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It shows that your husband is unreliable, too attentive, and he is not afraid of you at all, nor does he respect you, you know that you already know that he loves Liao San with other women, and you found out that he did not accept it, but was a little rampant, indicating that he thinks you have no way to take him, you are willing to live with him, you are willing to be with him, if you are not together, he also thinks it doesn't matter, I think he will not change, there may be more excessive things in the future, you are very disadvantaged to marry such a person.

You definitely don't really forgive your husband in your heart, so you always think of such things in your heart, and I think you should gradually forget about it.

The most important thing is what you think.

If you want to continue living with your husband, then let the past pass! Don't mention it again, often mentioning it will hurt the relationship between the husband and wife, after all, now he hands over his salary to you, and he also positions himself with you, so it depends on his future performance, don't mention the past again, to see if he can really live with you in the future.

If you think that what your husband has done is a stalk in your heart, then it is recommended that you divorce, because you can't let go of this embarrassment in your heart, and you often quarrel together.

Kiss! It is normal for a woman to be small-hearted and always mention his ugly things. This is also the reason why many men and women divorce.

You need to make it clear to him about this matter, and the reason for mentioning the old things is to warn him and to make you happy for a longer time. Since they are going to be together, he has to accept it. If he has done something wrong, he should be re-educated.

In fact, as long as he has a correct attitude and correctly understands the consequences of this matter, slowly, you will not bother to mention it again.

Have a great day!

If you still want to move on, just put your previous events at ease! You have to learn to let go, otherwise it will be torture for you.

You still have feelings, it's just that you can't let go of this matter in your heart, if you really love him enough, forgive him, you can consider not having a child first, testing him for a while, but don't say it about this matter, such words that hurt each other, is it really relieving to say it, no, but it hurts more. If you really don't want to pass it, let's get together and disperse!

I know that your husband is involved with the wine companion, and you have forgiven it, why can't you get by? Let the past pass, what do you want it to do? Now that there's nothing to do, it's not good to mention him and expose people's scars, right?

Isn't there such a sentence? Don't expose people, don't slap people in the face, since you forgive, you trust, if you don't trust enough, you will be divided, why bother so much?

After reading the problems you said, it depends on whether you can accept him, if you can't accept it, break up decisively or give each other a period of time to calm down, if you think he will know his mistakes, you can also ignore the previous suspicions, live a good life in the future, and don't mention the past, if you always can't get by, it's not good to always mention it, life is very tired.

Let the past pass. Looking forward, life can be better.

Pull down everything that has passed, restrain yourself, don't mention it again, and turn the page over!

I think the past will be forgotten if he can change it for you.

If you want to continue living, you can endure it, and if you don't want to continue living, you will divorce.

It's useless to regret it, you're still married, aren't you? It shows that you love the object more than yourself, and you should love yourself well at the moment and exude your own charm and value.

I think your partner has a lot to do with drinking before you get married, and that's a big deal. And if how can he explain it? You didn't forgive him then, and maybe you won't regret it now.

Why didn't you choose to get married without making this matter clear at the time? Now, make yourself contradictory. If this matter is confirmed, it will be a kiss mark, and the two of them will be together.

And also slept together, what would you do? Get the worst answer, and you're going to be very sick inside. If you still want to continue living with your current husband, then.

Relax and stop thinking about it, leave it behind and live your life seriously. Don't ruin your life now because of this little thing.

It's not a good thing for any woman to get to the bottom of it.

Men are now completely yours and you need to cherish them.

Don't let the mess of the past disturb your current life.

Looking forward, everything before is really nothing.

Who can not have a past, why bother to be bored!

It's the present and the future that matter.

You are married and legally married. Your husband should love you, otherwise he can't marry you. There is no need to dwell on the past, and there is no need to regret it.

It is recommended that you have a good talk with your husband, let him cherish what he has, don't touch your bottom line, and don't do deviant things. If the husband grasps himself well, he has strong restraint, and he will not dare to get carried away with the wine. Suspicion and distrust between husband and wife are painful.

Mutual trust is the bond that binds a marriage, so think twice.

This should be an abnormal relationship, it may be just playing, as for how you should deal with it, it is better to listen to the advice of friends, I don't know how to persuade you.

If you feel that you really can't accept it, then disperse, but if your husband has really changed, you might as well give him a chance, because after dispersing, it will be a big blow to the children, to both parents, and to relatives and friends.

Ask yourself if you can really forgive, if you can, don't remember it, if you can't, hurry up and divide it. Otherwise you'll be miserable for the rest of your life. And if you hold it for a long time, you will get sick. No matter how much others say, it's useless.

This shadow will stay with you for the rest of your life. Let's break up.

There is no cat that does not steal fishy If you really know that you are wrong and change it, just forgive it once Marriage is not easy and cherish it.

Time will dilute everything, I'm the same as you, it depends on how well my husband performs? Have you repented? Love yourself well, otherwise you will become a yellow-faced woman and no one will pity you.

Everyone has a time to make mistakes, the key is to look at his attitude after making mistakes, and to correct it in time or give him a chance, don't take this kind of thing to heart, forget it slowly, think more about the good of your husband, if you just think about the bad, there is no good person in the world!

People have times when they are stupid, they know their mistakes, admit their mistakes, and correct them; Home needs to be tolerated with each other, and it will be counterproductive to leave the past behind.

My husband was the same, I chose to divorce, and the child was ten months old at the time.

It shouldn't be forgiven, if you can't get over it in your heart, you can divorce decisively How dirty it is.

Since you have forgiven him, then you have to adjust your mentality, time can dilute everything, and it will get better slowly.

