How did you manage to live a more satisfying life after graduation?

Until the first half of this year, I have spent a total of 1 year and 8 months to go from a small hotel with three rooms to a three-story youth hostel with a single courtyard. It is one of the backpacker youth hostels with the largest number of beds in Xiamen (in order to avoid suspicion of advertising, the name of the store will not be said) I bought the first car in my life, I vaguely remember that I ran a lot of 4S stores, but I couldn't get a loan, because I had a rural hukou, no formal unit, no real estate, and then had to go to the financial company of the 4S store.

The above is not to show off anything, but to describe a basic. I am very satisfied with my current life, although it is not a luxury car, but it is convenient to go out and go back to my hometown (there is no train station in our hometown, and we have to reverse the car when we go back, which is very troublesome). Although I didn't do a big business, I was sent to the store every day, and I heard a lot of stories from backpackers.

Some people say that work and life should be separated, but if your work is your interest, in fact, work and life together are actually in a good state. The most important thing is that there is an off-season every year to open a youth hostel, I will take a month out of a long-distance trip in a year's time, last year was a sofa guest from Xiamen all the way to the south, to Sanya this year is to re-take the Yunnan-Tibet line of the year. Back to the bitter past, I graduated in 2012, and then started in June, with some money saved during the school period, train + foot + ride, took the Qinghai-Tibet line, Yunnan-Tibet, Gannan and other places, and spent about a month and a half.

Regarding travel, you can look at the post of a group: Title: After graduating from the 89-year-old forced youth to walk the Qinghai-Tibet line and the Yunnan-Tibet line on foot + by car, he took 5,000 yuan to Xiamen to open a hotel (insert a paragraph before graduation, I worked as a courier in college, sold books, and did photography.

When I graduated, I paid the tuition and paid back the money, and in the end I still had about 10,000 yuan left, which is my most primitive accumulation). Looking back on the past two years. I think the most profound personal insights are:

1. To do a small business, you must be diligent and honest. Maybe some people can do it in the past, but if you want to do business for a long time. You have to be honest.

Hygiene is guaranteed. For the sake of strangers and honest travelers, 2, whether it is when you are a student or after graduation, it is very important to be a person, and the impression given to you determines the strength of support for you. My family doesn't have the money to support me.

My classmate's first month's salary on the job, he borrowed half of it for me to open a store. At that time, I was very moved, I said that when I was in school, I didn't find that everyone was so good to me, and the people who borrowed money told me that I have always been able to endure hardships in their hearts, and they are willing to help me once. <>

First of all, I am a very idealistic and planned character, I don't like to rely on others to live, so I have begun to make a detailed plan for my career before graduation, first of all, I must know what I am suitable for and what I am not suitable for.

Because everyone is good at and what they are not good at, for example, I am better at dealing with people, and my thinking is more active, when doing things, my thinking is clearer, I prefer to prepare before doing things, and try to make what I do go smoothly. <>

For example, I didn't choose to go to first-tier cities like Beijing, Shanghai, and Guangzhou after graduation, because such first-tier cities are full of talents, and almost all people will flock to such first-tier cities, so the competition will be very fierce, a position in a well-known large listed company! It will be competed by many people at the same time, because such a company, both in terms of working environment and treatment, is a lot of recent graduates.

The first choice is the company you want to enter, which will lead to a much greater likelihood of failure, not only will you not be able to accumulate any work experience, but also increase your frustration, which will be very damaging to your self-confidence, which will have a great impact on your future career.

Therefore, choose a city or company that suits you, because such a city or company is also very much needed for talents, and you will get more attention and appreciation when you work in such a city or company! Therefore, it is easier to accumulate experience, through the accumulation of several years of work experience, and then go to work in big cities such as Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, you can get a more satisfactory salary and live a more satisfactory life.

Personally, I think that a satisfying life is contentment. It is enough to have a stable job, have some hobbies in your spare time, and a harmonious and warm family.

It's been a few years since I graduated, and at first I was young and energetic when I first came to work in society, and I didn't know anything. Later, I changed jobs several times, and I realized that the earth does not revolve around you alone, and no one will take you very seriously, unless you have relative value. Later, I became more stable, and when my work stabilized, as long as it was something I liked and was beneficial to my own development, it was worth persevering.

