How can others comfort others who envy you as a city dweller?

Now the difference between urban and rural areas is not big, and now the society is so open, whether it is people in the city or in the countryside, as long as they work hard, they can find a job and live well.

You can say that I still envy you, the air in the countryside is good, free, and you can make money in the city and go back to the countryside to live, and there is land, you can grow your own vegetables, and the vegetables you grow are safe to eat, which is more conducive to your health, and now many rich people in the city want to live in the countryside. People in the countryside want to come to the city and earn money to buy a house in the city, but people in the city want to go to the country, and the land cannot be bought and sold, so there is no way to build a house at all.

In fact, the countryside is really getting better and better, and many people in the countryside are no worse off than people in the city. There is nothing to envy, ** all have their own benefits.

Many of us will envy others, the city in which we live. We think that the city where others are located is the most beautiful, but in fact, after a long time, we will find that the city we live in is the happiest.

It can be said that you are also very good, whether you are a rural person or an urban person, do yourself well and become an excellent person, so that you can be envied.

Urban people are under pressure, and the living environment and air quality are not as good as those in rural areas. It's not as good as rural life.

You said don't envy it, the city is under pressure, and I envy your idyllic life!

Now that the earth has changed into villages, the boundaries between urban and rural areas have been diluted, and what can be done by urban people can also be done by rural people, and what urban people have and rural people also have, and the gap between urban and rural areas is narrowing.

Idyllic life is more laid-back.

Comfort what? What do the people in the city have? And what happened to the rural people? Aren't they all the same people? As long as you have a good attitude and positive energy, you can live under the sun

What is good about people in the city, the environment is worse than in the countryside, and they live a depressing life.

At present, the rural policy is particularly good, and there are many new ideas and methods for planting.

You can just be a countryman, and then you can scold him when he says the wrong thing, and there is no need to show him mercy.

Hello, what he means is that you are urban, you can humorously say "what city people are not city people, now there is a house in the village, there is a piece of land to grow some vegetables, so that life is comfortable".

He said you're from the city and you can reply to him directly, yes. I'm from the city, because I grew up in the city, so I belong to the city.

If he says that you are from the city, if you are really from the city, you will be truthful, and if you are not, you will just say no.

Because you don't understand what the other person means, if you want to get closer to the other person, you can say that you were originally from the countryside, but now you are working in the city, and you are not an authentic urban person.

You can just tell him that you're from the city, because a lot of people say you're from the city, they want to say you're from the city, you mean you're fashionable.

The city envies the countryside, and the countryside envies the city, you can do this: each is good in its own way, I think the people in the city are nothing great, and now that the rural conditions are good, I can't go to the countryside if I want to.

Don't, it feels like showing off, so it's okay not to talk about it, and besides, it's all people, it's no different from the city and the countryside.

People in the city, just say the city, if you don't, just say no.

Others praise you as the richest man in the city, it seems to be a part of ridicule, you should say that there are many richer people in this city than me, and I am not the richest man.

Wow, people in the city, is that every day you can see the fountain, you can see the aunt dancing in the park every day? Isn't it brightly lit and brightly lit at night?

You can be truthful, if you are from the city, you can say yes, you can ask him, how do you know.

That's right I'm the city guy who eats their own food additives, drinks melamine milk, and inhales smog 1 Aren't you all city people, all earth people, the earth is the smallest city in the world I envy you that you are not city people will remind you through the QQ system, or in the upper right corner of the space personal center.

Both urban and rural areas are the same, regardless of you and me, they are all working in the same country.

: In fact, there should be no distinction between city and rural people, we are all the same Chinese.

Then praise him for his vision, guess right!

You gave me all hope, but it covered my sunshine, laughter doesn't always mean happiness, just like tears don't always indicate sadness, the lyrics of the single loop are all regrets, and it's as hard to change as staying up late is to love you, I'm still nothing, it's good.

