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Because Chen Yu's temperament is very boring, even after getting married, he treats his wife lukewarmly. His biggest hobby is fish farming, and he spends more time with fish than his wife every day. He also spends more time with fish than with his wife, and it seems that fish is the most important thing in his life force.
I believe that many people are like me, they were angry with Chen Yu when they saw the first few episodes of "Thirty Only", and I felt that Zhong Xiaoqin had really fallen for eight lifetimes with such a husband. Netizens joked that if her husband was like Chen Yu, she could divorce three times a day.
However, as the plot continues to progress, Chen Yu and Zhong Xiaoqin's various performances after their divorce will find that Chen Yu is not as scummy as he imagined, he just doesn't know how to express his feelings. His family of origin was not good, and his father left early. The eldest brother is the father, and he has taken on the responsibility of taking care of his younger brother since he was a child, and he is so sensible that it makes people feel distressed.
Although Chen Yu didn't say it, he was very tired when he thought about this kind of life. So he has always longed to have a stable and calm family and live a down-to-earth life. It can be seen from the pets raised by the husband and wife that the two have different personalities and different pursuits of life.
Zhong Xiaoqin has a lively temperament and loves to laugh and make trouble, so she has a cat. She hopes that there can be some romance in her married life once in a while, so that life can be delicious. As for Chen Yu to raise fish, he hopes that life will be dull, and it is best not to have anything happen.
The fish don't even make a sound.
In this way, two people with different views will have problems sooner or later. The key is that Chen Yu is still a person who refuses to communicate in marriage, and as long as there is a conflict, he will treat him coldly and violently.
But Chen Yu knew Zhong Xiaoqin's goodness and recognized Zhong Xiaoqin's dedication. He also thought about removing the bathtub and putting it in the crib, and he went back to work because his job was almost out of place. He also has his own grievances and pressures, but he never told Zhong Xiaoqin.
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Because Chen Yu likes fish farming very much, and is even obsessed with fish farming, he treats fish more than his wife, he doesn't know romance at all, and he is a proper straight man, so many viewers call Chen Yu Chen Fish Farming.
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Because Chen Yu likes to raise fish very much, he is better to fish than his wife and mother-in-law. He even quarreled with his mother-in-law over the fish.
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Because Chen Yu likes to raise tropical fish very much in "Thirty Only", he keeps a tank of fish at home, and he spends time to watch his fish every day, and when he quarrels with Zhong Xiaoqin, he still thinks about his tank of fish, so he is complained by the audience about "Chen Yangyu".
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Because he likes fish very much, he didn't care much about Zhong Xiaoqin when she had a miscarriage, and when the fish died, he had to bury the fish.
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In the TV series "Thirty Only", Chen Yu especially likes to raise fish, and he loves fish more than anything, even including his wife Zhong Xiaoqin, so why does Chen Yu like to raise fish? In fact, the screenwriter expressed the character traits of the characters in the play through the types of pets.
They are often men who look withdrawn and cold on the outside, but are actually very loving. According to market research, there are far more men than women who like to raise fish in their lives.
From the analysis of human emotion, fish is a symbol of women in sexuality culture, the suppleness and color of the fish allow men to see a kind of softness, which is complementary to men's own psychological characteristics, usually men prefer softness and agitation, while women prefer fortitude, so women prefer to raise cats and dogs.
What's more, fish farming allows men to find a sense of security. The psychoanalytic school believes that water symbolizes the mother's womb and hometown in the subconscious, men love their mothers more than women in the collective subconscious, men love to raise fish, watch fish swim in the water, and there will be a sense of security and return in the subconscious, so Chen Yu's love for fish in "Thirty Only" surpasses everything.
In Chen Yu's original family, his parents did not give him enough love, and he and Zhong Xiaoqin also knew each other because of a blind date, does he really love Zhong Xiaoqin? Absolutely not loved.
Psychologists believe that fish farming will satisfy men's need for a sense of control and achievement, men are naturally stronger than women have a stronger desire to control, and fish farming can completely control it, when feeding the fish and seeing a group of fish gathered, men will have a feeling of charity, king's arrival, and a sense of need. But in life, Zhong Xiaoqin is not good at housework, and she doesn't care about his psychology.
Fish farming is particularly important for men who usually have a bad career, unsatisfactory life, and are in a weak position in marriage and have nowhere to tell, fish farming can allow them to find that sense of control, and watch the fish grow day by day, and their efforts have results, there will be a sense of achievement, which is a "psychological compensation" for the lack of a sense of achievement and control in real life. These are all things that Zhong Xiaoqin can't give him.
More importantly, the fish will not be like other pets, such as dogs, cats and other clear keys to attack people, people are more relaxed in front of the fish without a sense of fear, for men who have to face competition and pressure on weekdays, the hard work in the process of raising fish, only work hard and not hard, will allow them to get a temporary relaxation of the mind, temporarily forget the pressure. Therefore, Chen Yu has always hated Zhong Xiaoqin's cat, and after her mother-in-law pulled out the latch and caused the fish to die, she couldn't care about Zhong Xiaoqin and her mother-in-law's feelings at all, and her emotions were completely out of control.
If Chen Yu meets green tea, I think he should not want green tea, because Chen Yu has always been very considerate to his wife before the divorce, and he will not take care of his wife's subtle feelings, so he will not have a good look at green tea.
There must be communication, two people must communicate when they live, you can't do yours, I do mine, you must tell each other what you do, and you need to communicate with each other about any problems.
First of all, the other party doesn't like him, so naturally he won't agree to him, and secondly, he himself is not good enough and attractive.
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