2 Do you care about the past of someone you like?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Care! I used to be very concerned about his past! But who doesn't have a past of their own? It can only be said that people who have a past with him (her) are unfortunate, because they did not meet the right person at the right time, so we must cherish the happiness in front of us now.

    But to tell the truth, even if you care about the other person's past, it's useless, if you really love him, he really loves you!

    People must be tolerant to do it, and if people are still living in the past, what does it mean? The most important thing is to manage your love well!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I've had this kind of thing lately.

    His former girlfriend came to talk to me.

    She also liked him.

    I didn't know he had a girlfriend.

    I was depressed to death.

    I mind. Then I had a showdown with him.

    I don't think it's nice to know it.

    But since I like him.

    I also feel that it is tolerable.

    I will still cherish the present.

    What is past is gone.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you really love her, you won't care about his past

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I said I didn't care, but I actually cared. Her past is the embodiment of her character!~

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on what it is, everyone has a past! It's better to care less about it, and care about what's the use. If it's not all over, it will make you unhappy. And you can't change the facts, the main thing is to look at the present.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's impossible to say that you don't care, I think two people still have to accommodate and understand each other when they are together.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Care! Extremely concerned.

    Don't believe his sweet words for a while!

    Few men are good!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's really hard to say, but like is like, who hasn't had the past

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't care. Actually, it's hard to say that you don't care.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you love her, you won't care about her past! Bullshit!!

    That's not love!

    How can someone who loves not care about her past???

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since the past does not belong to you, you should cherish what belongs to you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm sure I'll care. But I'm going to self-regulate. After all.

    The other person is what I like, so there are a lot of things, especially what happened before, there is no way to change. Some things, when you don't care about it, it will slowly disappear; But if there is something that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care about it, the clearer it will be in your memory.

    So for this question, from the perspective of love, it is like this: if you love him, you will never mind his past; If you mind his past, you certainly won't love him anymore.

    When you send a booklet to mind a person's past, it means that the seller's past is not happy for you. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap, even a shadow, in your heart.

    If you care a lot about someone or something he has met in the past, then your heart can't love him 100% anymore.

    When you face him in the future, you will be very entangled and painful. When you are enjoying his kindness to you, you will wonder from time to time, has he been so good to others before? Did he treat me like an old man? When it comes to love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

    Paying too much attention to the other person's past, or even dwelling on it, will only create rifts in the current relationship, erode mutual trust, and eventually inevitably part ways. There really doesn't make any sense to punish the present with the past. The past is gone, it cannot be erased, and it cannot be changed, but what we can do is to cherish the present and join hands in the future.

    Since two people can be together, it is time to let go of the past. Facing the present, facing the future, those past events have long passed, those memories, we don't need to deliberately forget, plain, go with your heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Do you care about the past of someone you like? Recently, many people are concerned about each other's past when they fall in love. Because everyone is possessive.

    For the first time, he wanted everything about himself, and his feelings were not defiled, so there was a disease called "spiritual cleanliness". I used to be a serious mental cleanliness sufferer. That's my bottom line.

    But, again, I tried my best. I've been in love a lot, but I've never been in love. So I was interested in each other's past, but then I talked about boyfriends.

    I bet to be with him. I know that this man has a rich love history and has read many women.

    So I felt like I should spend a month with him and then break up with him. At that time, I really didn't want to have a relationship with this person for a minute, but I bet that I would be in a relationship with this man or give someone 1,000 won. Later I found out that this man was really attentive to me.

    He was kind and attentive to me, and he was not as young as a boy who had little experience in love before. He always thinks about my feelings and knows what women want. I learned later that I didn't care about his past at all.

    And I think his past is a nurture for him. Thanks to the cultivation of his ex-girlfriend, he can meet such a good man and have everything he has without spending too much effort. Therefore, people are always growing, and their feelings will change under the exercise of reality.

    So the past is the past after all, and no one wants to experience that failure, but it's fate. There was nothing wrong with the past. Because in the past, this excellent person appeared in front of you.

    A person's past experience includes both active and passive experiences. Young, ignorant, passionate, what matters is what the person is, what he means to you, what you mean to her. The past cannot be changed.

    The present and the future are what you have to experience together. Emotional experiences can make a person mature or give up on themselves. The union of two people will bring about a wonderful change.

    In the end, we can only know the result if we get along seriously and experience it together. We can't decide each other's past experiences, but the future is about participating in each other's worlds. Everybody is the door, and when you go in, you know if the world is the same.

    The simplicity of first love is unforgettable.

    As adults, most people fall in love with each other's talents, appearance, and financial status. But there are practical factors such as money in the relationship, and the chances of stability are also increasing. Reality-based feelings can lead to a longer journey than an impulsive first love.

    In old age, all the good and bad things of the past become memories. Emotional experiences are always inevitable. Past experiences can affect a person's current perception of mate choice, but love can solve many things.

    If you can really face each other, you can slowly put everything in the past at ease. But if you refuse to speak to the other person because of their past, you may miss the right person. You will miss the journey of life, and even the scenery of the rest of your life.

    Love is like a streetlight on the journey of life. It gives us warmth and makes our lives not lonely and cold. If the person who goes through a blank slate can understand our own lives, it's another adventure.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't care because I feel like the past is in the past, and I care about the person's future and the person's attitude towards themselves.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course I will, if he has a lot of love history, it means that this person's character is very bad, and he is also a person who is very inattentive to feelings.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't think so, the past, it's already in the past, the main thing is the future. I'm sure I'm not going to care about the old stuff.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When we meet someone we like. We just want to be with the people we like.

    Because for each of us, being able to be with the person we like is very happy and very sweet.

    So if you can meet the person you like, if you can let yourself and the person you like be able to have a happy and sweet love, this is very hopeful and very eager for each of us. Because in the end, we will be able to get sweet love.

    But we also know that. Although we and our own favorite people. There is also very good love. But we may not know much about the people we like before, and we are not very familiar with them.

    So some people just want to be better. Want to ask if you care a lot about the people you like about their past.

    For some people, they are very concerned. Because they hope that the person they like can't have any shortcomings, especially that they can't have bad things before. So they're for the people they like. I was very concerned about things before.

    But we're seeing more people who don't care much about the past of the people they like. Because they know that even caring about their ex's past will not help, after all, it is a thing of the past. For him, what they value more is with the person they like, and their present, because now two people can live together well, care and love each other, this is the most important thing.

    I believe that it is precisely because two people do not care about their previous past, and they can care and love each other well, so that two people can get together and get along more harmoniously, and eventually make the love between them happier and sweeter.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Won't care about TA's past.

    If you mind, you can't love him with all your heart. Mind refers to taking to heart the things that make He Demo unhappy. When you mind a person's past, state that person's past is something that makes you unhappy.

    Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow.

    If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore. In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be?

    In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

    And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.

    If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things.

    His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him of Yinfan, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past. If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness!

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