What should I do if my child is lazy in his homework and is always distracted?

I'm a 14-year-old middle school student. I also had my childish years.

You should let your child know what he has to do, what he has to do, and what he has to do. Let your child have a sense of responsibility, let him take on the housework, and tell him that not only mom and dad are obliged to work, but everyone in the family must be responsible, and the same is true for learning. Parents have to work, students have to study.

Don't let him watch cartoons, play games, watch**. These are all things that once you become addicted, you can't extricate yourself. Playthings are demoralized!

When learning, all a child can think about is game animations and the like, and if you don't let him touch it, he won't think about it. Of course, it is difficult to control your child from playing games at first, but don't let him play because he is coquettish and crying.

Another thing is to let him mature and think more about his future, such as working on his own, supporting his parents, getting married and having children, etc., so that he knows the importance of studying now!

I didn't study very well in the first year of junior high school, mixed with bad students, and only in the second year of junior high school did I know the importance of learning, so I overcame difficulties, and now 750+ people are in the top 15 of my grade

In short, you don't work learning methods, etc., you should work the child's understanding and ideological quality, maybe the child doesn't have to listen at all, then you don't have to say more, because the child has a rebellious mentality, but you must give him a big definition, don't do immoral and illegal things, don't lie, and do things seriously. When he grows up, he will study hard.

Anyway, elementary school is not very important, just understand the basics, and junior high school should be able to realize the importance of learning.

When educating their children, many parents often complain that their children are very abrasive and procrastinating. Maybe you can set a rule for your child. If your child does his homework in time or finishes his homework early.

You can give your child some encouragement. This encouragement can be something that the child is interested in.

Give him a set time to do his homework, and when the time comes, regardless of whether he finishes writing or not, he will not be allowed to do it again.

My mom used to stare at me doing my homework, but now that I've grown up, I've realized it, enlightened him, and let him know the importance of studying.

If you really can't do it, you will only get twice the result if you force him.

Finding a way to get him interested in learning is the key.

If the child usually writes homework seriously, is not distracted, and is very self-disciplined, it should be the same during the epidemic, and the problem in the end is actually a problem of habit formation and concentration.

1. Set some necessary rules. There are no rules, we must educate children from an early age to develop a good habit of doing homework first and then doing other things, such as playing with mobile phones, which can only be done after completing homework, so that children like to do things and become things that require extra effort.

2.Create a quiet and comfortable learning environment for your child. Don't serve tea, water, and food to your child when you're studying, don't play with your mobile phone, don't talk loudly in your child's ear, and let your child concentrate on learning.

3. Teach children some time management methods. Teach your child how to manage the "3 frogs", find the 3 most important things for a day, a week, a month, and a year with your child, and let your child prioritize eating these 3 frogs every day. When eating 3 frogs, you must protect these times, try not to be disturbed by other irrelevant things, focus on it, make effective use of these time, and persist for a long time, and the child will develop good study habits, have a healthy body, a sunny mind and better academic performance.

4. It is important to provide a very quiet learning environment for your child. Many parents often feel that their children are not attentive to things, and always interrupt their children's attention to people may be their own, when the child is particularly energetic to play, as a mother will let him drink water or eat fruit, when the child is inattentive will be disturbed, there is no stable environment, how can he concentrate on doing things.

5.Encourage your child at all times. Do not interfere with the child doing what he likes to do, forget to do other things when he is focused on doing crafts or observing small animals, because parents cannot disturb him, but wait patiently for him to finish the work, in fact, while cultivating his interest, but also inadvertently cultivating the child's attention.

6. Let the child complete the learning content within the specified time. Change the time to quantitative, if the child can concentrate on the completion, then parents should praise or pamper in time, let the child do homework in the process of the requirements and conditions of the question, check with a pen, in order to prevent mistakes, these can enhance the child's self-confidence and make him feel that he can fully focus on a good thing. If you want your child to focus on learning, you should still focus on developing good daily habits.

Only by developing good habits will the child be able to spend his time on the most important things and not on other things that don't matter, whenever and wherever he wants.

The child is easily distracted, most likely because he does not have good control over himself. You can start with the things he is interested in to develop his concentration, so that it is not easy to get distracted.

You can manage the child, but also supervise the child, and accompany the child to do homework, so as to ensure that the child is more serious when writing homework.

You can remind your child, tell him that he can go back to sleep after finishing his homework, and tell him that he will check his homework.

First, do your best and focus on creating a good learning atmosphere. In the name of accompanying their children to do homework, some parents are actually "leisure and entertainment" around their children, they either slide to play with their mobile phones next to them, or eat snacks next to them, which not only cannot create a rich learning atmosphere for their children, but also is likely to interfere with their children's learning. This kind of companionship is not real companionship, and the correct way for parents is to take a book that they like and read it carefully and quietly next to their children, giving them a psychological hint that parents and him will study together.

Second, don't interrupt your child's learning easily. Some parents sit next to their children, keep an eye on their children doing every question, and once they find that their children have done something wrong, they shout and order their children to correct them immediately. Actually, this is not advisable.

Parents sitting next to them and watching their children do their homework all the time can make them nervous and difficult to concentrate. It is also not necessary for parents to correct mistakes in their children's homework at any time. The correct way is to let the child complete the homework independently and quietly, let the child check the mistakes in the homework by himself, and then let the parents check it again to find out the mistakes in the homework.