3. The two most valuable words in the world: one is serious, and the other is persistence. Serious people change themselves, and persistent people change their fate. Some things are not insisted on when you see hope, but only when you persist can there be hope!

It's okay, in fact, I'm from the countryside...

1 All 1, look at the state.

If everyone is in a good state, just make a small joke, for example, if others praise you for being beautiful and envy you very much, you can say, I like you such serious nonsense.

2. Look at the mood.

If you are in a good mood, when others praise you and envy you, you say what is the use of this, and you can't eat it, you see how powerful you are, just talk about the other party's advantages.

3. Look at the demeanor.

When the other party is really praising you, smile and salute him, these are all small tricks, yours is the big energy, expand the advantages of the other party, there must be specific examples.

4. Characters. What kind of person the other party is, you must see clearly, if people are better than you, when people say they envy you, it means that you want to compliment others.

5. Look at the location.

If you say that people envy you at the dinner, you have to pick up the wine glass, say something, don't say anything, it's all in the wine, and everyone walks together.

6. Look at the time.

If in the bar at night, when others envy you, it is mostly a joke, you will persuade you not to be so sincere in the future, and if you tell the truth, you will suffer in society in the future.

7. Praise each other.

Others say they envy you, but others only see your aura and don't see your hardships, so others can say whatever they like, you can do your best.

If others say that they envy you, it is very likely that others only see your glamorous side, and you may not see the hardships and hardships in your heart, so you should tell others that what you see is only the surface.

There is a precedence in hearing the Tao, and there is a specialization in the art industry, and that's it. That is, each has its own expertise, each has its own merits, and there is no need to envy others.

Answer that others say that they envy you, you can directly and humorously reply and say what do you envy me, do you envy me and want to go to heaven? When others say that envy you is a very good performance of your own life and work, reflecting a kind of praise and exaggeration of an inner state of mind, at this time what we have to do is to accept the care and love of others seriously and modestly, do not exaggerate yourself, and let yourself become a gentle and soft attitude to face everyone. Because in real life, if you live better than others, it is easy for others to have a jealous mentality, so as long as we handle the relationship correctly, we can deal with various problems in life.

Actually, you can too. Try to open your mind and be positive and optimistic, and it will come naturally.

It's good to respond modestly, there is inevitably a better one between friends, many things feel very powerful, those who don't do well will be envious, and when you envy one person, the other person responds wrongly, and it may be considered by the other party as a manifestation of swelling. If you don't respond, the other party will also think that they are rude, and they will start to pretend to be a little powerful, so they need to respond, and they must respond just right. For example, if you work in the same company as your friend, and you are rewarded and praised by the leader for your outstanding performance, as a friend, he is very envious of you, and he tells you that he really envies you and can make such outstanding performance.

At this time, the response must be just right, not to offend people but also to deal with this matter, you need to say that I will definitely not be able to do such an outstanding performance alone, and there is also your credit in it, thanks to your help during this time, I can get today's results. Such a response not only satisfies his sense of loss that he was not rewarded, but also does not make him think that you are starting to swell. There are many similar examples of this, as a friend, he expresses his envy for you, and you also have to thank him, and everyone likes it if you are comfortable, so that you can cope with this embarrassing problem perfectly.

Many people will have envy, I sometimes affirm that others of the same age are much better than me, I will show envy, sometimes it is inevitable, people are more popular than people, there are mountains outside the mountains, there are many people who are better than you, you will indeed envy some people, when envy, don't let yourself be changed by envy, if you don't handle it well, it will become jealousy, jealousy and hatred, it is easy to let yourself do excessive things, and you can only work harder if you want to make yourself excellent, When you get better and better, the god of luck will definitely come, and you will become the envy of others.

In response to the envy of friends, the most important thing is to grasp a degree, an attitude that is just right and not offensive. It's a good thing to have something to envy, and envy between friends is also a common thing, and if the relationship is better, it's okay to make a joke and praise yourself. But a slightly restrained attitude can not only take care of other people's feelings, but also improve your own score in the minds of others.

