Day or boarding, day students? Boarder?

Actually, I think it's easy to pinch day reading... But at home, you have to be conscious.,Because when I was in the third year of junior high school, I was a day student.。。。 What a wow!!

But if you don't allow it to change, you can't do it. Your freshman and sophomore years of high school are in residence, so you don't need to develop any independent ability... Support your day study...

Go talk to the principal. That's what I'll approve...

9:45 is so late for every student, I remember that my self-study was 10:40 in the third year of junior high schoolAt that time, some students wanted to go home early for the last two self-study periods, so they applied to the school. I think you can have a class earlier.

Then go home and study. But I don't advocate it, because I tried, and I was still in good spirits a few days before I got home. I can learn around 10:40.

But then I went home and wanted to rest after studying for a while. For academic advice at school. Believe me.

In response to your question, didn't you say that your school does not allow boarding to day school?

So how can you go to school?

In fact, I also think that it is better to go to school in the third year of high school!

Personally, I think boarding is better, and if you go back to school, you have to do this and that, and the time will be wasted, and it will be worth it before you know it.

It's not allowed to be changed and it's more difficult to do it, do you do your homework early, can't you finish it, it doesn't seem that there is so much homework in the third year of high school.

Boarding bar, the third year of high school has a good learning atmosphere at school.

I don't go to school anymore, but I understand that you should do it according to the rules of the campus, and I understand that everything is hard, but this is your career and responsibility!

Don't change it, you're already in your third year of high school, and you can't waste time on the way back and forth. What's more, the school also has this rule.

Let's stay at home! Develop your independence! And I can communicate with my classmates!!

Boarding bar, or I'm afraid it will affect my studies.

It's better to board, the third year of high school has heavy learning tasks and high pressure, it is more convenient to stay in school, and the time is easy to arrange, so you can save a lot of time to study. However, sometimes it depends on what you like more.

Day evenings have a period of self-time to remedy the fatigue of the day, boarding can enhance friendships, and learning is not the only thing.

Send it to read, because it is absent-minded at home.

Then stay with dad so that you don't lose your time.

Boarding children are more independent, more adaptable to group life, and more tolerant of others.

1. The study time of boarding students is more stable than that of day students.

Boarding students are set to spend time at school each day. For example, in the morning, there is morning self-study, and there is evening self-study in the evening, and there is also the supervision of teachers, while day students have relatively free time at home, and some children even play with their mobile phones and watch TV at home.

2. The self-control ability of boarding students is relatively better.

Day children have "meticulous care" from their parents at home, which leads many students to develop the bad habit of stretching out their hands for clothes and opening their mouths for food, and they will find that their self-care skills are very poor when they leave their parents. Boarding students living in a dormitory, doing their own laundry, cooking by themselves, and washing lunch boxes by themselves will develop a strong ability to be independent.

3. The social interaction of boarders is relatively better.

Day students generally have little contact with other classmates after school, and they spend much less time with their classmates in private. Boarding students walk with their classmates every day, and their relationship is relatively harmonious, and they are more harmonious after getting along.

Personally, I think that boarding children may be more lively and more able to solve problems, but many parents are reluctant to let their children go to boarding schools, because their children's living conditions are much worse than at home, in fact, this is also a side of doting, which is not conducive to the growth of children.

The main difference between boarding and day school is the difference between group life and private life, boarding can exercise a better ability to adapt to the environment, in fact, it is a very good choice.

1. In life, day children are much happier than boarding children.

After the day children go home, they have parents for many things to eat, drink and Lazar, and many families ask their children what they want to eat, and boarding children are bound by the school, and they can only choose from the menu of the restaurant every day, and the school restaurant is generally 3 dishes.

2. The boarding children are later more independent than the day children.

Collective life is the best way to exercise people, the time of boarding life is very tight, only the time of breakfast, lunch and dinner is considered as life time, washing and cleaning need to be completed independently in this limited time, which requires a good time arrangement in advance and cultivating their own organization.