For mistakes in homework, parents should first let the child look through the textbook to find out how to solve the problem, and if the child still can't understand it by reading the textbook, the parent will patiently explain it to the child.

Thirdly, the focus is on cultivating children's good study habits. When parents accompany their children to do homework, they should focus on observing whether their children have good study habits. If parents find that their children are doing small actions while writing homework, or frequently go to the toilet or ask for snacks after writing homework for a while, this indicates that the child is not attentive to homework and is not focused on learning.

Learning is a complex mental work, and it is impossible to achieve the desired effect by inattention, so once parents find that their children have a bad habit of being absent-minded about homework, they must correct it in time.

1.Face up to your child's emotional changes.

In the face of children's negative emotions due to excessive pressure, some parents always disagree, thinking that their children are too hypocritical, after all, every child has to complete the same homework, why can't you bear it, so low efficiency?

For children, such an attitude of parents is completely adding fuel to the fire, not only do not give understanding, but make words to attack and ridicule, so that they can not feel the love of their parents, but will make the pressure in the children's hearts more and more, and eventually exceed the psychological critical point, at this time the child may do some radical things, parents should not take it lightly, to strictly prevent the occurrence of tragedy.

Many parents think that it is important to be reasonable when dealing with their children, but parents must remember not to reason with their children when they are dominated by emotions. When a child has an emotional breakdown, the only thing they need is understanding and comfort.

Even if the problem lies with the child itself, at this time, parents should hug the child, let the child's emotions be calmed down, and then talk to the child calmly after calming the child's emotions, so that the child can understand the parents' painstaking efforts.

When the child is emotionally broken due to the pressure of homework, parents should also try to avoid cold words to the child, and be more understanding and considerate, so as to really solve the problem.

2.Boost your child's productivity.

After the child has calmed down, it is time for parents to address the root causes.

Does your child have a lot of homework? The answer is yes, of course, but this is not a new problem, and parents who are plagued by it today face the same problem as children.

Children do have a lot of homework to do, but not so much that they can't do it, and many children do it well. As long as your child is attentive in class, it won't take too long to complete these assignments. Therefore, in today's education system, in order to fundamentally solve this problem, parents need to improve the efficiency of their children's learning and homework.

Parents can create a better and quieter learning environment for their children, when children do homework, let children temporarily stay away from all kinds of electronic products, do not let children do homework while playing with toys, with a variety of toys distracted, children's efficiency in doing homework is very low, parents should pay attention to this.

3.Value actively cooperates with teachers to discuss countermeasures to help children complete their homework better.

No matter how busy parents are, they should communicate with their teachers appropriately on weekdays to understand their children's learning situation at school. If the child does not perform well in class, parents must intervene in time and cooperate with the teacher to find ways to make the child learn better. The child's learning efficiency has improved, and he will naturally be able to do his homework with ease.

The child's attention span should not exceed two minutes. They can't sit still, they're too active! In class, I don't pay attention to the lectures.

I was always looking around, and I couldn't concentrate, and inattention is a weakness in many children. It is also one of the key points of anxiety for parents, and it is also one of the reasons for children's poor grades.

What should I do if my child is always distracted?

1.To cultivate children's interest in learning and advocate parent-child education, parents should set an example and guide children to discover the joy of learning, such as playing word games and listening to English songs, so that children can achieve the purpose of having a strong interest in learning.

2.Many times children skip class because the topic is beyond comprehension, it is too difficult and difficult to understand. Therefore, it is necessary to communicate with the teacher in a timely manner, pay attention to the child's learning level and effect, and give feedback to the teacher in a timely manner. Timely local tuition.

3. Insist on developing a 21-day habit, train children to do things they are interested in, and gradually invest time and energy, and children will gradually adapt to such a state.

4.As a parent, try not to deliberately intervene when you find your child focused on one thing. For example, if you like to read a book, even if it's a comic, don't interrupt and create something suitable for focusing on things. health) condition.

5. Pay more attention to life and diet, such as 7-8 hours of regular sleep a day, a comprehensive nutritious diet, which is conducive to the growth of children, and physical and mental health is the foundation for cultivating concentration.

Reasons for distraction in children:

1. Some children don't sleep well, rest well, and have a lot of study pressure. They often stay up late, which is easily distracting. I couldn't get up on time in the morning, and my mind was groggy. I don't have the energy all day. I don't pay attention to the lectures in class.

2.If the child does not get along well with classmates at school, or does not get along well with teachers, conflicts with parents over some things at home, and a bad mood can also lead to distractions.

3.If you're not interested in the task at hand, get involved if you like. If the child is not interested in the task at hand, it is difficult for him to give him full attention and a high level of concentration.

Since then, a vicious circle has formed. If you don't like it, you can't focus. If you don't concentrate, you won't learn well.

If you don't learn well, you don't like it even more.

4. Environmental interference. Some schools are close to roads or construction sites, and there is noise outside during school hours; Some parents watch TV, play ** or talk to others when their children are studying, but do not pay attention to controlling the sound; Some parents often walk around their children when they are studying, asking him if he is hungry for a while, thirsty for a while, and constantly "chasing the cold and asking for warmth"; Another situation is that the child's study room is not well lit, too dark or too bright, the tables and chairs are uncomfortable, etc., these aspects can cause the child's distraction.

Give him a certain amount of time to do his homework. You can accompany him during the assignment. Practice concentration slowly.