If you still haven't forgiven, you should forgive him from the heart!

It can be agreed in a marital agreement.

Then give him a note and see how he does in the future.

Now that you've forgiven it, let it pass! If you can't get by, get a divorce.

Every man makes mistakes, and it's good to change them in the past.

Forgive him for the time being and see how he behaves in the future.

As long as your heart changes, you will forgive.

If you think about your previous romance every day, you won't think about it, as long as he is good to you, relax your heart.

Does the family know? Don't think about revenge on him, you just don't know that there is such a thing, be tolerant of him, he will feel sorry for you, often coquettish in front of him, make him feel that you need him to be by his side, and slowly your husband will come to you.

If you're not ready to have a good time with him in the future, or don't plan to live with him for a long time, or are prepared to spend every day in a lot of scolding, you can do that!

Absolutely not! If you do this, your home will surely fall apart! One is that you have a hurdle after you take revenge, and you can't get over it, and the other is that your husband will find out sooner or later, can he still forgive you? Can you still live in harmony? Think carefully.

A man who betrays you will still betray a second time, but if you take revenge on him in the same way, he will not forgive you for giving you a chance! Be happy your way.

If a woman takes revenge on him for this, not only will it not solve the problem, but it will only aggravate the seriousness of the problem! Because men will care a lot about such a woman! It's better to pretend to forgive, make him feel guilty, and make him more willing to make up for you and pay for you!

You forgive him because you like him again! I can't control it because he betrayed you! Or maybe you can't believe him!

You can't change a man's stealing! It's his fault! Don't punish yourself for his mistakes!

That would be even more unfair to you! Think about it and admit it! Even if he is sorry for you again!

If you can't admit it, you will be separated!

You can't use this method, because it's you who hurts the most in this way, and there's no need to punish yourself for his mistakes, right, there are many ways to be unfavorable in your heart, you can beat or scold, and punish until you are satisfied.

Don't retaliate, what you can't get over now will pass in the future, you have to go in a more perfect direction, let him regret his mistakes at that time. If you never do anything wrong and take revenge, you can always be a noble queen.

Since you choose to forgive him, you have to choose to let go of this matter and try not to think about it. You can't take revenge as you say. Although it is now said that men and women are equal, there is absolutely no equality between men and women in such matters.

It depends on your feelings for him, if you love him very much, then you forgive him once, but there is still a punishment, but you must not use the same method to deal with him, so what is the difference between you and him, then you are not qualified to say him.

This is the stupidest way to go, unless you want to divorce, if your husband knows, not only your marriage is gone, but your reputation is also gone

No. Be calm. Calm down. If you take revenge on him, then you can wait for a divorce. A man has a strong sense of possessiveness about what is his own.

No, in fact, if you forgive your husband, it proves that you don't want to give up this marriage, and in marriage you have to tolerate and understand each other.

If you forgive, don't retaliate, it's not good for anyone, you can't be together. You can go out and vent.

If you can't get over it in your heart, you can break up and find a good one, if you use the same method to retaliate against him, you will ruin your reputation, and the gains outweigh the losses.

No. He's been wrong, and if he admits it, you should give him a chance. If you retaliate against him in the same way. It's you who suffers, and besides, can you have true love? There is no such thing as true love. Wouldn't that be even more wronged to yourself? Think about it.

It's better not to, you can talk about him now, if he also knows that you are sorry for him, then he will not retaliate against you as simple as that.

Since you forgive, let go and forgive yourself in your heart. Not to forgive the other person, but to forgive yourself.

I think it's okay, and I've said a long time ago that I'll do what the other party does.

It's good to forgive, don't think about it, it's okay, you are a woman to be self-respecting, and it is you who takes revenge on her and suffers.

Prove that you didn't forgive him, don't be together again if you can't get over, you repay her and the last hurt is yourself.

If you care, why are you also the most innocent party, he made a mistake himself, but he didn't think about it, and even lingered, did he really know that he was wrong, or did he use this as an excuse all the time?

If you choose to forgive him, don't embarrass yourself, or you can't get along with yourself, let it pass, look forward, don't ask the old man to be entangled in this matter, relax your heart,

When the mirror is broken, there will always be a crack.

Still haven't forgiven, you go find a man, balance it, and it's over.

I also went to find a few men to do it.

Mental imbalance, isn't it? In fact, there are times when mistakes are made, and after a long time, it will be fine.

Communicate more with your husband to understand his recent situation, many times you hold back the problem and it is easy to cause a big misunderstanding.

Don't ask. How they met. Otherwise, it will hurt you more.

Now that you have forgiven, you must untie this knot in your heart. As the saying goes, confusion is a blessing. So don't take it that seriously.

After all, forgive, don't think about the old days! Live a good life with your husband. If he reoffends, he can no longer be forgiven.

aqui te amo。

A slap doesn't make a sound, the marriage is two, one party betrays the other party, and is forgiven. As a result, it is difficult to sustain the marriage.

I don't think you should pay too much attention to this kind of thing, if you think you have forgiven him, then don't ask too much about this kind of thing, it will only get close to your scars, it will only make you sad. Or you just look at what you can solve yourself. If you really have a mustard, let's separate for a while.

What to ask? Isn't that what it all about? The more this happens, the more serious it will be, and if you don't want to get divorced, just be a smart woman, don't ask.

Don't ask, it's yourself who hurts other people's scars. Now that the matter is over, let him pass. It's better not to say something than to say something, right?

I think that if you ask, it is estimated that you will not be able to get over that hurdle, so since it has passed, since you have forgiven him, since you have decided to start over, let him pass the past!