likes you! If you like it, it's worth it! Silly cute! Yes!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love sometimes makes people stupid, everything is centered on the other party, especially girls, but I have always believed that love should also maintain its own independence, even if it is married in the future, it is necessary to ensure its independence, including financial independence, and maintain its own principles not to compromise too much.

    Wishing you happiness!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Young people have an impulsive mood quite normal.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First love is like this.

    And it's also flattering.

    Anyway, don't worry.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Normal. Happiness makes people stupid. Enjoy, girl.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Women are more emotional. Especially his first love. If he truly loves you, then your stupidity is worth it, and if you don't feel like that, then there's no need to make so many senseless sacrifices for him.

    Although the woman is more stupid, she is innocent and simple when she thinks about the problem, and she is innocent, and her life is actually good. Do fools have their own foolish blessings? When you are sad, you can't always bear it yourself, but also tell him and let him help you share a little, after all, boys are more rational and sometimes make you cheerful.

    People in love are indeed very delicate, easy to pay attention to those small details, even a small look, will make you excited, this can only show that you love him very much.

    I want him to know that you love him so much, and I want him to know that you are so troubled.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Just make yourself dumb and like yourself like that, because that's part of who you are

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Love is actually very naïve, mainly because two people in love, their IQ is far less high than when they were single. Mainly when they are in love, many people will fall into it deeply, feeling that they and their partners are the happiest two people in the world.

    Because when they fall in love, many people will feel that they have become stupid, even if they were two people who were very smart before, since they fell in love, they will become very stupid. Sometimes when the other party says a word, they will be happy for a long time. Even some things that are nothing in the first place, but in the eyes of the other party, pink bubbles will appear.

    Some things that I once felt very despised, when I fell in love, I might do it. Therefore, after falling in love, there is no IQ at all.

    And in order to maintain sweetness, many couples will do a lot of behaviors like elementary school students, they will name their next generation like children, or just do a lot of child-like things, when you play with other girls, they will be very angry and jealous. Otherwise, it is to make some very naïve promises, in fact, these promises may not be fulfilled, but many couples are always happy to make promises and express their sincerity.

    And the feast and love are naïve, and the most important thing is that the mentality of both couples will become very naïve. For example, when you like someone, many little boys will actually bully that girl, they want to get close to that girl, but they don't know what method to use, so they use this very stupid behavior, so it can be said that love makes people become very childlike and attract the attention of others in a very strange way.

    But it is also very happy to be able to be in love all the time, even if love makes people blind and makes people stupid, but the most important thing is that love will also make people happy and confident. So take advantage of your youth to feel a love that belongs to you, don't hesitate and be afraid.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's true that falling in love can make you stupid. Because when you are in love, you are full of him, so it is possible that you will not think about many things, and you will think about things in a simple way, and you are full of beautiful yearning for the future. If a person is not worried about the future, he may really be like a little fool.

    But this kind of silly is caused by love, so it's silly and cute.

    But after this period of time, the two of them will become smarter, because both of them will be sober. As the saying goes, three stinkers on top of one Zhuge Liang and two staff officers will definitely be more thoughtful than one person thinks.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Many people say that "love makes people stupid", this is because people are inherently emotional animals, and as they grow up, they slowly become sensible. Generally speaking, reason and emotion can coexist, but many people do not manage their pent-up emotions well.

    In a romantic relationship, people will want to be trusted and accepted by the other party to the greatest extent, so they will expose their weaknesses to the other party, and even be coquettish and stupid like a child. From a physiological point of view, love can activate the relevant brain regions of reward, and the middle frontal gyrus, inferior parietal lobules, middle temporal gyrus, and posterior cingulate cortex in the right hemisphere of the human brain play an important role in cognition and the generation of negative emotions. The amygdala, temporal pole, temporoparietal junction, and medial prefrontal cortex are associated with negative emotions, moral judgments, and psychotheoretical abilities.

    The activation of these brain regions is inhibited when the imaginary "oneness in love" is obtained, which weakens people's judgment about the object of love.