3. Boarding children have a greater sense of community.

The boarding children live in a dormitory, and when children with different personalities get together, there will be all kinds of conflicts and contradictions, and they need to learn how to coexist peacefully in the group, which is a very important ability.

Personally, I think it's good to see which way is more suitable for needs, and to see what kind of learning the child is suitable for, then what kind of way to use.

The difference between the two.

Academic performance varies.

In terms of academic performance, many day students do have better grades than boarding students, and day students can have more time at their disposal after class, and most boarding schools have a half-month holiday, two days, and the make-up class is naturally unable to make up the class, and the day student can make up the class every night, and will not understand it in time.

Learning self-discipline is different.

In fact, self-discipline has a lot to do with the individual, self-disciplined children will be very self-disciplined wherever they are, and it is useless for children who are not self-disciplined to say anything.

The learning atmosphere is different.

In the boarding school, if the teacher assigns the day's homework, you can ask your classmates and the teacher at any time when you don't know, because the homeroom teachers in the boarding school basically accompany the students to study together, and the day students can't ask the teachers and classmates at any time if they don't make up the class, so the learning atmosphere is better than the boarding school.

How to develop children's self-discipline in the details of life.

Downplay the image of the parent as a commander.

Parents should gradually change their identity as "commander" to "observer", gradually dilute the role of parental commander in their children's behavior, and transform it into a bystander, so that parental attention becomes the motivation for children to strive to perform well, and at the same time, parental respect can give children space to act independently.

Refuse to eat fat in one go.

Many parents urge their children to be self-disciplined, and will make plans in one go, including getting up early and going to bed early, studying every day, memorizing words, playing the piano, sports and other projects.

Give your child the opportunity to self-regulate.

Many parents will arrange all aspects of their children's lives, so that children can always live in the "rules", the advantage of this is that parents can control their children at all times, the disadvantage is that children are accustomed to the jurisdiction of their parents, lack of opportunities for self-control exercises, so, parents can appropriately delegate power in some things, let children make their own decisions.

In a study, it has been shown that children who are required to be required to obey unconditionally and children with a very relaxed family atmosphere are actually not good at self-control, and there are also studies that show that if parents often use corporal punishment as a means of controlling children, it will also hinder the formation of children's self-control, so that children can learn in self-discipline This road is still long, parents come on.

In a study, it has been shown that children who are required to be required to obey unconditionally and children with a very relaxed family atmosphere are actually not good at self-control, and there are also studies that show that if parents often use corporal punishment as a means of controlling children, it will also hinder the formation of children's self-control, so that children can learn in self-discipline This road is still long, parents come on.

First, the advantages of boarding are precisely the disadvantages of day schooling.

If you board at a school, there are quite a lot of advantages. Specifically, it is mainly composed of the following points;

First, there are more opportunities for education. We know that boarding schools, which are managed by teachers 24 hours a day, naturally have more opportunities for students to be educated. For example, having a fixed schedule every day is related to cultivating good living habits in children.

Self-study in the morning and evening should be supervised and guided by the teacher, which is conducive to the formation of good study habits and so on.

The second is that you will spend more time with your peers. People have to enter society after all, and in boarding school, children will get along more with their peers, which is, to a certain extent, an early adaptation to social life. For example, how to get along with people, how to resolve conflicts, and so on.

Third, there are special teachers to answer questions and provide homework guidance. Boarding schools, especially some high-end private schools, will develop special homework help programs, and teachers will solve homework problems in a targeted manner. In addition, children who encounter difficulties in the process of homework will also find teachers to help them in time.

Fourth, there are more opportunities for extracurricular activities. Boarding schools will also design some extracurricular cultural and sports activities to make students' school life more colorful. You know, many times, these activities need an atmosphere.

