At the age of 20, are you satisfied with your current situation? Why?

I should be dissatisfied, because at the age of 20, I didn't finish my studies, I didn't find a job, I lived a very decadent life, every day except for sleeping was playing games, and I felt that my life was almost over.

Not satisfied, at this age, I have just entered the university, I am looking forward to everything, and at the same time I am also very confused, I feel particularly lost, and I am lazy in the university.

I can't say that I am satisfied, it is like this, I can't do anything at the age of 20, I can only be satisfied with the status quo, and I can't make any changes, because I still know too little, I have learned too little, and I can't change.

I'm very satisfied, in terms of academics, I have achieved my goal, I have been admitted to my own school of choice, and I have made a group of great friends.

Of course I am not satisfied, if I am satisfied with the status quo, then there is no motivation to struggle, and my current situation is indeed unsatisfactory, and there are still many places to work on.

I'm happy with where I'm because as a 20-year-old, I have a boyfriend who is really good to me in terms of relationships, and I'm the kind of person who is at the top of my studies.

Now I am quite satisfied, I have a job I like, I have a school I like, I can earn more money to buy things I like, and I have a lot of hobbies, so my life is quite fulfilling.

To be honest, I am not satisfied with the current situation, because I have not yet found the direction of my life, many things are uncertain, and I am still in a state of confusion and anxiety.

I'm not particularly satisfied with my current situation, because even though I'm young, I don't have anything now, and I can't afford to buy whatever I want.

When you have the desire to buy, but you can't do it, when you want to do something, or when you want to buy something, you don't have the strength to support it.

In fact, there is such a post on the Internet, "How are you doing now in your 20s?" Are you still satisfied? "For example, I am not satisfied with my current state because I have not been able to secure the corresponding money, and my academic qualifications have not met expectations.

Although I have now entered the state of work, I don't seem to have any other social interaction except for work, which is completely different from what I imagined when I was a student. <>

When I was a student, I thought that when I was 20 years old, I should have a successful career, and at the same time, I would be financially wealthy, so I could say that I could afford all kinds of things I liked. However, after graduating from university, I found that it was very difficult to find employment, and my education was relatively low, and the job I found was not satisfactory to me. Although I found a job, my monthly salary was only about 3,000, and I had to bear the daily expenses of my family, so I often didn't have enough money to spend.

And there are no other activities every day except for the company and home, so the whole person is also relatively confused, and even has lived an old life. I feel that I can't do anything else without my mobile phone, so I play games on my mobile phone every day in addition to work, and I am very confused about the future development. But it can't change this state for a while, and after returning to his hometown, there are no peers around him, either he has entered the palace of marriage, or he has succeeded in his studies, as if he is nothing.

In fact, most young friends should be in such a state, but I want to advise everyone, don't be decadent, and you can make some plans according to your preferences. If you feel that your education is low, then you should improve your academic qualifications, and you should also open your social circle, you can sign up for a dance class or musical instrument class, so that you can get in touch with more peers. I feel that I have something to do every day, and this kind of life is very fulfilling, and I can also feel that I am very useful.

I am very satisfied with my life now, I have a stable salary every month, and I will also have five insurances and one housing fund, and there is no emergency pressure and trouble in my life at all.

I have no savings, I have to ask my parents for money every day, I am very confused, I don't know what I should do and what I should do; I don't think I'm satisfied with my current situation, getting married in my 20s is a little too early, falling in love is a little too late, spending money and not making money, and it's difficult to vividly depict the current situation of people in their 20s.

I'm not very happy with my current situation, I'm in too much debt, and I'm not doing a good job.

If I were to be 20 years old again, of course I would.

But when we are 20 years old, we should focus more on self-improvement, let ourselves study hard and continue to make effective progress, and be better at communicating with others, which will make us grow more independent and confident, and will also make our future better.

1.Keep a calm mind when communicating.

It is important not to be emotional, because being emotional may make communication stuck halfway and unable to communicate, and even lead to abandonment and failure of communication. If you feel particularly irritable and uneasy in the process of communication because of your feelings, you will have to stop communicating and wait for a period of time to calm down before you can continue to communicate, which will actually make all parties who shout out communication unhappy.

2.Abandon your self-esteem when communicating.

Unnecessary self-esteem and pride can only become a stumbling block to communication, so at least you should abandon your own self-esteem when communicating. Don't say "My self-esteem won't allow me to ......In that case, it will only make communication impossible.

3. Know how to listen when talking.

Listening is also a point to pay attention to in communication, when talking to others, we should take into account the feelings of others, but also listen to what the other party expresses, so that we can better communicate in language, otherwise it is like playing the piano to the cow, so that the communication will not achieve the effect at all, and it is easy to misunderstand.

4. Don't always be self-centered.

When talking, you should also pay attention to an important point, don't always think that what you say and do is very important, always focus on yourself, and other people's is not important, this situation is to be eliminated, which can easily cause disgust from others, and will also leave a bad impression on others.