What should I do if I care too much about what others think and can t communicate?

The first point is that I think you have to improve your self-confidence, have a little self-confidence, actively communicate with the people around you, don't worry about saying the wrong thing or something, everyone is equal just to exchange opinions, if you say something wrong, apologize, just correct it, it's not a big deal. If you're wrong, you'll know what you need to improve and make sure you won't make a mistake next time. You know?

Some people just care too much about other people's eyes and lack self-confidence, so they can't achieve a career. So it's important to improve your self-confidence.

Second, don't pay too much attention to other people's eyes. When I was in high school, our class was poor in math as a whole, so the homeroom teacher asked us to go to the blackboard to lecture to our classmates to improve our grades. Everyone is speaking for the first time, some classmates will have a meeting, and some will not be able to speak clearly.

The head teacher said that it was because he didn't have self-confidence, he cared too much about the eyes of others, and he didn't even know if what he said was right. I hope you don't care about these little things either, and have a bigger heart, which will make you better and better, and you will accumulate more experience.

Thirdly, if you don't think you can speak, read more, I'm serious. If you read more, you will naturally speak. I am a living example of this.

I have a relatively straight personality, what to say, can't speak, often offend people, then I can't help it, just shut up and read more, I don't know how much I read, all kinds of miscellaneous books really taught me a lot, some words are not good to listen to, but it is much better to put it another way. Reading is not only about improving your knowledge, but also about becoming temperamental and improving your emotional intelligence. Books can solve your current problems.

Fourth, communicate with others to improve your communication skills. If you want to be able to speak, you need to talk more, learn other people's communication styles and language skills, and observe how others communicate with others, so that your communication and communication skills will improve.

I hope my advice can help you change these situations. Believe in yourself, you can!

Don't listen to that sentence too much, think too much, your own life is your own decision, your own life is more important to others, other people's minds think about him, you can relax your mentality, do not pay attention to other people's opinions, just live freely, you don't have to communicate with others My story, under the precipitation of the years, it will also be a different kind of scenery.

I used to care a lot about what others think of me, others have said a word of mine I will remember for many years, I try to be perfect in the eyes of others, but such days make me walk on thin ice, the more you care about what others think of you, the more tired your life will become, more hard, others are just unintentional words, maybe they are not elegant, but you have carried this sentence for several years, people's views of you do not mean that you have to live as others see you, everyone is an independent object, Our lives are still in our own hands. And how can we expect to hear any words of praise from other people's mouths, people are jealous creatures, and I don't have sharp teeth, I can't communicate, all I can do is not speak, and turn a deaf ear, as if what you are saying is not my business, and then look away.

I think it's a very heavy thing to carry other people's baggage forward, other people's mouths grow on others, and other people's heads also grow on other people's bodies, so we can't control what others think about us, and we can't stop it 24 hours a day, so why should we care so much about what others think of us, we don't live in the eyes of others, too much control will only make you more tired, live harder, if we have the conditions of the sharp tooth class, we can communicate with others, learn to speak, Since we can't communicate and speak, then we stay out of the way, learn not to care so much, learn not to take anything to heart, learn to slowly put our minds at ease, don't care about what others think, work hard to live our own lives, and live as we want. Only in this way will you be able to live freely and easily in the journey of life, and you will be what you want. So if you care too much about what others think and can't communicate, you can learn to change slowly and learn not to care.

If you care too much about what other people think, you'll be really tired. If you live in the eyes of others, then you will not be able to live yourself in this life. Feeling too concerned about what others think is really a common problem for everyone, we all spend a lot of time guessing what others think, but we never spend a little time to improve ourselves.

What if you continue like this for a long time and get autism? What should I do if I have social phobia? Your good life is not over yet, do you ruin everything because you care too much about other people's opinions?

Of course, I can understand this feeling, because I always care about other people's opinions, but I am not as serious as you. Sometimes, we need to enlighten ourselves, otherwise we will really be depressed. Sometimes when I came down from my grandmother's house, people on the street just liked to look at me, and I was really embarrassed.

