One day in the future, when you have a successful career, will you be grateful or resent those who h

Updated on society 2024-04-29
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When I have success in my career, I will be grateful to those who have hurt me. Because when my career is not successful, I can find my own problems in time and correct them after being hurt. It is a great help for career success.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There will be no gratitude, and no resentment. Because I have a successful career and I have worked hard myself, why should I be grateful to the people who have hurt me? Because I am busy with my career, I don't spend time resenting the people I have hurt.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't hold grudges, I don't grateful. The past should be let pass.

    I won't forget how I was hurt in the first place, but I can't deny that while I was hurt, I will be stronger. So when the career is successful, the normal heart is good, there is no gratitude, no resentment.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Grateful. Because they have made me stronger and made me the successful person I am today.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I won't be grateful or resentful, when my career is successful and my life is happy, why think of the people who have hurt me, there is no need to recall the sadness of the past, just think of it as a floating cloud, cherishing the present is the most important thing.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I would be grateful to them. Because the hurt they did to me turned into a motivation for me to go out of my way, and I want them to know that one day I will succeed, so I am very grateful to them.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not grateful, not resentful, because they don't deserve my gratitude, not resentful because, having succeeded, there is no longer them in my eyes.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I would be grateful because without those who hurt themselves, I wouldn't have struggled hard but stood still.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I will be grateful to the people who have hurt me in the past, because it is because of their injuries that I will be who I will be. Without these blows, gaining experience, you can't be successful.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I will be grateful to those who have hurt me because they have allowed me to grow and to gain experience.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm not so generous, there are some things I don't want to mention, I prefer to forget it, I won't forgive the people who hurt me in my life, I still have to be kind, don't hurt others.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course, I would like to thank those who have hurt me, because they have made me realize the cruelty of reality, and they have also made me understand that the strongest backing of a person is himself.

    The road to success will never be smooth, and your success will inevitably involve the interests of many people. Some people will benefit from your success, and some people will suffer because of your success. But when you really get to this point, you will find that the people who once stopped you are also an indispensable part of your path to success.

    Frustration makes people grow, and stress makes people improve. Those who have hurt you, or have tried to hurt you, have put enough pressure on you. And under this pressure, you have never given up, and have been working hard to achieve your goals and dreams, and it is precisely because of this pressure that you must continue to accelerate your growth speed in order not to be crushed.

    And for you to be successful, this pressure is also indispensable. Therefore, when you succeed, you should thank those who have hurt you, and strive to thank their eight generations of ancestors.

    People must have a grateful heart in order to be able to walk more smoothly on the road of life. Of course, what I want to say is not to repay those who have hurt you, but to express that people should learn to understand the position of others in life.

    There may be times when the two are opposites, but this opposition is not right or wrong, it is the right decision made in one's own position and position. What you think is hurtful in the world right now may just be a normal thing in the eyes of others.

    On the road to success, you should be grateful for someone who helped you, and don't be resentful if no one helped you. There is a good saying, someone helps you in love, and it is your duty not to help you.

    Everything you have experienced in the past is a precious treasure in your life。There will be a lot to go through on the road to success, and perhaps when you walk on the road, you will hate those who hurt you immensely. But when you really stand in the position of success, I think it's more about smiling.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because many people say that those who hurt you have finally exercised your will and made you successful in the end, in fact, I hate this view, why did I suffer and finally succeed, and I have to thank those who made me suffer!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because without those people who have hurt you, you may not grow, and it is they who make you stronger, so from a certain point of view, the words that hurt you at the beginning are actually a spur. So that when we succeed, we have to thank those who have hurt us.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Many people succeed because they hold their breath and want to show those who have hurt them. To make those people regret or be impressed, to make those people jealous and envious, so that they will make themselves stronger and harder.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because it was the people who hurt me who made me stronger and made me a better version of myself, so I want to thank those who have hurt me.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Whenever I see this chicken soup problem, I feel ridiculous.

    Generally speaking, this kind of chicken soup just tells you what life principles are on the surface, but in fact, if you think about it carefully, it is basically nonsense.

    After I succeeded, I will never thank the people who hurt me, I will only thank the people who helped me and the strong myself. The people who have hurt me will always be the people who have hurt me, the dark spots in my life.

    People who say things like "After success, thank the people who have hurt you" are basically two kinds of people: pretending to be open-minded and hypocritically showing their noble character; Destinists, who do not know how to analyze logically, see the harm of others as an alternative help on the road to success.

    I especially hate the latter, their presumptions are totally undesirable, anti-logical, anti-intellectual. If we can succeed after we have been hurt, it must come from the help of others and our own growth. What we should be thankful for is "self-reflection after being hurt", not "people who have done us harm"!

