Girlfriends who used to love each other very much suddenly broke up because their homes were far awa

Updated on psychology 2024-04-27
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love may be like this, there are hundreds of reasons to be together, and thousands of reasons not to be together. I'm in a similar situation to you, but she's very resolute and doesn't leave any reason to break up, and even though I can't let her go, I still have to accept the reality.

    I can relate to your current mood because I've had an experience like yours. As far as I am concerned, I still support you to go to her, I think the mental or psychological subjective consciousness is very important, two people because you love each other is a very beautiful thing, I believe that in such a pleasant atmosphere you go to the business together, live together is good. On the other hand, if they are not together, they are separated because of the distance, and they will be separated forever, and they will definitely feel uncomfortable with each other in their hearts, although she proposed to divide them.

    The pain in your heart is permanent, unless you don't care about her or she doesn't love you, and the psychological torture is very painful. If you look for her now, if you want to save your love, it will be financial torture at most if you are far away. In a sense, this is transient.

    I say this based on my personal experience and personal wishes, in short, may you all be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Landlord, first of all, I sympathize with you. Don't be too upset. In fact, lovers attach great importance to each other's birthdays, especially in the love stage.

    It seems to me that she actually doesn't have any feelings for you anymore, you said that it was she who proposed to break up, and there are many reasons, you don't need a reason to love someone, and there are often many reasons when you don't love him. If she really loves you, she won't leave you, she can take her mom over with you, I'm sure she hasn't mentioned to you that she wants to take her mom over and live with you. I didn't even ask you to go to her.

    Such a woman is unreliable, let go of this relationship, buy a box of good cigarettes, smoke quietly, slowly forget, everything has to start

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If that's the case, you'll have to go to her!

    She can't bear it alone, she is just stubborn.

    Don't you love her? Why don't you figure out why?

    If you love her, of course you have to face the difficulties with him!

    This is what you have to go through.

    Good luck!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If something doesn't work, go check it out and find a way to get the best of both worlds.

    Your girlfriend is very filial, and such a girl is quite worthy of love.

    Find out if it's because of family problems, or if you're really empathetic and don't think about something else.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The big view garden boy is right, brother I am also experiencing, I am also at a loss, my idea is to find a way to buy a suite in a more developed city, if not, the two elders will move in and take care of them together! I hope we can all have lovers and eventually become married!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Although she broke up with you for various reasons, she said that she didn't talk to others, and talked about her family's situation, and ignored you on your birthday, there should be her distress, but she didn't want you to know and didn't want to bother you! If you love her, go to her and tell her out loud!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Go, she still loves you, who is willing to let go of their parents? After all, they worked hard to raise her, so you have a chance to get to know her, don't get her wrong. Love is to tolerate one another.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you still like it, go to her. Don't miss out on the people you love; Don't let down the people you love, the distance of your hometown is not the distance, and it is true that you don't love each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Being far away is a very real problem, and if it can't be solved, it's useless to look for her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you don't have the strength, don't go, what can you give her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Say a few words

    If you have a true relationship, distance is not a problem!

    The question is how deeply you love each other?!

    Modern information transportation is so convenient, not to mention 80 kilometers, what is 800 kilometers?!

    Propose to break up on the grounds that the two families are 80 kilometers apart, don't you think the reason is far-fetched?!

    Is the landlord a child? Will believe this reason?!

    Go and communicate with your girlfriend sincerely and frankly, and if you can't reach an understanding, break up!

    In our opinion, a girl who finds this reason to break up is not reliable at all, and it is not worth cherishing and owning!

    The words may not sound good, but I hope it provokes you to reflect!

    Happy landlord!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When my wife and I fell in love, her house was 1,300 kilometers away from my house, and now, we are not the same love! As long as you have a good relationship and don't often separate, even if the two of you are far away from the ends of the world, then what's the point...

    It's all about you, or maybe she doesn't love you that much...

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's just a little unbalanced, don't worry too much about it. It's nothing to be in the same company, so what's the use of caring about what others say about you? Everyone has a lot of things to care about every day, even if colleagues talk about it, it will soon pass, and celebrity scandals can't be hot for a few days, not to mention your little thing, don't worry about yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Adjust yourself slowly, there's no other way. When you find a new girlfriend, you may forget it faster.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You said I thought it was over after the breakup, and I didn't think about her anymore, how did you do that? After breaking up, stop thinking, are you sure you like her?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My girlfriend is also from Chongqing, and I'm from Zhejiang. In 50 days, they will love each other for 2,000 days. After going back this year, she proposed to break up, also talking about the distance.

