How can I be tactful and hypocritical, especially when it comes to my teachers and classmates? 20

In front of the teacher, what the teacher says, what you do, and find opportunities to get closer to the teacher, you can often give gifts to the teacher, and look very respectful to the teacher. In front of your classmates, don't show off yourself, give your classmates more benefits, don't speak ill of your classmates, and often praise them, that's it. But it's best to be your most authentic self ...

If you think that being tactful and hypocritical is a good character, you can learn it! So many hypocritical people make the people around them feel disgusting, isn't it good for you to be real? When you are so hypocritical that you can never return to your true self, you will feel silently sad and helpless!

At that time, you were a weak, isolated, clown living alone in a precarious world!! Cherish the innocence of the present, the innocent you can also shine dazzling!! Come on!!!

It would be nice to have capital. Rich enough, good enough, generous enough. Bring another mask, don't care about people everywhere, and have a certain prestige.

I'm such a person at the same table, hypocrisy, stammering with the teacher all day long, saying oh in class, whether I understand it or not, I always want to leave a good influence on the teacher, I can't go up and pretend to ask the teacher a few questions, I play with my mobile phone in class, I usually talk a lot of nonsense, I also like to smoke, I usually mix with some people who don't like to study, and I especially look down on people like us who are always learning, always hang me aside, tragic things, the teacher also made me and him at the same table, I'm very angry, I don't understand, Why do teachers and classmates like to associate with this kind of person, but an honest person like me is ignored and isolated, is it that the times have changed, or am I too weak.

There's no need to be too slick If you want to be good in the world, you can try to be less angry and help others more When others say bad things to you, don't go along with them, don't say bad things about people As for the teacher, you should be diligent and call the teacher good, just have a dessert in your mouth.

Just like every class leader, the class leader has this ability, will appease the classmates, will please the teacher, but this kind of person will always have a leak of the day, the classmates hate such a person, there is really no need to turn yourself into this, it is good to live a real life, maybe one day, subconsciously you will become this kind of person, don't complain that the society has changed you, but your heart has changed, this is the truth.

Why force yourself, wouldn't it be nice to go with the flow? Teachers and classmates will love the real you!

First of all, you must do a good job in attendance, listen carefully in class, and ask the teacher if you don't understand anything, so that the teacher will know that there is a student like you, who is studious, and the teacher will naturally like you if you study well.

Be a good student and let others treat you unfavorably.

Good grades. Industrious. Naturally, the teacher will like you.

No, hypocrisy means that you are not sincere to people, you are tactful, you can do things, and you know what to do without offending people!

If you say that it sounds good, you will be a person, and if you say it is ugly, it is hypocrisy, and life is like this.

People who are slick in handling things are more or less dishonest, and some are outrageous, and they must not only consider comprehensively, but also be responsible for others.

Do what you have to do, do things first through your brain, do more things and talk less!!

Say what you should say, don't say what you shouldn't say, even if you think you will be very uncomfortable if you don't say it, don't say that you see people and talk about people, and talk nonsense when you see them, it's best to be humble in front of the leader, don't talk too much and praise everyone, but be realistic, don't make them feel like they're sycophants.

1. Find the needs of you and your opponents (leaders, colleagues, competitors) 2. Achieve these needs. 3. Consistent with the direction of the leader's force field.

I'm also a rookie, and I'm also a relatively straightforward and simple person. I don't know how to speak, so please point out in the workplace.

Kowtow more and talk less, and have your own principles at critical moments. Not only can you not offend people, but you can also establish your own image and status. Good luck with you (o).

Dear friends, Good morning!!

I am honored to communicate with you, and I hope to inspire you, even if it is a little helpful to you;

If there is a problem in our rich life, we should vent our emotions with our close friends!!

Don't hold it in your heart, it's uncomfortable!!

No matter what, we all have to live well, it's all good to be optimistic, and life has to go on!!

Therefore, the most important thing is to regulate the state of mind, really!!

First of all, let's relax yourself and don't have too much burden on your heart!!

The quality of sleep depends on how much you are thinking, so take a deep breath before going to bed, relax your mind, and calm your mind, and you can sleep well!!

Don't always put unnecessary pressure on yourself, it's not cost-effective!!

Life is short, to live is to live a day, happy day by day, and want to open a little !!

