My husband is 25 years older than me, but I found out that he has other women. What should I do? . .

The more excellent, successful, handsome, charming, humorous, morally excellent, and broad-minded a man is, the more love is not lacking.

You are not destined to be his first, nor her last, and if you don't see this clearly, you will make yourself even more troubled.

Don't be shocked when you encounter such things in the future, because there are still many things that you are about to experience for the first time, because you are still young, and slowly you will know everything, and when one day you find that you can really distinguish between right and wrong, and will no longer be easily deceived, then you will really mature at that moment.

The pressure on your shoulders is not too great now, and you can still withstand the pressure that this experience has put on you. It's just that when the pressure mounts, when your shoulders can't bear that weight anymore, that moment is the time for you to leave.

When we understand why we love, maybe we will know how to treat us when faced with such a situation--- the reason why we love each other is to be happy and happy. Anyone who has left sad tears in the process of love, who can't easily face each other in the process of love, and has suspicions, is not happy or complete love.

Love is a kind of mutual sincerity and all the investment, not the slightest bit of falsehood, love is like wearing shoes, whether it is suitable or not, only your feet know. Think about how much each other is invested in.

Trust is the cornerstone of love, and without this cornerstone, the edifice of love will always collapse.

Think about it: How much trust do you still have in him, and how many cornerstones do you have in your love?

If you really love and don't want to leave, then the subject you have to learn is to endure.

The above are my personal thoughts, I hope it can wake you up.

I'll give you a little persuasion!

Landlord, you are still young and beautiful and have a future, if you don't make a choice now, you can only fill in the blanks in the future. He, a man who is a round older than you hooks up with a woman outside, is there still a bit of a man's responsibility? A man who is not responsible has nothing else to talk about!

Maybe you have unforgettable memories in the past, but people are fickle, looking at the present, thinking about the future! Think about what you can't bear to him, do you have illusions about him or do you trust him very much (?). As for the landlord who said that he was afraid of losing him, he didn't understand what you meant, if the landlord relied on him very much, he himself had no sense of responsibility, and the landlord couldn't rely on it for a lifetime!

Besides, there are many good men in the world, and there is no grass at the end of the world! Be optimistic! I've been running for three, and I'm not in a hurry to be single so far, there will always be good people to look for!

The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear, so it is recommended that the landlord go out and go around, sober up, think carefully, and make a choice! We're still young, but it's just now, and we have to plan for the future!

I hope not to mislead the landlord, I think what I say is useful to listen, useless to me....I wish the landlord a happy life! Hahahaha.

How to say it,,, I suggest ha, you better leave him, 25 years older than you, eat more salt than you eat rice, how to play with women, I'm afraid he is already an old horse knows the way, the landlord don't blame me for speaking badly, every truth!

It's not interesting, you might as well find a husband who really loves you.

And you're in a different place, I'm afraid he's still in the middle of a few women...

Hopefully you'll find some way to get away from him.

If you are willing to give up, how can you get without giving up?

The key question is whether you want to give it up or not.

This or this is the truth that applies to anything that happens in any situation, so think about it.

You'll get the happiness you want! I wish you happiness.

PS: Answering someone** or reading text messages without permission is a sign of impoliteness and disrespect! Not even if it's a couple, I think so! Superfluous.

The benevolent see the benevolent, the wise see the wise

Give up, impossible, don't lie to yourself. The truth hurts, but the facts are the facts.

The more afraid you are of losing, the easier it is to lose. If it were me, two people pulling a rubber band, I think I would be the one who let go first.

Hehe, love must have courage to love, no matter what he is, don't love if you don't have the guts, it will hurt!

This is the case...Even once.

And I think he doesn't love me anymore.

After giving up、The people you love can be happy..

That's it.

Let's go. Such a person is not worthy of your reliance.

25 years older than you ... Forget it, what do you want him to do with money?

2 people talk together...

There is a love that cries out to give up ...

You go to the doctor, is there a disease?

Can't say it's very common, you have to see if he's really true to you? Is he crazy? Who hasn't been there?

As long as he is sincere to you, you don't think too much, I think you should love him, otherwise you know that he used to be like that, you won't choose him. So you love him if you really love you. You don't have to think about it so much.

Cherish it well The main thing is how he treats you in the future.

It feels normal, but I found that my colleagues and friends around me are still very conservative, I don't know if it's an Internet rumor, or just some people are very casual?? Or is my circle too traditional!?

But to be honest, you all know that she has been with 6 people, can you still accept it calmly? You are so sublime!

I advise you to accept her if you love her, and most of them are still women.

Hehe, you'd better continue to investigate.

Do a good job of premarital property justice.

It varies from person to person, and it's not clear what to say, but if she has been with too many men, I think you still need to test her for a long time.

Didn't investigate.

However, I personally think that the phenomenon is very common, so don't worry about it so much, and you will be safe when it comes.

Although premarital sex is frowned upon, it is still a relatively common phenomenon.

Now that they are ready to get married, what else does it feel unfair to love her, you have to accept everything from him How the past does not mean the present or the future! `

Then it's up to you to do it, so you can marry her.

I feel that this woman is too casual.

If you really like her, you have to see how she behaves in the future.

A 25-year-old man should not get married. In today's environment, a 25-year-old boy is just a boy who has only been working for a few years.

If you are a society, you have a lot of experience and a mature mind. The financial conditions are also enough to start a family, and if you have a girlfriend now, you are all in love. Then get married. If you're single right now. Then you have to see if the woman around you is suitable for you.

A 25-year-old man should find a woman who can advance and retreat with him, is self-motivated, and you love each other and can endure hardships together.