    That's it, I hope you don't drink the chicken soup when you see it, and it's important to develop the ability to think independently.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I will not forgive those who have hurt me, because the harm they have done me has never been forgotten, and I will not forget the pain because of their words of apology.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Actually, I forgave those who had hurt me because I felt that holding a grudge against them would make me unhappy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I didn't, because they hurt me and I almost couldn't get through that time, and I wouldn't have fallen into a hole twice.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Forgive. When I was a child, I was hurt by my classmates, but later I learned to forgive, because forgiving others is a person's greatest cultivation.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I finally forgave the people who had hurt me, because I no longer regarded them as the people I cared about in my life, and when I let them go, I forgave them, because they really didn't care to me, and there was no need to hate.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There is no forgiveness, those who have hurt me are a lifelong wound in my heart, and I will not forgive.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I will eventually forgive those who have hurt me, because only by forgiving them will I have a more relaxed life, which means that I have let go of everything.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Bless you, anyway, I'm not as I want There is a lot of resentment in my heart I resent myself for not being as I wanted I have always been in my heart I am not reconciled to this life and this life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Actually, I think so about this question, as long as it's a girlfriend you really like, no matter what it looks like? I'll be well, it's good, as long as you're for him, that might be what attracts you! It's not easy for two people to be together, they have to treat each other and be sincere with each other, so I think I get a good relationship, which should be supported.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    As I get older, my mood gradually becomes different from before, because when I was young, I always felt that for those who hurt me, I would definitely have to give back to them when I had the ability in the future, but when I grew up, I gradually found that there was really no need to do anythingIt's not that it can't, it's not necessary

    The memories of the past are a kind of irresponsibility to your life, look forward bravely, there are still many beautiful things waiting for you in life. There are many more things to choose from.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think we should hate him at first, but think about it in another way"

    Thank you, people who have hurt us!

    Because he has made us grow up to understand that all love is going through tribulations.

    Really appreciate them, the people who have hurt me before!

    Because he made us sensible, it turns out that there is really no one right or wrong in the love of two people!

    Really appreciate them, the people who have hurt me before!

    Because he made us mature and understand that no matter how deep the hurt is to love someone, there will be no hate.

    It's just that now I'm looking for a new happiness, a happiness that has nothing to do with you anymore, and after loving and hurting, I know what happiness is and what pain is. Life is like this, and it is also a process that everyone will go through, and this is love. You will learn a lot in the process of love, so that you can grow up in love and pain.

    Remember the following words, and you will know that life is nothing but a dream, sometimes beautiful, sometimes painful.

    The vast majority of people have loved someone unforgettable;

    The vast majority of people have lost a lover in pain, either because of changes in circumstances or for other reasons;

    The vast majority of people later became families, and the spouse they chose was not the one who had a vigorous relationship;

    The vast majority of people know what regret is and what is deep and shallow;

    After the vast majority of people get married, they gradually don't feel regrets, and occasionally meet the former one, and suddenly their hearts are as calm as a mirror, and the wind is light;

    After drinking too much, the vast majority of people will suddenly and generously express their past regrets to others; The vast majority of people do not feel uneasy about this privacy after revealing it, they still dress well, and go to work in meetings.

    I wish you will be in a better mood after reading it, and I wish you to find your true love as soon as possible!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    1 3 Everyone has hurt others, whether it is intentional or unintentional, if it is unintentional and there is no big harm, then it is also good to meet and laugh and enmity, after all, there is no eternal enemy, forgiving others is also to give yourself another path in life.

    2 3 If the person who has hurt you apologizes very sincerely and tries to make amends for you, in this case, we must also be forgiving and forgiving, after all, whether it is life or work, it is very cruel to everyone, so why bother others.

    3 3 When you don't know whether to forgive someone who has hurt you, it's best to empathize with others, treat the matter calmly, try to find the cause of the injury, and then decide what you should do according to the reason.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you treat him as a friend, he will face you with gratitude, and don't care about the pain of the past, because it will make you go further and further away, and that friend knows how much his actions have hurt you? If you are sure that he is not clear, you must talk to him, otherwise if he doesn't even know this, he will think very badly and badly, and then cause your relationship, if he is very clear, one day one of you will speak, it is better to start first, and people may be grateful to you, you first said that you want to talk to him, he will definitely agree, because he has offended others, that person will actually come to me to reconcile the relationship, really, he will be very grateful in his heart, he is likely to change his opinion of you, Wouldn't it be great that you would turn from enemies to good friends?

    You may find it difficult to do this, because I have to apologize to him myself for offending me, but in fact, I am such a person, even if I offend others, I am embarrassed to apologize to others because of this, and I have to wait until others find me, but once others find me, I will feel very warm, I think this person is very good to try, be brave, he will definitely be grateful to you, he may also tell you what he thinks, and then all misunderstandings will disappear.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Time will solve everything for you, don't let yourself deliberately think about how to forget him, as long as you put your experience into your career, you will find that your life is very full, naturally, he will disappear into your life, that is to say, you forget him

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    "Save the smile for the person who hurt you the most"This is something I realized by accident, and I will remember it deeply in the future. What a strong and free life, and how much love and hate have to be experienced.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The relationship is not smooth sailing, there will always be more or less ups and downs, and when you encounter problems, communicate in time to find out the problems. But if he doesn't want to communicate with you when he encounters a problem, then he certainly doesn't really love you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't try to forget, the law is that the more you want to forget, the harder it is to forget, you let him leave it there alone, as time goes by, many things will always drift away with the wind, in fact, it is not worth our time and energy at all.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    What harm can catch up with a lifetime of not wanting to pay attention to others? If you really don't want to see her for the rest of your life, how different is it from the enemy? You see her as an enemy, isn't that harm?

    Since they are enemies, where does the harm come from? ...You have to dig into yourself, in fact, you can't let go of that relationship. In this way, it seems that it is a gift from heaven to be able to see it now.

    Greet time with a peaceful heart for you to forget.

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