At work, you should do a good job in interpersonal relationships, respect your boss, and obey the leadership. Get along with colleagues and communicate more. It's a good way to work.

Because a stable job is also a basic economy**, money is the basis of material satisfaction!

In addition to doing a good job, there is a material foundation. Spiritual food is still needed. I usually learn guitar and read books on diet and health. Live and learn. Learning more hobbies and knowledge will not only increase knowledge, but also a kind of cultivation.

In fact, the most important thing I think is to have a warm family environment, and home is our big back. Without a harmonious environment, it is difficult to live a comfortable and satisfying life. When I really grew up, I realized that my previous rebellion and attitude towards my parents were so ridiculous.

Fortunately, we don't have a big generation gap, and they have given me the utmost tolerance. I also owe them the ease of life I have now.

Actually, let yourself live a satisfying life. It is indispensable to have their own hard work and perseverance. You must be persistent in doing things.

And really have to be more mature and steady, and handle interpersonal relationships well. Have some of your own preferences and enrich the spiritual level. Of course, family is also important!

After graduating, I went to Shanghai to work so that I could live the life I wanted. In fact, I feel that for young people nowadays, a rich life is not necessarily something that can make them feel satisfied, but I think that the life that makes us satisfied should be enough money, life is interesting and fulfilling, and I feel that my current life is like this.

The salary will be hit into the card every month, and I can buy something and eat something if I want, I don't have to be too restrained, and it's okay to spend impulsively once in a while, and I can afford to buy a famous brand or eat a roadside stall. So I think my life is quite worthwhile. <>

But then again, I also put in a lot of effort to have today's life, I was also a very serious student when I was studying, because I knew that only by taking a better university could I have a job opportunity after graduation, so I studied hard at that time, and then after I went to college, I began to pay more attention to the management of self-image and adapt to some society, and participated in some social activities and socialization, and then got a better offer in my senior year. Later, I went to Shanghai to work, at the beginning the salary was relatively low, but I still worked hard to get the appreciation of the leadership, and then I was lucky to stay, so now the job is stable, and then I began to pursue a quality life for life.

So I think ah, a lot of things have to be prepared for a rainy day, and those who are successful are all **, not luck.

It's been more than two years since I graduated, although it's not very reliable at the moment. But I think I can still try it, and it's a summary. When I graduated, I chose to work instead of graduate school, and combined with my own conditions and interests at that time, I only applied to one company, got an offer, and joined the company.

Although there were ups and downs, it seems that now I have no regrets. I always have to explain the current situation a little bit...Work for two years The original agreement was to buy a BMW by yourself within three years of graduation, and I could already do it, but then I felt that the model I liked was not suitable for me, and I also knew that there was a big difference between affording a car and matching a car with assets in place, and the person who started this appointment is now insignificant in his heart......Other assets are none, and occasionally anxious. A colleague once said that his home is a suitcase, and he thought it was a very appropriate description.

Stop-and-go, busy. At first, I occasionally sighed about the sadness of spring and autumn, but I slowly began to get used to it. Learn to enjoy, learn to adjust, learn to live in the moment, learn to enjoy suffering, and learn to lower the lower limit of satisfaction.

I survived the severe cold of minus 30 degrees, and endured the tropics of minus 40 degrees. Sometimes I make soy sauce every day, sometimes I work overtime for more than a month in a row, and I work 90+ hours a week so easy. I secretly cried several times, and there were many times when I was very happy.

Tossing and turning, I don't know where it will be today next year. It's just that I slowly found that the enthusiasm and motivation that I used to be full of are also declining, people are really changing, and the things that I once thought were important are slowly becoming no longer the whole of life, but I am still moving forward while struggling. <>

It's hard to get your first job, and many of us think about salary and position when we just graduate, and stress and family after the age of 30.

Choosing a suitable one (position first, platform second, close to home and salary last), that is, Shisui is the best foundation for later career choice.

This is characteristic of a large country, as is the United States and other developed countries, but not small European countries.

Especially in the lack of practice in China, the undergraduate stage is basically a superficial internship, and it is difficult to understand the direction of your position and judge whether it is suitable.

There are many opportunities in China, job categories, and enterprise categories.

Most people are suitable to do it first, think while doing it, and change jobs a few times to be stable.

Satisfaction, on the other hand, is not completely satisfied with the company, but takes care of personal spare time, family factors, income and stress balance.