The person who once cruelly abandoned you now comes back to you, will you look at the child s face a

The person who once cruelly abandoned me now comes back to me, and I will not forgive in front of my children. Because he can abandon me and the child, it means that he is an irresponsible person, since he has not considered the child's feelings, why should I forgive him because of the child! <>

Many people say that they want to give their children a healthy family, so that they can be happier, and if the children grow up in a single-parent family, they will make the children have a shadow. But I think that what really makes children have shadows is not because they live in an unhealthy family, but because the people who take care of them are emotionally unstable. Therefore, the child is not the most important, the feelings of the adult are the most important, only when the adult is happy, he can take better care of the child.

But if the adult has been depressed because of the divorce, he will always have negative emotions, and these negative emotions will affect the child, so that the child will not feel safe. <>

I think that if you can't forgive some people and things in the past, then don't mention it again, because it's already in the past, and don't affect your current life anymore. I think that if a person can abandon his wife and children, then he is irresponsible, and when such a person comes back to you, it is because she is lonely and no one wants to be with him anymore. So such a person is not worth cherishing, when he abandoned you so ruthlessly, he didn't care about everything about you and the child, and you don't have to care about his feelings.

Some things must be opened by yourself, and some knots must also be untied by yourself, so as not to affect your children because of the unhappiness of your marriage. <>

I think the child understands everything, he just doesn't say it, so don't think that your child is a baby。Children can judge whether adults are happy based on their emotions, and if adults are happy all the time, then children will be optimistic. So your emotions are the key to affecting your children, if you want to make yourself happy, don't forgive the person who once cruelly abandoned you, which will only make you relive the pain of the past, and it will not benefit you at all for you now.

If I have made sure that the other party has reformed and comes back to me and asks for forgiveness, then I will forgive him for the sake of the child, but I will not choose to be with him again.

I will never forgive the person who once cruelly abandoned me because of the child, and if he could have seen the child and not abandon us, then he would not have let us suffer so much.

No, I've always believed that this kind of thing is only zero and countless times, and since I abandoned you then, I will not hesitate to abandon you next time.

Actually, I don't look at my child's face and forgive, because I think he still hurt me deeply.