    Some people only think about each other in the early stages of a relationship, want to behave well, and some behaviors can also make them look stupid. For example, when you see someone you like, you can't suppress the joy in your heart and smirk, or you are unconsciously nervous, embarrassed to take the initiative to speak, and even have a situation where you don't know what to say and don't know what to say.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Falling in love doesn't get stupid, it gets smarter and smarter, and falling in love is also progressive.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When you are in love, do people become stupid? For this question, I believe we all have a lot of questions, because we all know that when we are in love, our emotions will be in a very high state, overflowing with enthusiasm, and the degree of attention to the other half will become very high, therefore, we will have a question, when we are in love, will we become stupid?

    In fact, many people want to understand this question and want to know an answer, because in real life, if we fall in love, there will definitely be a lot of happy active molecules in the body to become high. At this stage, everyone's brain will become a little dull, but this is not because we will become stupid when we fall in love, but because the dopamine secreted by our cerebral cortex will make us continue to be emotionally high. At this time, our hearts are surging, so many times, it is possible to speak and do things without going through the brain.

    However, this is not a question of whether you are stupid or not, if you want to avoid this thing, you can do something, and the following things can help you solve the current problem well.

    First of all, what we need to do is that we must understand this problem in time, and there is that love is just a part of life, don't let love fill your life all day long, you must have your own space, otherwise, your life privacy will be gone. Both parties must have independent space and ensure their own time. There is also that we must maintain a certain sense of distance from the other half, after all, distance produces beauty, in this way, our feelings will continue to heat up, become very different, in love, the most important thing for two people is not to let each other become all.

    In fact, it is normal for us to be very happy when we are in love, and it is inevitable that we will be slow to react and deal with things a little slowly, so you don't have to worry too much, these are very normal phenomena. Just let it be.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think whether you will become stupid in love depends on your personality, some people will focus on each other after falling in love, and become selfless, while some people are also very assertive when they are in love, they can live their own lives, and they can get along with each other very well, I think love still needs to have their own opinions, don't give up self for others.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When we are in love, people do become stupid, and when we are in love, because our dopamine has been secreting, and then we feel that the person opposite is very good and perfect, so we will become stupid.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes, you will not have your own judgment, you will lose your own opinions, and it is especially easy to give, so you will become stupid.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It may be that love can make people lose themselves!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When people fall in love, they have more or less love brains, but some of them are not particularly obvious, and some of them are particularly obvious.

    Because the stage of love, especially the stage of just falling in love, is often the one who looks at everyone is very good, how to look at it, how to like it, how to look at it, how to look at it, so that some shortcomings of the other party are also regarded as advantages, that is, the origin of Xi Shi in the eyes of the lover!

    As the saying goes, the authorities are fascinated, the bystanders are clear, and when you are in love, you will not have this feeling, but others can see it from some of your words and deeds. For example, when you are in love, you are especially willing to share your love experience with the person next to you or friends, talk about the advantages of your boyfriend and girlfriend, and some interesting things with you, because during the relationship, the love object is the most important person relative to you, and it is your most concerned and concerning.

    Because it is still important to keep calm and keep a clear head during a relationship. In this way, you can have the correct ability to analyze and judge, and look at the relationship between two people rationally. It is also easy to find some sensitive emerging problems, and after the problem is found, the problem can be solved through the communication of two people, and it will not intensify into a conflict.

    I was also a kind of love brain in the early days of love, and I looked at each other very well, so that I didn't see some of the other party's shortcomings, and I only noticed it under the prompting of others. But after that sweet period, I was very calm, for example, when discussing marriage, I Wu Zhenyan can make my own point of view clear, not that I will cater to him whatever the other party says, I feel that during the relationship, both parties should respect each other and tolerate each other. You can't be a vassal of others, you should have your own point of view.

    Although it is inevitable to fall in love, you should still keep reminding yourself to keep a clear mind, so that you can correctly deal with some contradictions and problems, deal with some unexpected things, and maintain your initiative and independence in love.

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