How hard is your life?

Everyone's life will be very difficult, a person cannot always be smooth sailing, every family has a difficult scripture, and everyone has their own difficult path. I've been feeling depressed lately, and life has been so hard.

First of all, my family, my parents will quarrel after staying together for a few days, my mother will come home from working outside, my heart will hang, every night I sleep upstairs, I hear a little noise downstairs, I am worried about whether they are quarreling again, every time they quarrel I am caught in the middle is very difficult, to say that no matter what, it must be false, I am annoyed every time because of their quarrels, most of the time I am on my mother's side, saying that my father is not good, and then he scolds me, the more I grow up, the more ignorant I am, Several times I dreamed in my dreams that they were arguing, and I kept crying next to them, and when I woke up, I realized that I was really crying, and I couldn't suppress the sadness in my heart when I woke up. I'm worried that in addition to this incident, my parents have been in poor health in order to make money, so I asked them to go to the hospital for checkup, and they are reluctant to pay, I am really afraid that they will be physically exhausted.

Let's talk about the problems I am facing now, the pressure of studying in school is too great, every time I think of the slim future, I am sad, I can't believe how difficult it is to find employment in the future, do I choose employment after graduation, or choose to go to graduate school? In fact, one of the biggest and most practical problems I face is money. If I choose employment, there is no future at all, so I prefer to go to graduate school, but is it so easy to go to graduate school?

A few days ago, a teacher from a graduate school came to give a lecture, I felt that I was not able to study on my own, but the cost of registering for a class was too high, just a professional course cost more than 10,000 yuan, if I participated in any devil training camp during the summer and winter vacations, the funds needed were unacceptable. Originally, my living expenses were not enough, and the postgraduate entrance examination was really a big investment, and the risk was very high.

No one has a relationship, no background, no strength and no money, what do I use to fight with others! I'm still a student, why is life so difficult!

Life is not very difficult, but now this society is too cruel, and if you don't earn money for a day, you can't feel like you can't get by. The money earned in a year, a little mortgage, and then the family spends it, and there is not much money at all.

If you don't owe each other, how can you meet Life is like this. If you feel that it is difficult, you need to work hard, and if you don't work hard, it will be even harder. Persevere, and happiness awaits you around the next corner. The uphill road is more difficult to walk than the downhill road, and there is a view after reaching the top of the mountain.

How hard it is to soak in poison gas every day! Try for yourself what it's like to have someone gas your house 24 hours a day!

Each of us will have a difficult time in the long journey of life.

When it's tough, how do you get through it?

1.In difficult days, you can only rely on yourself, and others can't help you.

When you enter the society, when your life is the most difficult, in the eyes of others, you are worthless, you know, most of the relationships in the world are based on the value of interests, just like a beggar on the street, no matter how good his heart is, no one wants to make friends with him.

The poor in the downtown no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. This statement is applicable at all times. So this difficult time can only be overcome by yourself, and others are useless.

2.In the hardest time, don't stand still.

Most of the time, people's potential is forced out, and in this most difficult time, you have to be clear about your goals, cherish this time when no one cares, and you have plenty of time for self-cultivation. When this time is already the most difficult, there is nothing to be afraid of, only to keep going, when you improve yourself, you will find that the difficult time has quietly slipped away.

3.In difficult times, we must learn to be self-disciplined and self-reliant.

Some people feel self-pity in adversity, some people are ready to go in adversity, when facing the trough of life, don't give up, self-discipline and self-improvement, and improve yourself.

Sima Qian. Speaking for Li Ling was Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty.

was angry, under the palace punishment, and his face was disgraced, but he did not sink there, endured humiliation and wrote the book, and completed the "Historical Records" with all his efforts

After all, the name will remain for eternity.

Therefore, in the difficult time, we must take care of ourselves, and the body is the capital of the revolution.

Insist on exercising and improving yourself, and you will eventually see the blue sky through the dark clouds.

1. Learn to reconcile with yourself.

When you are in a predicament, don't always think about relying on others, try to work your own, so that every step is down-to-earth, and you will really get out of the predicament. Many people see that they have a lot of shortcomings, and these shortcomings may be the reason why they are entering a low point in their lives. At this time, don't dislike yourself, learn to reconcile with yourself, accept these shortcomings in yourself, and then find a solution.

Competing with yourself does not mean confronting yourself, only by accepting yourself and reconciling with yourself can you make yourself more powerful and have a greater sense of direction.

2. Find the goal to strive for.

The trough period is only temporary, and people cannot be in the trough period for the rest of their lives, and they cannot be discouraged or give up their efforts. During the trough period, life may be very difficult, but don't forget to set a goal for yourself, which does not have to be too big, it is the degree that you can achieve through hard work. This goal is like a lighthouse to illuminate the dark road, which can make you feel empowered, and even if the days are very difficult, you will have the courage to grit your teeth and continue to hold on.

3. Learn to control your emotions.

When life is out of control, you must not forget to control your emotions, because negative emotions will only drag people back, and will not become the driving force for people to improve. The trough period is very difficult, and it is also a test of a person's state of mind, and it is very easy for people to become pessimistic, depressed, irritable, and depressed during this period, surrounded by these negative emotions, it will be more difficult for people to get out of the trough period. At this time, you may wish to learn some psychology-related knowledge, try to help yourself control your emotions, and if there is no effect, you can seek help from a psychologist.

