What does it feel like to see elderly parents who are powerless to change their current situation?

I'm graduating from college in one year now, and it's been nearly 20 years since I started school, and since I went to school, the time with my parents has become scarcer, and they are busy trying to earn money and prepare for my future, while I am busy with my studies and trying to make them happy with that good grade.

From the straight body and broad and solid shoulders of my father in my memory, to the waist that has been dragged down by the long river of time, the slightly hunched back, and the sparse silver threads. This is the years he has experienced, this is the destruction of time. Mother's long black hair has also been slowly bleached by the long river of time, and now the dazzling silver threads can be seen everywhere because of our labor and the destruction of time.

The years have left a shocking mark on their kind and kind faces, and their faces have been carved into the exquisite murals on the corridor of time.

Oh, yes! We have grown up unconsciously, and our parents are slowly getting old before we know it, in other words, our growth is at the cost of our parents' time! This is not only a painful reality for them, but also an indescribable pain in our hearts.

If I could, I would be willing to exchange the rest of my life for my parents in exchange for their youth.

Oh, yes! What can I do now? I can only help them do housework at home and chat with them, but how many days like this are there? After graduation, I will also go out to struggle, so how much time will I spend with them?

Oh, yes! Not much more! Looking back at the past, and then looking at them now, reflecting on ourselves, what can we do?

What can we do? I am reminded of the Chopsticks Brothers' "Father" line: "Time slows down!" Don't let you grow old anymore!

I wish my switch to you for a long time. Oh, yes! I will give you my eternal life in exchange for the eternal life of you.

Taking advantage of the holiday of giving birth, I finally had time to go back to my parents to live for a while, but when I saw my elderly parents getting thinner and thinner, I had mixed feelings. The hometown is located in the Taihang Mountains, most of the fields are in the mountains, which means that the farming can not be mechanized, and even the food grown in many fields has to rely on two shoulders to carry down from the mountain, the parents are close to seventy years old, every year they are still so hard and tired, every time they persuade them to plant less, they are always reluctant to give up being parents, they are fighting for their children all their lives, only to accompany them more. Because when they can still move, they won't stop to rest!

I have gray hair, often have some minor illnesses, small pains, and wrinkles.

At the age of 32, my parents are in their 60s, and I feel a little tremor in my heart for some reason.

Time is very cruel, I am growing up, but my parents are getting old, looking at the post-00s around me, young and lively, the so-called capital can still be "squandered", but what about us?

At this age, almost all have families, and with children, the pressure is doubled, and parents can help take care of the children and do housework when they have the strength, which is your luck.

I often think that it is unfair for parents to bring up their children and help them take care of their children, do housework, and continue a new circle of parenting when they are enjoying the blessings?

Most parents don't think that way because they need to have a sense of presence, and suddenly they don't have something to do, and they also feel a little helpless, and they have something to do but still have motivation.

Parents are like the sunset, although they are not shining, they also have their own light and their own wonderful.

Some things, when you encounter difficulties, you still can't help but seek help from your parents, and the sense of dependence that comes from the world does not seem to dissipate. It's just that as you get older, you have more people to turn to for help and guidance, because parents are not superhuman after all, not God Almighty, and what can help you will slowly become limited until the other way around.

Your growth indicates the aging of your parents and the growth of your children, this indisputable fact is irreversible, and it is also a road that you will embark on in the future. By that time, maybe your child will feel the same way.

Time does not stop minute by minute, every day of life is a live broadcast, there is no opportunity for rehearsal, and there is no possibility of regret.

Recently, I joined a new company and had to deal with insurance, so if I went by myself, I could solve the problem, but it would take travel and work hours, so it was not very convenient.

Consider asking your parents to help, because your parents are at home all the year round and have more connections than you, but after all, when you are older, the speed will be slow, and some problems will not be considered in place, so it will cause a delay in the problem.

But in fact, the responsibility lies with yourself, you can tell your parents in advance to give yourself more **, when communicating with the staff, let yourself ask about the communication, it will be more effective, and it will not delay too much time to deal with simple problems, thinking that it is complicated but simple, isn't this the reason why parents are getting older?

You need to think about these problems, and you have to think more about them yourself to ensure that they are dealt with and solved in a timely manner. In this way, the parents can help with peace of mind, and they are also happy, isn't it?

Parents are getting older, talking, hearing, walking, etc. are much slower than before, and you need to be patient because you will also get older one day.

A lot of the time, for example, they don't nag anymore, they don't talk about things that worry us anymore, and the biggest feature is that they always remember the past. Tell me a little bit about their past, and from this time I knew that my parents were really old.

They began to report good news but not bad news, and the pain was carried alone; They start doing small things that don't seem so decent, less important, expecting to be recognized; They began to be like children, creating various situations, attracting the attention of their children, and caring for the elderly today is caring for our tomorrow. Many times, children pay more attention to the elderly than their psychological needs. Jiang Lihua also has a deep understanding of this.

That day, she received her mother's **, and it felt a little wrong, she asked her mother what was wrong, and she replied "It's okay". Because I couldn't feel at ease, I went home at noon and bumped into my sick mother and helpless father. It turned out that when I was eating breakfast, my mother began to vomit, and my stomach hurt badly, and my father cleaned up while comforting him, and the two old men tossed around all morning.

You're all busy with work, and I can't influence you. I didn't have time to say much, so I quickly took my mother to the hospital. The first examination is suspected to be intestinal obstruction, and surgery must be performed immediately.

I nursed in the hospital for a month, talked a lot with my mother and relatives, and for the first time I knew the truest heart of an elderly person of this age. So, she came up with a slogan: "Love the elderly, you have to pay attention to his mental health." ”