Should my parents pay 5 for this money?

Let's talk to your boyfriend.

Your mother has this meaning, in fact, it is also a guarantee for the man's family.

So that everyone has a stairs down.

Your mom is doing this for your own good, too.

It's easy to solve it with everyone's communication.

Call the police! To put it mildly, your uncle is really not beaten by anyone, and his niece is also lied, and if he is unkind, you will be unjust, you are so easy to destroy the relationship with your boyfriend, only you will make your boyfriend's family feel at ease!

I only know that to be a woman, you have to be a valuable woman, don't sell yourself very cheaply, dare to do it before you get married, it's really against him, what your parents did is right, we don't owe anyone to your uncle, but a man should spend money on a woman in terms of dealing with objects, he even thinks you see a doctor, will you be okay in the future? Under the banner of dealing with the target, doing things that don't cost money, is he a man? He loves money so much, will it not be long before he will be done with money?

His family has the money to open a bank, what kind of cow x is he pretending to be with the object? If I were you, I would like the most expensive, if he is generous, you two are going to get married and live, you may not be willing to buy it, he shows reluctance, then let him stay so cool, he doesn't take the money you support him?

It's not me who provokes, I look down on such a man the most.

Your boyfriend's family doesn't seem to be short of money, but in order for you and your boyfriend to get along normally in the future, your mother's approach is correct. If you really don't want to go, talk to your boyfriend's family about the debt yourself.

I carried it myself, and I will make money to pay back to my parents in the future.

Don't hurt your feelings because of money.

I think your mom was right to do that.

Because after all, it was your uncle who borrowed the money and didn't pay it back, and the money lent out was also your boyfriend's parents, not your younger couple.

1.Aside from your relationship and relationship with your boyfriend, your mother is doing this responsibly.

2.Considering the relationship between the two of you, your mother is also trying to eliminate the unstable factors by doing this.

3.You ask if your parents should pay for the money, but you should be responsible for the money, but you don't, so your parents plan to give it to them.

Personally, I don't think you should think about retreats like you and your boyfriend if they don't get better. If two people are really together, they should die and give each other full confidence. When I say faith, I mean believing that we can reach a perfect fit with each other.

Seeing that you have reached the stage of talking about marriage, then you should settle down, calm down, and cultivate a harmonious and beautiful family environment.

As for the friction between you and your boyfriend and your boyfriend's family, I don't think it's a problem at all. No one is perfect, and your boyfriend beats you and scolds you to look very undignified and tasteless, but you should think about whether you are responsible when he treats you like this. Will you be too willful, will you not be considerate enough, will you not give him enough respect (ignoring a man's self-esteem can have serious consequences), and will you be so vexatious that it will exhaust his patience ......

The friction between the two of you is even more unreasonable, it is two completely unrelated families, it is because the two of you have just begun to blend with each other, it is normal to have many different concepts and practices, frankly you mind these things, I think you are not open-minded enough, that is, there is no tolerance for people. That's not going to work

When encountering problems and contradictions, we should try to take positive measures to solve them and assume our own responsibilities, which is something that both people should do well, and there is no reason to talk about it.

As a woman, you should keep this in mind, but I see very few modern women who can do this, which makes me feel sorry. Men will like women because they are cute and beautiful, gentle, considerate, intelligent, and reserved (when appropriate). And when a man is captured by you and loves you madly, all your troubles are the clouds that once they were

Hehe, I have another version here.

1. You are selfish, you are narrow-minded, you are willful, you are self-righteous.

2. He is stingy, he has no taste, he is rude, he has no manners.

3Your previous life was inexplicable, and your life after that will be a mess.

4. If you don't know how to introspect after reading the above 3 items, but are very angry, and instantly prepare more than 10 reasons to refute it, then you are doomed and there is no help.

It's a joke, I hope you don't mind :

To sum up, tolerance, care, and understanding are things that must be learned, and of course, the most important thing is.

Love. Finally, I hope that your troubles will be floating clouds in the future, and I wish you happiness

It's all a family, it can't be so clear, call the police, but as for the money, who can look at the ability, don't hurt the harmony between husband and wife for this little money!

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The reasons why parents are reluctant to give money, first, parents, are really no money, second, parents' money has other uses If you have set up a family alone, parents are unwilling to give money, it is understandable, after all, they are old and also need to keep some pension money for themselves If you are in a hurry to use money, you can discuss with your parents to help you get through the crisis.

