How can you make yourself not fall in love with anyone 20

As long as you're brave enough! Brother will teach you a ruthless trick! Locate someone who is many times better than you and makes you feel very, very, very humble (in other words, the one you are absolutely willing to play with for the rest of your life, even if you know that you will be wronged forever and will never give up.)

Even if you know you can't catch up, you have to fight for your life. until the head breaks the blood flow. If there is a result, of course that's great, because you're not going to let go.

If it doesn't work out, you will slowly learn how to face every emotion in life correctly. Because you know how painful it is to be hurt.

So you've succeeded:

Everything knows itself, everything knows the heart, the moon has a wax and fall, and the tide has ups and downs.

The problem is in you, you are in love or love, but playing with others, if you have no intention, don't chase it, harm the victim, calm down and reflect on your heart, and when you figure it out, you start to open your heart).

Out of sight, out of mind... Just ignore it.

At first, I was a little bit like you, and I had a good impression of good boys, but now that I met someone I really loved, I realized that I was just infatuated with it.

Then you can only talk about one seriously, and if you have a boyfriend, one will be a little more restrained.

Being with the people you love the most is the most enjoyable thing for you. But sometimes, although I love that person deeply, I can't be with him, and when I am in this state, I need to give up rationally, specifically, when I find that the other person is not suitable for me. When it is impossible for the people you love to be together, and when you try to pursue it to no avail, you should really give up.

1. When you find that you are not suitable for your loved one, you should give up.

The person you love is the one you give your true heart and true love, but when you rationally analyze the relationship between each other, you may find that the other party is not suitable for you. Or there is no compatibility between two people, when you find this situation, you should give up the relationship rationally and choose to quit, although it will be very painful for you to do so, but this is the only way to get yourself truly liberated, and you must do it.

2. If you can't be with your loved ones, you need to give up rationally.

Sometimes although you really love someone, but you can't be with him, this state will make you feel painful, but you need to seriously reflect on this relationship, specifically, if after rational analysis, you find that you really can't be with the person you love, then you need to give up reasonably, only in this way can you rationally end this doomed relationship, so that you can pursue your true love.

3. When you try hard to pursue your loved one but have no results, you should really give up.

When you really love someone, you will try to pursue him, but if you still can't get the result after hard pursuit, you need to choose to quit rationally. For yourself, this relationship is destined to be fruitless, and there is no point in continuing to persevere, so you need to give up this relationship rationally, so that you can pursue love for yourself and the people you love with a positive attitude. So as to harvest the love that truly belongs to you.

Maintain a loving state of mind:

I think people who lack love, because they lack it, see it as a resource, and often choose to take it out carefully when facing important people, and usually keep this box closed.

However, it should not be like this, loving others and loving oneself is both an action and a state of mind. It is inherently inexhaustible. Of course, maintaining vitality and maintaining a state of "love" is very difficult and hard for people who lack love, and they need to take the initiative at all times, and they need to do it very deliberately and let themselves do it.

A lot of times you don't know the essentials, but this is the best way to practice, and even if it's sincere, even if it's clumsy, others can feel that sincerity, remember the love itself is not perfect as mentioned in the previous article, as long as you really love, you have already outperformed many numb people.

In short, use all your abilities to love at any time, whether it is to love yourself, love your friends, your family, or not. Keep it this way, and gradually it will become much easier and more natural. But don't love all people, it doesn't have to, God needs to love the world.

Just love those who deserve it, and hate what you should hate.

Observe and learn from the people around you:

Those who seem to be not lacking in love may not be right in love, and love is high-end and high-end. It's just that they have an almost instinctive habit. And our advantage is that, although we lack natural courage, we awaken the heart to learn to love others.

So take a look at the couples around you, don't think that these things are too short-term and have no reference value. The longer I think about it, the more I understand that loving oneself or loving others is not abstract and does not have to be metaphysical.

On the contrary, love is embodied in all trivial life, in the unbearable relationship. Look at what others do, take the best and get rid of the dross. For example, instead of being entangled in how to reconcile with this and that, it is better to learn how to make one's life more enjoyable first.