    I'll go to Chongqing the day after tomorrow to make it clear in person, now it's so developed, the high-speed rail plane arrives in one day, it's really not good, and it's not a problem to wait for my parents to get to Chongqing to live when they are old.

    Now we are all still young, and it is impossible to stay with our parents all the time, and when our parents are old, wouldn't it be better for the two families to live together?

    I'm afraid that it's not a matter of distance, but I don't want to explain it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you love her, go and accompany her, the people who can pay for love in a lifetime are very limited, obviously obsessed with it, why not go to hug her against all odds, I am in Inner Mongolia She is also in Jiangxi because her family does not approve, but why not fight desperately, how can there be a reason to live in **, two people are together ** are home, now there is no place is not a different place, the high-speed rail plane is so convenient, it is nothing more than a matter of a few air tickets, you can go back and forth a day, even if you just have a simple meal with your parents, I often go back to see during the holidays, filial piety doesn't mean you have to be filial together, a piece of advice is, if you really love her, don't give up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Why, can't your parents live together? I mean, why don't you take your parents over and live there, and when you want to go back, there is still a home in Chongqing, and they don't want their daughter to be happy? The two of them really love each other very much, and their parents will definitely support them, but you are too disturbing.

    Filial piety is definitely not guarded every day. Of course, all of this has a premise that you are both capable of taking care of your parents, otherwise it will be like this relationship is buried!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I always felt that distance was not a problem, and that if two people loved each other so much, they should be together, or their parents would feel guilty about it. No matter how much parents want their children to stay with them, the premise is that they can find happiness. If you are with someone you don't love, what if you stay with your parents, you don't feel happy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This can become a problem that leads to your separation, indicating that your relationship is not strong, find a way to communicate with her to solve it, and admit that this relationship is not strong if it can't be solved.

    Don't say three years, three days will change a lot of things, if you want to continue, try to find her and work with her to find a solution to the problem, other than that, everything else is negative.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's ridiculous to break up with you because of distance! She doesn't love you that much!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The farthest distance is not the actual distance, but the distance of the heart. If her heart will go with love, the actual distance is not a problem, if she is too realistic, it means that her heart is still a certain distance from you, I hope you will shift the goal and forget about the past! I believe you will gradually get better!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    As long as two people love each other, I don't think time or space is a problem, the question is whether you have the confidence to be ready to face difficulties.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    As long as your girlfriend is resolute, there is no problem, and it is up to your girlfriend to convince her that her family is the best.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you have money, buy a house, if you don't have money, break up You're a man, I'll say a word for your girlfriend It's really not good to marry far away Homesick, if you feel a little wronged or go to your mother's house, the frequency will really be affected, and you will regret it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Go to her house, Chifeng people are rich.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think you should be very dependent on your family since you were a child, so when you want to get married, you will be a little nervous, afraid of losing your support, getting married is not the same as separation, just not living together, but your parents will always love you, will support you, what difficulties you encounter, you can still talk to them, spoiled, this is the same as the original, but there is one more husband who loves you than the original, so don't be too nervous, rest well, be a beautiful bride, I wish you happiness!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Premarital phobia is similar to postpartum phobia, I don't know.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This kind of psychology is normal, and it will be fine after a while.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Not only her, but others will also react like this, which is normal. When girls care about you very much, they are very narrow-minded, they can't tolerate sand in their eyes and hope that your love is pure and clean.

    It is recommended that you talk to her sincerely, and tell her that she will never have any contact with her ex, that it is all in the past, and that you are now the only one in your life.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You ask your girlfriend if you want to be with you like this, if you don't want to let go, if you want, you work together to give 80,000 to her parents

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Brother, 80,000 yuan can be earned in two years, and it doesn't need to be too early to get married, it's not too late to get married at the age of 26, why should you give up on her if you love her, try to give her a better future, don't retreat with a little blow, as long as you want to do it, there is nothing you can't do.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you love, work together.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Eighty thousand a year is OK, what do you think.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    A person next to me who was unable to move had asked for 100,000 yuan.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The Buddha said: "A thousand times in the past life, only to change the present life once by passing by." "In the vast sea of people, two people met, their hearts collided, and then they fell in love, ah!

    What kind of fate is this! Who knows, how many times in the previous life to look back to win the love of God, the road under your feet has to choose by yourself.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Well, after all, after being together for so many days, it's not easy to meet a good girl.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Problems at home. Even if they are reconciled, they are still separated. It's better to have a short pain, so don't reconcile.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    No! No one can live without who@!

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