Why didn't my parents give me money?

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The reasons why parents are reluctant to give money, first, parents, are really no money, second, parents' money has other uses If you have set up a family alone, parents are unwilling to give money, it is understandable, after all, they are old and also need to keep some pension money for themselves If you are in a hurry to use money, you can discuss with your parents to help you get through the crisis.

My money was borrowed by someone else, my mom because I have someone outside? So they didn't give me my salary, and they didn't want to give me the money they wanted.

Then your parents are probably afraid that you will spend your money indiscriminately, so they said that they did this, baby.

Although they have this gun in their hands, if there is really something particularly important in the future, he will still give you this money.

Soon the National Day holiday is over, I want to go out for a walk, I am quite lonely, there is no one to talk to, and they will not give me a penny if they want to.

My dear, you can talk to your parents about it.

Is there some misunderstanding between you?

I believe that as long as you calmly talk to your parents about this matter, and then explain your previous misunderstanding clearly, your parents will definitely agree.

My dear, I see that you don't have the number of times, if you still have problems, you can buy this service, and then I can do a better analysis of your problems. It's not easy to meet, so I wish you a happy encounter.

If you are unmarried, you are a person who spends money indiscriminately, loves to spend money, and spends money very generously, it is very appropriate for your salary to be kept by your parents, so as to eliminate unnecessary spending of money, and you can also save money for urgent needs.

Pay money to your parents, they won't spend it, most of it is saved for their children. We young people are used to spending lavishly, and giving some to our parents can prevent us from spending money indiscriminately. And this can also cultivate our sense of responsibility well, understand that it is not easy to earn money, and know how to take responsibility for family suspicion.

Parents have paid all their lives, and their children have finally grown up and can work and earn money, so they can relax. Parents don't ask for money from their children. It is the traditional practice of the Chinese nation to hand over money to parents for escrow.

It is also the embodiment of family rules. lest thou spend lavishly, and save up thy food for the night. When you get married, buy a house, and get married, your parents will return to Zhao, why don't you do it?

If I am married, I will set up my own account, in addition to the monthly living expenses, the rest of the money saved, because once I get married, there will be more and more places to use money in the future, to put my heart first on my own small family, and then my parents, not to say to be an unfilial person, it is the tradition of the Chinese nation and even the people of the world, once people become adults and become a family, they will have to leave the original family, to build their own small family, and pass it on from generation to generation.

In short, you should have a plan and be assertive, especially after getting married and starting a family, you should manage your own finances for the small family, rather than having your parents manage your income instead. Whether you want to give it to your parents or not depends on the actual situation, and it also depends on your own situation. After all, each of our families grew up in a different environment.

I also can't make up my mind about this auspicious banquet, because I don't know how much money he needs, if I have this condition, I will give her a little, if my conditions are relatively poor, I can only choose to give up! Although my parents are well-intentioned, I will definitely not be embarrassed by myself.

Family members should be cautious in three points and tolerant in seven points. A good relationship requires both the patience to communicate with each other and the wisdom to tolerate each other. No matter how close people are, they may not fully understand each other, what we need is communication and create conditions for understanding each other.

Communication is not the same as persuasion, communication is equal and peaceful. They may have different views from each other, but they are willing to tolerate each other with love. Some people say that the more inclusive a family is, the more prosperous it will be.

A really good family relationship is when family members learn to "communicate in three points and tolerate in seven points". Be more tolerant of everything, contradictions will not stay overnight, and no matter how big the conflict is, it can be turned into a big thing and a small thing.

In life, three points are sober and seven points are confused. Which family, there are no bumps? Home is not a place to be reasonable, and if you always worry and blame each other, it will only make the conflict worse.

The so-called indisputable right and wrong of a happy family is not that the family does not have the right norms, but that they tolerate each other, because they understand that the happiness and happiness of the family far outweigh the so-called right and wrong, and it is impossible for people to have the same views and tastes between people, even if they are a family, they have different personalities. After all, the winds and waves in life are a few, and the warmth that melts in firewood, rice, oil and salt is the most moving. Being sober about big things and confused about small things is the secret of a family's happiness.

