How to do a good interpersonal relationship, how to make friends! Business dealings and the like

1. A few bunches of punch lines: 1. More communication, less questions. 2. Know more and make more friends.

3. Be calm and solve problems. 2. Think differently: Think more from the perspective of others, feel how others feel, and you will know how to act without messing things up, which is the benefit of thinking from the perspective of others.

Now add: Especially think about the problem from the customer's point of view, think about yourself as a customer, and you will know some of the other party's ideas. Three, two people get along:

When two people get along, in addition to the basic sincerity, it is more important to understand (understand each other's situation or difficulties or hardships or performances), and then do self-adjustment and improvement (that is, adjust their mentality and improve their behavior), followed by care and care (more care can bring each other closer, and more care can deepen each other's understanding). Now add:

As Lianzhi said, when there is a contradiction: 1. Find problems in yourself first, don't complain about others first, and push the problem onto others. 2. To change things, first change yourself; To make things better, make yourself better first!

3. If you want others to respect you, you need to respect others first. At the beginning of 06, a senior surnamed Liang, who had been in the supply and marketing cooperatives for decades, gave the lotus branch this sentence when chatting: things are reasonable, and the heart is peaceful!

To comprehend the lotus branch more, it is really very philosophical, and I will also send it to you here to think about and comprehend. Fourth, we must pay first: Everyone wants to be understood, cared for and loved by others, so how to get it?

Hee-hee, just one sentence: if you want others to be good to you, you have to be good to others first. That is to say, if you give your understanding, care and love first, you will get a correspondingly better return, believe it?!

Now add: Do you understand the concept of "giving"? Give it up before you get it.

As long as you understand the phrase "giving is happier than receiving", you will understand. Lotus Branch Lotus has been doing this, giving up its own knowledge, experience, experience and cases, to help friends who are destined, so that they can learn related knowledge, including health knowledge, and help them improve their health step by step, and Lotus Branch is the opportunity for others to understand, recognize, recognize and generate a small business. Even if there is no business, helping people is happy, isn't that good?

Accumulate virtue for this world, haha... 5. Be a man and do things: A sage said to me:

To learn to do things, you must first learn to be a person. To be a human being is to do a good job in the relationship between people (including family, relatives, friends, classmates, colleagues, neighbors, other organizations, etc.), which is also interpersonal relationships and connections. Good connections can help you develop and help you succeed; If you mess up your connections, you'll have nothing and bear it alone.

Actually, I don't know how to do a good relationship, I'm just a student, I don't have any work experience, and I don't know how to do business. However, I think it should be similar to making friends, think more about your friends, see things from their point of view, treat them with your heart, and they will feel your sincerity and be happy to get along with you! But if you don't put it seriously, it's hard to have good friends, and you'll get bored and tired.

Whether others treat you sincerely, you know for yourself, and it is also someone else's business; As for whether you treat others sincerely, it's your business, take care of yourself first! ）

Business dealings have an additional interest relationship, which probably shows what use value you have for the other party, right? Communicate more and keep in touch It's best to be friends even if you can't work together, and don't ruin the relationship because of this, because your value is really small, and they are not obligated to agree to your request! Perhaps it is time to consider their situation.

This is my shallow opinion, it will be a little naïve....）

Like the most popular people around you to learn, honesty, sincerity to people interpersonal relationships will be good naturally.

Think about it first, whether it's because others don't want to communicate with you, or if you don't want to show your heart. In fact, it is not difficult to get a good relationship.

1.You have to listen to others and learn to be a listener, so that they will be willing to listen to your heart.

2.Don't snub your friends, so that others feel that you are not a true friend, and it is not easy to communicate again.

3.Don't be self-centered, put yourself in the other person's shoes and think about him.

4.Pay attention to the words you use when you speak, and don't make others feel unnatural.

5.The easiest and the hardest: smiling. Don't keep your face strained, a smile will dissolve everything, but don't overlaugh, otherwise others will think you are very contrived.