Will I be happy if I choose my first love? 20

Updated on psychology 2024-04-27
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Why isn't first love happy? My boyfriend and I have been talking for 7 years and are getting married soon. We were each other's first love.

    I'm happy now. We've been through breakups, and we've been through things like you. But we've come through this hurdle.

    If you are in love with your first love, then stay with him, provided that you broke up before? If it weren't for the problems of a third party, it wouldn't affect your future. You don't have to worry about this or that.

    Always have to hurt one, don't you?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't be pretentious. It is good to have such a person in the world who loves him deeply, to know how to cherish blessings, there are still many people struggling for lovelessness. Is it worth it for your irrelevant ** tears late at night, do people know?

    Even if you know, don't give a damn, it's not very meaningless, and I'm sorry for the person who pays for you, people treat you as a treasure, and that person treats you as a grass. People are always obsessed with what they can't get, in fact, it's a kind of fighting spirit to make trouble, and it's better to be calm and let go of what they can't get, so that their hearts will be calm and they can enjoy a good life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You first assess what kind of relationship you need, and then analyze which man can give you what you want, before making a judgment!! The sooner you make a decision, the better, don't feel sorry for anyone, refuse anyone's right to do it, even if you reject anyone will hurt a little, but those who dare to love are people who can afford to hurt and lose, don't feel that this is bad, the real bad is like dragging on and doing nothing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think the first thing to do is to find a time to calm down, you first figure out who you like, this is not the most important thing, but you can't ignore it.

    The second thing is to give you the feeling that who cares about you is, and who cares about you in the bottom of your heart.

    The third thing is that you have to think about practical issues, do you and him have any hope to grow old? From a material point of view, isn't there a movie called the Naked Running Era, although it is a movie, how about their relationship, but they will still break up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In this case, it is better for you to weigh yourself and analyze that person loves you with 100% heart. Or take advice from your parents and friends. In the end, there must be happiness, sadness, and a choice. Break a leg.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it's better for you to make a choice as soon as possible, otherwise it's three people who will suffer... You need to decide which one to choose, but you must choose what makes you happy, how can you know if the result will be good if you don't choose...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Feeling is a good answer, you think you like him and him, if you don't like it, tell him, happiness is in your own hands, the choice is your choice, and the feeling can tell you lifelong happiness.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think you should choose your favorite, after all, sympathy is not love, life is not a day or two, but decades of mutual affection! After choosing, you have to believe in yourself, and you will never regret the decision you have made in the future!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hehe, it depends on how old you are, and it also depends on how deep your emotions are, generally speaking, it is difficult for first love to succeed and be happy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's really hard to choose, but you should keep your eyes open to see who is really good to you, and it's best not to break the thread, it's dangerous...

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Emotional matters, to recognize their hearts, if you really love your first love, then immediately break up with your current boyfriend, if you have been so hesitant, it will be the three of you who will be hurt

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is not easy to meet a person who truly loves me in my life, I have also encountered this kind of thing, I chose the person who loves me, I think he is a person worthy of my cherishment, and now we are very happy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In my opinion, the first love will be happy, and I was so old at the beginning.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it will be happier to be with someone who loves me more than he loves him, and on the contrary, I will work hard ......

    So, my advice is to choose someone who is selflessly good to yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Only after choosing will you know whether it is a duty to turn back.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Expert Tips: You are into the scams of professional men, and it is recommended to be careful not to be deceived.

    This won't last long.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Maybe, maybe, maybe not.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Uh: I hope you're right.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is said that being able to enter the palace of marriage with your first love is the most romantic thing in life. At first, I foolishly thought that I should be the happiest and luckiest woman who could spend the rest of my life holding hands with my first love. But is it necessarily happy to marry your first love?

    1. Because of the surrounding environment, I don't believe in love and longevity, because many of the couples around me, not to mention my parents' generation, are introduced and married after a few acquaintances. I think many of you have heard of this phrase. If it weren't for the children, I would have divorced you a long time ago.

    I think children should feel guilty when they hear this sentence from their parents, but I don't think children can say it, because if you really care about children, you won't want to make them feel guilty, mostly for your own face and later life.

    Second, when talking about love, there are friends who have divorced and married people who thought they could be happy as long as they were together and had nothing. I have friends around me, single mothers and babies. She said she wanted to find someone to marry.

    I told her, you don't fall in love. You don't know what you really like. Now you say that you like to look good, you like to be clean, and you like to have a good personality.

    It's good for you. You definitely shouldn't be a playful pickle girl, but that's just what you think when you're not in a relationship. Only when you get along with each other do you know that you can accept what you love to play.

    3. Envy love at first sight and envy the thousand-year-old relationship. However, I can't gamble everything at once. Marriage must be when you find someone who can accept all his problems.

    There are not as many chicken feathers as marriage, it is more plain and simple. So is love going to disappear? What the future holds, I don't know, be a good woman, a wife, a mother, don't care, don't care, just be okay!

    How to overcome the tempering of the years, how to better maintain enthusiasm and love in the familiar torment, is not only a problem for those who are united in their first love, but also a problem for everyone who embarks on the journey of marriage. But if you want to, you can do it!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes, it will be very happy, because two people have a very good love contact in life, and both people may be very important people in each other's lives.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I don't think so, because sometimes two people don't know each other very well, and they will face a lot of trivial things after getting married, and they may regret getting married.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think it will be very happy, and the relationship between the two people will be very good, and at the same time, they will tolerate each other and understand each other.

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