At the age of 25, it is a stage of entrepreneurship. If you don't have a girlfriend by your side, then do a good job in your career before you want to get married.

After all, love without bread is helpless.

The marriage partner is not only the person you want to live with for the rest of your life, but also the person she wants to live with you for the rest of her life.

Women must first be filial, and only by being filial to their parents can they be filial to their in-laws.

The second is to be kind and honest. Tolerance.

.I think the least important thing is how you look.

It is pleasing to the eye and has the desire to live together. Get married because you want to get married, not for the sake of getting married.

Find the right woman for you to marry.

Fall in love first, and then get married when you're almost 30.

I'm the same age as you, a good woman is like a good school, try to choose a good school for yourself to go to, and you will naturally cultivate a successful man. At least you have to find a woman, don't look for a woman who is as strong as a man or a person, a strong woman can get along for a while, but in the long run, you will not be able to stand it. Furthermore, it mainly depends on the woman's morality, and virtue is the most important.

If she can also be 2 to 3 years younger than you, so much the better.

It's not about what kind of woman you're looking for, it's about what kind of ability you have, what kind of ability you have.

Find a woman you love, love you, and can get married.

Anything is possible if you have money and talent, and if you don't have money or talent, you can only be picked by fate

What kind of woman is best for a man?

It depends on what type of woman you like.

Generally speaking, lesbians want their future husbands to be very considerate, love and understand themselves. Personally, I think it is worth measuring from the following three aspects: 1. Whether you have a sense of responsibility for the family; 2. Whether you have a positive and enterprising spirit for your work; 3. Have good interpersonal skills.

Those who love themselves, take care of themselves, think about themselves everywhere、、、 have strength and ability.

The economic foundation is good. A good man who loves himself!

1, I will definitely be able to feed the family, 2, I love her the most, 3, each other's personalities are the most suitable for La,

(I don't care how much money he has now, but I'm afraid we'll quarrel over this when we get married) Quote: What you're worried about now is what you're worried about in the future, you know?? He may really just want a wife and children because he's 35 and you're so young!

Now you are just trapped in this mystery, you are not married This age is your ** age, and u he is already 35, and he is still divorced, not mentioning money, take a step back and say: you can find a person with average conditions (at least young and negotiable), people who are not divorced, although age is capital, but this kind of payment is too great! Personally, I don't think it's worth it, divorced people must have some problems in their treatment of marriage, otherwise why get married rashly?

Got a divorce? Even if he doesn't know which one is the problem, at least he sees the problem differently than young people!

What you feared is there now, and you'd better not look at him for change. He's 35 years old, his habits, and temper are settled, and it's hard for you to change him!

If you really want to go down with him, you try to ask him to buy you something, you don't refuse, because sometimes, this man is willing to spend money on you to explain a certain problem: because even if you get married, he wants to love you, what is it? The material base determines the superstructure!

You can propose it and watch him in action.

There is a fate of your own!

Bless you!

After all, you are boyfriend and girlfriend together, do you know him well?

A divorced man must have a reason for divorce, or in his life habits or in his character, marriage is a big deal, you must first understand him through contact and running-in.

As for him in a hurry to get married, he is 36 years old and must want to have a stable family, so if you still expect to live a very sweet and romantic married life in the future, I am afraid you will be disappointed. Caring too much about money is because he is old and has some experience in spending and life finance, I think maybe he is a man who can live a better life, which is necessary, and it is better than spending money lavishly.

You can communicate with him well, if there is no problem with the relationship between two people, running-in in life is a must!

The age difference between you is too big, it will be easy to have contradictions, if he has not been married, maybe he will love you very much, but now like this, it is difficult for outsiders to explain clearly! Think about it yourself, maybe he really loves you, or maybe he's just looking for a replacement.

In a word, points! From one small clue one can see what is coming! Men's money is originally earned for women to spend, like you said you don't care how much money you have, and you don't care how much money you spend, it's just a matter of attitude!

Men of this age, or don't leave, so as not to regret it later, 25 years old is not too old, but he is almost 40, men of this age will be like that for the rest of their lives if they don't have much development, men who care about everything will often quarrel over trivial matters in the future, especially money, he is like this now, and you won't have much space for yourself in the future.

What are you afraid of, what you have is time, he's 36 years old, he doesn't have much time left. I don't understand what maturity you like about him. It's not likely, it's not likely, it's not likely.

There are 11-year-old people with ditches and what feelings do they have. How much he gives to you. You have to think about it, for the sake of the future life, I advise a good and good dispersion.

Although age is not an issue. The problem is that there is a band gap between ages and no feelings.

I am also very different from my boyfriend, I am twenty-two, he is also in his thirties, and he is the same as yours, very provincial, every time he wants to buy me something, I say no need, and he immediately has no follow-up.

Sometimes when I go out, I still need to spend money, and after being together for so long, even if I say that I have no money, he just asks politely, if you don't give me a little first, women also have self-esteem, I say no, he still has no follow-up, even if I am hungry, he will not think too much.

I used to wonder if being so frugal with me was a sign of love. He said he could give up his life for me, but he was just not willing to spend money for me.

However, he said that after getting married, I will take care of the money.

You can ask him, after getting married, who will take care of the finances? But to be considerate, a man in his thirties and nothing, is indeed a matter of urgency, and maybe his frugality also makes sense.

Since he is reluctant to spend money for us, he will definitely not spend money for other women easily after marriage, so the chance of extramarital affairs will be smaller.

That's how I comfort myself.

Also, the salary of 10,000 yuan after tax is good.