Why can t I let go of a certain girl in my heart?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-01
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you can't let go of this relationship more or less in your heart, I think it's impossible for you to let go quickly, even if you are making greater efforts, it won't help. Please give love a little distance, but this distance should be like the wind, always lingering around you, instead of lingering in the flowers and never thinking about it. When you love, you must leave some distance for love, to be able to love so plainly and plainly, in fact, it is the greatest happiness, don't have to be too greedy, don't have too much demand, don't have too much luxury, don't have too much demand, let it be like a hibiscus in the pool, natural growth, exude a faint beauty, elegant fragrance.

    If you really want to give up, why dwell on the past? There is always no fate, and even if we meet, it is in vain. The encounter between people is a fate given by God, but such a fate becomes too shallow in the face of fate, so no matter how reluctant or unwilling people are, some encounters are destined to be separation.

    If you are fate, time will also give you the opportunity to think more about each other, give each other more care, why quarrel if you love each other. Learn to understand, learn to be tolerant. Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That's because you haven't worked hard, and it can't be a love affair if you don't say it.

    If you confess to her, it's easier to let go even if you fail.

    Maybe if you succeed, you will get a good relationship, right?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, you can't let go of love, say a ** greeting, and find a time to visit. Want to forget about her completely? If so, don't think about her, the more you worry about her, the harder it will be to forget.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You're still in love with her, if possible, make amends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You just haven't changed your heart for her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, you just want someone to encourage you and make you desperate to love and pursue. In other words, you yourself know the answer, but you have a little less courage. If you want it, then be brave enough to pursue it, and take advantage of it! Come on!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The following options are available:

    1. Continue to be friends with her through the chat platform. may feel in people's hearts that the more they can't get it, the more they want to get it, and if they can still keep in touch with her, this relationship may slowly fade away.

    2.If you used to be a couple, and now you have a partner to continue living, the choice is to forget about her, on your mobile phone, chat platform, delete all of her. At first, it will inevitably be very painful and entangled, but after a long time, I can't receive any information from her, so it won't make waves in my heart.

    To be ambitious, to divert your attention, and to try to fall in love with the people around you, a better way to fall in love with the people around you is to give more to the people around you. The more you give, the more you like it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I always think that I can't let it go, is she like this, if so, go to her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    She will take the initiative to talk to you. Because she still likes you, she wants to get back together with you, and the first thing she will come to talk to you is.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A woman who can't let go of you in her heart, his life attention still revolves around you, and he is not in the mood to start the next relationship and reject everything.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Will insist on mentioning you inadvertently in chats with friends. When she can't let go of you in her heart, her feelings between the lines are all about you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What you say is always contrary to what you actually do, saying that you don't want to know your news, and knocking on your dynamics from mutual friends; Block your social accounts while taking the initiative to refresh your homepage.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, I can't help but look at the circle of friends or Weibo you posted to understand your dynamics. Then I will ask your friends about you. Finally, you may be contacted by ** and request to reunite.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hehe, at your age, your mentality is still unstable, if anyone can't treat someone like most people, it's probably some "situation".

    However, it is difficult to say whether this "situation" is good or bad, it depends on your specific situation.

    If you don't care about her, then don't pay attention to it, the so-called "surprise of gain, loss of calm" is also a way.

    If you care about this matter, it's better to be open and honest and ask her directly (be sure to ask directly in person, never write a letter or anything), you are classmates, there will definitely be a chance.

    However, there are two things I want to tell you:

    1. If you are still a middle school student or the like, then don't "fall in love" at every turn, the innocent emotions and hazy love of your youth may not be a good thing if you pierce it, and "memories" are often much better than "facts"!

    2. The truth may make people laugh and cry - there was once a girl who always peeked at my table like her, and I asked me to ask at the same table (she and I are both representatives of physical education classes and have a similar route to school, which is more convenient to "cliché"), but as a result, she just received an unsigned ambiguous "love letter", and she suspected that I wrote it at the same table, but she was embarrassed to ask ......

    Actually, I have something else "loved" at the table, so it certainly wasn't written by him)

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, the other replied that they like you.,I don't think it's very likely.,Girls like a person will want to get close to him as much as possible.,Want to talk a little more.,You shouldn't count that.,As for wanting to know more about her.,Then start with hobbies.,There are common points to have further development.。。。

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Either you're here, or you're too quiet, and the people around her can mingle with her, except for you, she has to exclude you from this exception to get you o( o

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's very simple, your peach blossom is here, and she likes you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    That is, she likes you more, can't you see it?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The agony of adolescence.

    Learn to forget.

    Divert attention.

    At your age, you should focus on your studies.

    Lay a solid foundation for future survival and development.

    Treat her as a good friend.

    Don't get cranky.

    Study well together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Completely normal, not a mental illness. Opposites attract, the law of nature.

    Tactfully ask her if she likes you, it's best to confirm, this can promote letting go, and then chase after other girls.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, don't forget what you once had, cherish what you can't get, don't give up what belongs to you, keep what you have lost as a memory, life is like a one-way ticket with no return, every one is a live broadcast, grasp every performance, is the best cherish, the past of life, reminiscent, tears when sad, drunk when happy, will be valuable because of the pursuit, sunset is not the past of the years, the wind is not the fault of the woods, as long as you have loved and waited, the laughter in heaven is not a legend, No matter how beautiful the day is, if no one cares, it is also a pity.

    In the long years, we are all passers-by in a hurry, all the memories of the past may be a little melancholy, maybe some pain and sadness, whether the dream of life is a dream come true, or a yellow beam, we have to face, to stay unintentional.

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, a hurried life, lingering years, ebb and flow、、、 will always miss a lot of people and things, and will always leave a lot of reluctant memories in the bottom of my heart. There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

    There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.

    Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

    A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

    In fact, I thought I could forget, but the tears I shed did not deceive myself, there is a feeling that I can only store with my heart, and some people and things can never be forgotten.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I can't put it down, I can't forget it. Then remember!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you can't put it down, take it out and throw it out.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Then don't put it and go with the flow as a good memory.

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