But the more I have experienced, I feel that there is nothing, because I will scold them in my heart, and I will also enlighten myself that there is nothing to care about. Sometimes I think that even if I have something on my face, then I have to walk down the street like this. That's what this cheeky spirit supports me!

You should learn to open your heart and let yourself learn the spirit of shamelessness. I can understand you, and many people can understand your feelings. But your situation is so serious that I don't think I'm going to torture myself for other thoughts.

And everyone has their own thoughts, people can't all like you, there must be people who hate you. But are you willing to ruin yourself for the opinion of these few inconspicuous people?

I think people who think like this will be very tired, and the way for such people to self-regulate is to be selfish, a little self-conscious, and a little more rational.

Maybe there are many such people who feel that how can there be such a strange thing, and they will care too much about what others think, and even can't communicate with others? But there are such people. And I think in the same way, people who care too much about what others think are excessively inferior.

The reason why I say this is because I have really seen similar people exist, because I care too much about what others think of me, I want to gain my respect in everyone's mind, let others look at me, get everyone's attention, and do a lot of things very excessively. For example, everyone began to guess riddles, in order to express themselves, they couldn't stop searching their mobile phones, doing things were too extreme, there was no degree to anything, and they began to regret it afterwards. The next time you do something by yourself, you still can't control yourself because you are irrational.

I think that to treat such people is to learn to be selfish, to be able to play by themselves, to be more hilarious by themselves, and to stop being centered on others. Do more things that make your life meaningful. I have found that people who are generally too inferior and care about others are following in the footsteps of others.

I think that if I don't keep my pace in place, even if I still care about what others think, I will think about others, and it will be very helpful for communication.

If you care too much about other people's ideas and can't communicate and speak, first of all, you must learn to be rational and grasp everything to a degree, and secondly, you must improve yourself, have the ability to speak, and express your own opinions.

Maybe it's thinking too much, or maybe it's worrying too much.

Then you can communicate with friends from afar......It is commonly known as the chatting of netizens from all over the world. Where not to make friends. If you don't like it if it's close, then you go to find a friend you like and have a further relationship, and when you're fed up with the injury, you will naturally know how many pounds and taels you have, or the people around you who know the roots, at least the kind that won't hurt you for no reason and don't blink.

In fact, I suggest that if you have a hard time communicating with the people around you, you can spend time on cultivating your own interests and hobbies, which are silent exchanges. It's a way for you to express your thoughts and respond to them, and in the end, through your hard work, your skills will reach the point of perfection, which is like killing two birds with one stone. Or you can write a diary, write your own WeChat***, and gain a sense of freedom and comfort by expounding your inner demands and voices.

And now that you are so profitable, you can work hard to run a ***, cultivate your own small fans, and find people with common hobbies. You can send what you like freely and be at your disposal. On the other hand, there is also an income that you can fulfill your other desires with.

It's nice to be able to pick up advertisements in your spare time.

I'm just a talker, but I love to write about it. Maybe I won't tell people a lot of things, and I think others will be annoyed too. So I'll write it out, and everyone should watch it lively.

Chatterbox finds a place to speak. It will not disturb others, but also express his inner depression and share his happiness

Communication is something you must learn, and it can bring you great success in your career.

I don't like to talk much, so maybe it's a personality problem. There are times when encountered.

Please give me an evaluation of my labor, thank you.

How to change your withdrawn personality and dislike to communicate with others? This is the only way to clear up the confusion!

You don't like to gossip, you don't like to say polite words and spectacle, and you don't like to say weird things. I don't want to talk nonsense.

Since this is the case, then just say it, and don't say it if it's okay.

There is a saying that if you say too much, you will lose, and silence is golden.

Introverted personality, that's it, speak directly, don't like to talk nonsense, and don't like to pat on the back, right?

Give yourself more positive hints and be a person full of positive energy.

I'm worried too! I just want to get rid of this problem, otherwise I won't be single.

This is an extreme distrust of oneself, a lack of self-confidence.