Three points of advice, seven points of respect. A writer once said, "Learn to be close to our parents, to listen and not to obey; and our loved ones are close and not confused; We are also teachers and friends with our children, loving and not arrogating.

A good family relationship has its own sense of proportion. Care for each other and do not interfere with each other; Be independent of each other and be respectful. True love is never about changing each other, but about respecting each other.

This is basically the case for both parents and siblings, so it's important to have a good attitude!

In our country, children under the age of 27 who are not living independently should pay alimony to their parents, which is a respect for social obligations and ethics. The extent and amount of alimony may be determined according to the family's financial strength and individual capabilities.

In general, the amount of alimony is 30 to 40 per cent of the child's total income. If the child has no income, there is no need to pay maintenance to the parents, but the parents should try to help them with family difficulties.

Be respectful and caring for your parents. The payment of parental support is conditional, and the first thing to do is to see whether there is the ability to support them. If the child is still studying and does not have the financial means to be independent, he or she may not be able to pay.

Secondly, it depends on whether the parents have reached the statutory retirement age, whether they have lost the ability to work, and whether they have income**. If you have an income** or have not reached the statutory retirement age.

Children are also not liable for alimony. Supporting parents does not only mean providing money, doing more housework for parents and chatting with parents more, this is also a kind of support, and it is more precious than money. Even without material funding.

Parents will also be considerate of their children who do not have financial **, and parents will also be very satisfied. It's just that as a child, you should have a sense of responsibility, you should take into account the importance of material things, and you should also work hard for yourself. The answer to this question cannot be a simple "yes" or "no".

Decisions in this regard will depend on a case-by-case basis, and the following highlights will help you make a more specific decision. Child's financial situation: Does the child have any other financial resources from the previous semester that are not related to the family's financial situation**?

The family's financial situation: Is the family able to provide the necessary alimony? The child's willingness to contribute financially to the family.

Does a child contribute to the family's economy? Both the provisions of the law and the constraints of the contract are factors that determine whether a child should be given alimony.

If your parents are rich, and your parents are willing to give you money to spend, and you use the money your parents give you to buy gifts for your parents, your parents should also feel very gratified, and you can also enjoy the material conditions given to you by your parents and do what you want to do, which is a gift.

If the conditions at home are not good, and the living expenses given to you by your parents are their hard-earned money from frugality, then what your roommate said is to the point, only take the necessary living expenses, and take this hard life as an experience. They will be more pleased to use the money they earn to buy gifts for their parents. After many people work, the only way to honor their parents is to give money.

It seems that if you bury the money, you can erase all the guilt of not having time to accompany your parents because of work.

I don't know when, money became the only way we could communicate with our parents.

Before graduating from college, everyone's life** is almost entirely from their parents. This higher education has entered the stage of universal education, and the nurturing cycle lasts for at least 23 cold and summer. During this period, parents invest a lot of financial, material and energy resources.

We should repay them for such a huge contribution after we have a certain financial ability.

But is it really enough to give money?

Party A's father is "closer than his own father."

My cousin Little A works as a designer. In the designer industry, the customer is wittily called "Party A's father". For Xiao A, "Party A's father" is even closer than his father.

The tasks and requirements they have issued must be completed in the first time. As for the needs of his parents, he could only put them aside for the time being.

During the winter vacation of his sophomore year, Xiao A went home once, and since then he has never stepped into the house, and he often can't get through. After work, he will send 5,000 yuan to his family every month.

Mother misses Xiao A very much, and in desperation, she has to travel thousands of miles with her father from her hometown to the magic capital where Xiao A works. He agreed to go out with his parents, but as a result, Party A's father was forced to spend money to accompany his parents to the City God Temple, the Oriental Pearl and the Bund. By the time he was free to accompany his parents, they had already returned to their hometown, leaving only some local products at home.

The fast-paced work life makes people spend less and less time with their parents. Except for the highly technical one, there is a substitution for other jobs, so the competition is becoming more and more fierce.

If you don't work hard and don't pay the price for overtime, you are likely to fall behind in the competition. In order to keep the job, you can only keep squeezing the available time. Usually when I come home from work, I am physically and mentally exhausted.

Even so, I have to worry about tomorrow and the next stage of work, and I can't sleep until the early hours of the morning. Such a high-intensity work mode is bound to squeeze the willingness to care for parents.