Don't worry about yourself and yourself, and remember, anything that can be solved with money is not a problem!!

Don't complicate small problems, solve them right away if they are easy to solve!!

We must be self-confident, self-loving, and self-reliant!!

When you're fine, it's just to entertain yourself, play hard, and it's not wrong to play!!

Try to rediscover your innocence and joy as a child, even if it's just in your mind.

Usually pay attention to sleep, rest your body, listen to a little more relaxed**, everything is OK!!

Life is beautiful, and there are so many people who love you, why not be happy, there is no reason not to be happy!!

Listen to what I say, it's definitely true, although I say it is very verbose, but I am warm-hearted!

Life is not smooth sailing, everyone is, and it makes sense to look at the rainbow after the storm!!

I'm rooting for you!

Happy friends, at least I'll support you!

I have a general understanding of your problem, can you see that I can summarize your problem for you?

What you want to ask is how you can better control yourself.

Here's what I'm going to suggest to you.

Think twice about everything and weigh the pros and cons. To be a person and do things, you must use your brain more.

Work needs to be like this, love needs to be like this, two words. Business, four words, step by step.

I know your character is good, it's just that a lot of people don't like it.

You want people to accept you.

Then there are many ways, and the key is the few sentences I said above.

As long as you do it, it's easy.

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The administrator called me to add.

I think so. Your biggest problem right now is that you can't control yourself.

So how to solve this problem, you can try the simplest, start with less talking, secondly, improve the quality of less talking, and third, there will be quality and less words to make people more acceptable. Be comfortable.

It's not opportunistic or flattery.

For interpersonal communication. It's called art.

I hope you listened to my advice and found it helpful.

Thank you for your question.

The third time it was added, and the administrator also asked me to add it.

Suddenly, I saw a sentence in your description of the problem, you are obviously well-intentioned, but others do not accept it.

Then this is a question of the way to do things, you think, if you hold the chopsticks in the wrong posture, your father scolds you on the spot and does duty to you, will you accept it, or he interrupts you at that time, you will be very aggrieved.

So it's necessary to change the approach.

This is an article I collected on the Internet, the author doesn't know who, but his experience is written in great detail.

How to be sleek. My personality should be said to show multifaceted, I clearly make a series of summaries for myself, and then draw a score line for myself, and thoroughly quantify what I have done over a period of time.

My personality has not changed sleek, but everyone can see that the change in my personality is just a surface, that is, a layer of paper that has been wrapped and has a very smooth touch. In fact, I will still inadvertently let my thorns stand out at a certain time, breathe fresh air, and seize the opportunity.

Speaking of personality changes, it may be because I have experienced some things after doing business a few years ago that I have completely changed my personality. At that time, I learned how to empathize, how to learn anytime and anywhere, and how to break through your eyes to stunned male models.

Everyone's personality is innate, why should you try to change yourself, maybe you have been subjected to.

Some hurt, but make a disapproval of yourself, do you think your outlook on life is so fragile?

Society is colorful, all kinds of people have, maybe because of your change to know some friends of interest, and lose some intimate and straightforward friends, then you won't regret it?

Think more about what you've done. Experience. Don't act like a child every day.

You'll know it when you have more contact with your surroundings.

Not sleek enough?

Then learn to be tactful.

Won't go to school. We have to adapt to living in this society.

Adapt to this society.

I didn't have the ability to live better.

Just force yourself to do a good job.

One slowly sleek. Second, continue to be straightforward. Thirdly, I don't do anything.

Exercise more and think more about the relationship of interests when encountering things.

Be sleek? It shows that a person is too shrewd, and a sleek person will leave a way back for himself to do things, so that the leader feels comfortable, and he should not be too sleek and too tired.

It depends on the personality of the other person

If the other party doesn't like to joke、

Then you're kidding.、

The other person will think that you are not communicating with her in good faith or something.

So, it depends on who you're talking to or who you're joking about.

How is the character.

Put a pair of wings on innocence, innocence is not terrible! The terrible thing is to eat the innocent beast, and when you see this, you will let the innocent fly away and become the one who eats the beast!

Can't be too honest, can't be too tactful. It's easy to be bullied if you're too honest, and it's easy to be hated if you're too tactful. Be in moderation and use everything for everything.

Different ways to do it.

See people and talk about people, and talk nonsense!

na It's up to you!!