For example, there will always be such a situation in life, when you have achieved certain achievements in some aspects, which is very enviable, your friends will come up and praise a few words and express envy. For example, at the end of the semester, roommate A won the National Inspirational Scholarship, and we were all very happy for her, and at this time, roommate B, who was studying in general, was very envious and said, it would be nice if I could also get the scholarship. In fact, roommate A may be very happy, but when surrounded by everyone's praise and envy, I will feel embarrassed, especially for roommate B's envy with a little loss, I will feel a little embarrassed.

On the trade-off, being envied is a good thing. For the response to envy, you don't have to be too humble. Again, in the example above, roommate A can say that everyone can study hard.

On the contrary, if it is okay, it is like that, and it is a bit offensive to get a scholarship that is very simple. It seems to have a feeling of superiority.

When you are envied by a group of friends, it is a little different from the example of roommate B, first of all, you can express gratitude, because envy is a kind of recognition. Secondly, you can show that you will work harder in the future. Being too humble in such occasions is also not a good alternative to response.

All in all, it is to avoid the embarrassment that your own will bring to both parties, not to be arrogant, not to be overly modest and disgusting, to really take into account the feelings of your friends, and to be cautious in your words and deeds.

It depends, I think it's still divided.

Friends express their envy of themselves in fact, I still feel quite embarrassed, I feel the same as everyone, I really don't know what to envy, but I will still divide people, if it is a more general friend, no matter what they envy me, I generally don't talk much, just smile, because I don't know what to say, in case the other party just casually said, I generously accepted, people may think I am narcissistic, if I don't accept, people will think I'm hypocritical, really encountered like this.

But if it's a good friend, I'll still say something, if a good friend says that I envy my good figure, I usually accept it very generously, and sometimes I will say that you can have it too, and you can go to the gym often, and sometimes I will give her some advice on my own **.

If they say that they envy me and feel that I am very rich, I will still make it clear, because I am not rich, but the lifestyle and consumption concept are different, I inherited my mother, generally how much I earn and spend, enjoy life, and look at money very openly, and sometimes I will persuade them to look at money a little bit, and everyone will go out together.

In fact, I think from my own point of view, if I express envy for my very good friend, I still want the other person to talk to me.

To sum up the above, in the face of the envy of very good friends, I generally look at whether they envy the facts or the appearance, I accept the facts, and then if I have my own experience, I will share it, if it is not the truth, I will explain it clearly. If it were ordinary friends, I wouldn't usually say anything, just let them think about it.

There is a saying in China: "Love arises over time". After two people have been together for a long time, they will more or less have some feelings.

And a friend, if they get along for a long time, they may often have some good feelings. Some people may be faced with the time when their friends confess to themselves.

When our friends confess to ourselves, first of all, we must calm down. I'm sure many people will be shocked by such a sudden scene, and then they will feel overwhelmed and their minds go blank. Then there is a high chance that you will make some unreasonable actions that you may regret later.

When I didn't know what to do, I first asked politely: "Please give me some time, I'm thinking about it." "In the face of your own request, I believe that the other party will agree, then the next thing you have to do is to think about it.

Then, think about it seriously. There are many things to consider, see if you also like each other, if you also like each other, then things are simple, just accept it. If you don't like the other person, then politely refuse.

Secondly, you can try to accept the other person's confession. When you don't know whether to accept or reject, you can try to spend a few days with the other person to see if this is the life you want, and then make a decision. When getting along, you must pay attention to your words and deeds, and you must not make any unreasonable actions.

Finally, if you really don't like it, you must refuse, and you must not wronged yourself. Some girls are very considerate of others and feel embarrassed to refuse, so they choose to accept. After accepting it, I found that it was not suitable for me, and I often brought harm to myself.

Such a move must not be had, and you should not wronged yourself for the sake of others. And since others dare to confess, they must be prepared to be rejected, and they don't need to worry too much.