4. Don't close yourself off.

When people are at a low point, it is easy to close themselves off because they don't want others to see their embarrassment and failure. But the more you close yourself off, the more you can't get through the trough calmly, and the easier it is to be defeated by life and slump. Life is the need to interact with people, we need help from all sides, when we encounter difficulties, we may as well learn to ask for help from the people around us, this process is very difficult at the beginning, but we must do it, because some troughs can not get out on their own.

1. Insist on exercising.

To make yourself healthier, and secondly, to make yourself more shapely, it is important for a person to manage their appearance.

Although ability and handling things in society are very important, sometimes a better image will add points to us, and it is also a boost to our love and career.

Who doesn't like beautiful things that are pleasing to the eye, then they will give corresponding attention or subtle privileges, which we can't avoid.

2. Read books. Read more books, read all kinds of books, spiritual, emotional, scientific, historical, interesting, and intellectual.

No one can take it away or take it back.

Reading more books can not only increase knowledge, but also soothe the restlessness and restlessness in our hearts, calm down our impetuous hearts, and make ourselves more in-depth and connotative.

Reading can learn from the experience of others and let us avoid detours.

3. Write articles.

It is fun and fulfilling.

We learn about the world by reading books, and the best way to let the world know about us is to write articles.

Writing can also become a kind of sustenance, a kind of ability, and a kind of habit.

4. Financial management. When the economy is difficult, investment and financial management is a bit unrealistic, so we try to spend less money and save more, which is also the easiest way to manage money.

5. Practice calligraphy. Whether it's a hard pen or a brush, it depends on personal preference.

Practicing calligraphy can calm your mind, adjust your mentality, make your emotions more stable, and improve your cultural literacy.

Self-cultivation, cultivate your own interests and hobbies.

1.Think about your dreams, think about the people who love you, think about the people you love, and believe that this is the hardest time, no matter what, the future days are not as difficult as they are now, and you have to feel that there is no time worse than now, and the road in the future will only go uphill, as long as you think like this, you will slowly persevere.

2.Everyone has the most difficult time, to find their own way of catharsis, you can confide in others, you can listen to the relaxation of **, you can sleep a lot, no matter what, when you relax must be full of hope for the world, full of hope for the future, can not give up lightly, you must know that the world will be kind to people who work hard, as long as you work sincerely, there will be good results, sincerity to the golden stone for the open. Go for it!

First of all, don't give up, hard days are really hard.

The physical devastation is really, very uncomfortable at that critical point, and the psychological torment, what I want most is to give up, and give up the physical devastation, at that critical point is really, very uncomfortable.

And the psychological torment, what I want most is to give up, and if we give up, we don't have to think too much and don't have to be so uncomfortable, but we should think more about how to persevere to gain more, so we don't have to think too much and don't have to be so uncomfortable, but we should think more about how to persevere to gain more.

At this time, we should turn the setbacks into our own motivation and make us stronger through continuous struggle.

Don't complain to others casually, no one in the world can empathize with your suffering, and let yourself have a strong enough independent ability to solve problems.

Arrange your work and life well, and the days of suffering will always pass.

Arrange your work and life well, and the days of suffering will always pass.

First things first: calm down and think about it. When you are at a low point in your life, you will certainly feel lost and tormented, but if you think about it from a different angle, it is also a test and exercise of your will, determination and courage.

The real strong man must mature after a thousand tempers, just like the famous saying "The sky will descend on the people......"Besides, only by learning the lessons of the trough will we make as few mistakes as possible in the future.

The second thing: get out for a walk. After falling into the trough of life, it is often difficult to make a comeback, eager to get out of the trough, but will suffer another blow, you might as well leave for a while, go to the distance to go around, to the deep mountains and rivers, to the sea and river, take a walk, scatter your heart, look far away, the country is picturesque, return to nature, green wild flowers and plants, fountain pearls, will wash the troubles and pain in your heart, clean up the chaotic thoughts, purify the soul, restore reason and confidence, and help you make a comeback.

The third thing: compare up and down. Although after falling into the trough of life, it is a period of frustration and confusion in life, but no one is easy to live, and classmates, colleagues, fellow villagers, and friends are compared, although they may be less than the above, but often more than the bottom.

This seems to be a kind of Ah Q spirit, but it can adjust your mentality in time, so that you can maintain psychological coordination and balance, and you will not lose confidence in yourself because of a temporary trough, do not lose your sharpness due to small setbacks, and do not lose your ambition due to temporary frustration.

The fourth thing: put it aside for a while. It is often said that when you fall, you get up, but it is not necessarily necessary to get up right away, and it is okay to lie on the ground for a while.

When you are at a low point in your life, if it is not something fatal, you might as well put it aside for a while and talk about it after a while. Maybe after a while, you already have a correct understanding, or you don't care about this matter anymore, or you have a more ambitious goal, this setback is no longer a big deal, and you can get out of the trough smoothly.

When life is very hard, try to eat a candy, which can make you feel better, think about life is not diverse, otherwise how to call life, there is no need to complain that your life is very hard, because a good life is also earned by yourself.

No matter how difficult life is, you can only rely on yourself, others can't help, how can life be smooth sailing, I feel very tired every day, but think about starting tomorrow, have parents, have children, grit my teeth, add a coat to myself when it's cold, buy a bread for myself when you're hungry, and give yourself a strong strength when it's painful.

It's not always easy for everyone, and so is life. When life is difficult, you must strengthen your faith and grit your teeth to get through. I believe that the future is beautiful, everyone has a rainbow in their hearts, and it is much better to have expectations.