Fifth, it is conducive to alleviating parent-child conflicts. In middle school, parents' learning guidance for students will become more and more stretched, plus "don't talk about homework, mother and son are filial; When it comes to homework, chickens fly and dogs jump", and boarding can effectively alleviate the conflict between parents and children (sometimes, out of sight is clean).

And these advantages are precisely the disadvantages of day study. When Sanshui Sanxin was the head teacher, the whole class boarded, even if the children's home was a few hundred meters away from the school gate. But after a year of boarding, some differentiation will occur.

Boarding or day schooling, you need to analyze the advantages and disadvantages and leave the decision to the child.

Second, the problem of boarding is precisely the advantage of day schooling.

But boarding, too, has some problems. The biggest problems are mainly focused on the following aspects:

First, it may cause a sense of alienation between parents and children to a certain extent, and it is difficult for parents to find changes in their children's emotions. Since we can only see each other once a week, although separation may cause longing, but after a long time of separation, the relationship between parents and children will inevitably be alienated. In addition, due to not being together for a long time, the changes in the child's mood are difficult for parents to detect, and sometimes, it can lead to some serious problems.

For example, the problem of early love among students in junior high school.

Second, school violence is on the rise, which may cause concern to a certain extent. In recent years, school violence has been on the rise. If a child is boarding in school for a long time, if he encounters school violence, the teacher cannot find it in time (due to the hidden nature of school violence, it is extremely difficult to find out; In addition, it is unlikely that teachers will perceive subtle changes in each child if they are facing dozens or hundreds of students every day), parents see them once a week, which is more difficult to detect, and the characteristic of school violence is that the longer it lasts, the greater the harm caused.

Third, the cost of education will further increase.

Don't stay in someone else's house, the child will be angry when he is young, and he doesn't dare to tell his parents that if he lives in the school, he will not be with his family for a long time, and the feelings will not be so deep, and there is no way to know the child's learning status. If you go to school, you can know your child's learning status at any time, so it's better to go to school.

Boarding is living in school, and day school is going home by yourself after class.

First of all, the student should submit a written application, indicate his reasons, why he wants to go to school, and write a written application and submit it to the homeroom teacher.

Students should go to the school with their parents to verify, and the class teacher should come forward to find the head of education to communicate and sign.

After the school and the parents reach an agreement, they can apply for a day study permit and then proceed to the day school.

Which is the advantage of day students and boarding students:

Students have more time to stay at home and stay with their parents, and they won't be homesick.

Because many people are day students in junior high school, and when they reach high school, they will be very uncomfortable living on campus at the beginning, and homesickness will appear, which will lead to a lack of focus on studying.

Long-term homesickness can also affect your mood. In this respect, day students have an advantage over boarding students.

Secondly, day students are better off than boarding students when they are not feeling well, and they will always get sick, such as colds and fevers. If a resident student has a cold, he can only go to the small outpatient clinic opened by the school, and the quality of medical care cannot be guaranteed.

Secondly, if the boarding students want to go out of the school to see a doctor, then they must ask the teacher for leave, in case the teacher Cong Shizhu is not at school, then he can't ask for leave, and that's it. And there is no one to take care of the boarding students when they are sick, because everyone is studying and has their own things. However, if a day student is sick, he or she can directly ask the class teacher for leave to take a break, and the faster recovery is more conducive to learning.

A day student is a student who does not choose to live at the school because of the fact that the school is close to the school or for other reasons

It means that for the volunteer college, if the admitted student agrees to study in a non-residential way, day students come to the school to attend classes and participate in other extracurricular activities, but do not live in the school, as long as it is a boarding school, it will be divided into day school and residential school.

If you live in a school, you will have problems cultivating the intimate relationship between your child and your parents. If the relationship between the child and the parents is interrupted, the child will have a lot of psychological questions.

Parents are important role models for their children, and losing this role model too early can lead to many behavioral problems; Parents have to meet many of their children's psychological needs that cannot be met during the school stay, and they will want to go home and thus do not want to go back to school.