I don t want to come out after a breakup, I don t know if there are any people in the same way?

<> the older generation often say that the worldview and outlook of modern people are too different from those of the previous generation, the old people, because of the age of material scarcity, because of poverty, all the bad things want to be repaired, repaired, and then continue to use, and now people, may have a better material life, in the face of destruction and damage of things, most of them think of changing, and the same is true for feelings.

But there is always such a type of person, who is obsessed with things that have been damaged, maybe they are nostalgic, or they may really pay too much, and they are trapped by a person's feelings, and they don't want to come out and can't get out.

Breaking up is indeed a matter of two people, but love is actually a matter of one person, and the reluctance to come out after the breakup mentioned in the question is just because the love is not over.

Two people who choose to be together manage a relationship together, but as time goes by, as the contact between the two people deepens, there may be a person who gives up managing the relationship because of disputes, because of quarrels, because of so-called disagreements.

Once this tipping point is reached, some people choose to end a relationship and start a new life, while some people are willing to give up looking for other possibilities for the sake of the person around them.

The end of the relationship between two people is not the end of the love of one of them, there are too many people who can keep memories for a lifetime, the reason may not be because of how good the person used to be, but because we love that person, the time we paid at that time, the energy we paid, and the feelings we paid were so precious that we couldn't give up ourselves at that time.

The so-called reluctance to come out after a breakup is actually just loyalty to oneself.

I feel that you should have a lot of like-minded people, because many people are actually difficult to get out of a relationship now, because of what, use real feelings. So I think there are actually a lot of people in this world who are in love, and there are also a lot of people who are out of love. This is normal, but it is not necessarily a normal thing to be trapped in a relationship for a long time and not be able to get out.

On the way to get off work today, I saw a couple breaking up, the woman slapped the boy, and then turned around and wanted to leave, and then saw the boy holding the girl's hand, begging her not to leave, but in the end the girl still left, and wiped her tears there while walking. I think in fact, a lot of times, we will feel very numb and normal after seeing more of these couples breaking up scenes, but in fact, the parties are very painful in their hearts, and those who still love each other deeply will miss their exes for a long time, but he actually knows in his heart that it is impossible for them to do anything, so I think at this time, don't put this matter at ease, although I know that you may be difficult to forget in a short period of time, Then let time decide how long your memories should be kept, it could be three months, it could be a year, it could be years. <>

I don't think it's okay, because who hasn't had some crazy things in their youth, and when they are old in the future, I think they must be very precious, and you may not remember the appearance of the person who once made you fall in, but you still remember that relationship vividly, maybe that's what we want to remember the most, people are not the most important, what matters is that feeling and memory.

I have nightmares every day after breaking up, it's not that I don't want to come out, I want to come out, but I can't control my heart.

I can't get out of love anytime soon, because I'm an emotional person, and the person I love occupies a very important place in my heart, and there is no way to forget it, and the memories of the past can't be said to disappear and disappear.

I haven't gone out yet, are there any like-minded people? Contact me.

When giving up a relationship, many people always think that what they have given up is just one person, and it doesn't matter, in the future, they will definitely meet again, and it is more suitable for people who are self-conscious.

But in fact, although later, there were people around me who guessed other people, but it was still difficult to let go of the past relationship.

Breakups are always caught off guard, even when they are in love, people who never thought that they would break up one day often walk and walk, but they are still the same, and they do not go to the end. You may not need a reason to like it, but there is always a reason for parting.

As I walked, I faded and didn't want to continue.

At first, the two people cherished each other, and then naturally chose each other and walked together.

But when two people are together, as each other's shortcomings are gradually exposed, the quarrels in getting along continue to increase, and your feelings are constantly being worn out day by day, which makes you feel very tired and want to regain your freedom.

After the quarrel, the two parties broke up angrily.

In love, too many people are always duplicitous, obviously just angry and want to be coaxed, but they say they broke up.

When one thinks that he will not leave, and the other thinks that he will stay, but the two parties are deadlocked and have been in a state of gambling, then with the passage of time, a good relationship is often really inexplicable, and it is gone.

A third party stepped in, and the two parted unhappily.

Although after choosing a person, you should not look at other people of the opposite sex, but too many people just can't change their liking of the new and hating the old.

When there are people around you who are more attractive to you, many people can't control themselves at all, and they are directly unfaithful to their other half. The world of love is too narrow, after all, there are only two people, and when a third person appears, this relationship will naturally not go on.

Your parents objected, and you didn't choose to insist.

Marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families, and there are always some parents who like to interfere in the marriage of their children.

But if one of the parents feels that it is not appropriate for each other to be together, then many people will not think about convincing their parents and insisting on their love, so they will directly follow the opinions of their parents and choose to let go very happily.

Long-distance lovers, who break up with no end in sight.

No matter how much two people love each other, when they are in a different place for a long time, it is difficult to maintain this relationship all the time.

Because when you want to meet, you can't see each other at all, and when you need to be accompanied, that person is not there, this situation is easy to feel insecure, once both parties are unwilling to compromise and there is no way to end the long place, then the breakup will become inevitable.

When couples break up, some of them are independent choices and don't want to go any further, and some are indeed forced to be helpless, as if there is no way to reconcile.

It's just that no matter what the reason, everyone is the same, and it shouldn't be easy to give up a relationship and give up the person you like very much.

There are indeed many people in this world, but in this life, the people you like and like you at the same time are really hard to find.

There is no relationship that will not be a problem, but as long as you hold on for a while, you will persevere.