Why do girls come to two as soon as they come, how to choose

It seems that you are the kind of person who does not understand the situation, and you need to consider whether they match your conditions. You have graduated from college, and playing a friend must be based on the premise of getting married, and it is no longer like a little baby running a family. You need to examine three conditions, 1. Sexual relationship, that is, the ability to enjoy sex freely and stably with the other person, is very important.

2. Interest relationship, that is, sharing money and material goods, profits or losses must be borne together, regardless of you and me. 3. Spiritual relationship, that is, the ability to communicate with each other sincerely, live together, work together (including entertainment), enjoy or share joys and hardships. Maintain a happy marriage.

You may wish to consider the above three conditions. I wish you a speedy search for your other half.

Simple you, people can't be half-hearted, of course, people, all want to find a good one, but also want to find a better one, but people can't be perfect, I personally think the first one is the best choice, because that's their most attentive. You don't care how many people like you in the back.

I think you'd better choose the previous one, otherwise it may go back to the results of the third year of high school, Feelings are cultivated slowly rather than casually flooded, you are just an ordinary person and not a young man in the flower season, please respect the feelings of a girl, I don't think you want to dump yourself because of your girlfriend's split, right?

Definitely choose the former! The former knows more, the latter knows less, besides, you've already broken a girl's heart, don't hurt the other.

Eh, don't have a girlfriend, save yourself from worry, you won't starve to death by yourself, you're doing well, you won't have a rival or anything, you're more comfortable.

Causal cycle, good use, don't forget these words. It is advisable to continue with the first one, and the second should be motivated.

Who do you like? Come two? You don't have to choose as much as you like to come alone.

You're a boy! You should have your own personality and can't let girls be at the mercy of themselves! Beg.

Since she doesn't know who she loves now, why should you be serious Love is for two people, not just for yourself Love can't be forced Don't think too much If she chooses an ex-boyfriend, then you have to bless them and hope that they won't break up again like before If she decides to stay with you, then you can talk to her about how you want to be together Tell her about your pressure Love is selfish Since she loves you, she will respect your problems...

If she doesn't usually look like this, it means that she really misses you. In addition, if a woman misses you, she will talk to you about some of your sweet memories to express her longing.

Since she is too guarded, you must first gain her trust. Start with the woman's parents, and after getting the approval of the woman's parents, then come to contact the woman, and pay attention to everything about the woman, such as sadness and happiness. You can travel together, eat together, or find a lot of people to sing together.

3. Find the right position for getting along with a girl: You are not her boyfriend, so there is no need to be angry to endure any vexatious troubles from the other party; You are not her father, there is no need to always think about paying for her, you can ask for the AA system when you eat and have fun; (Also, I'm disgusted that in a normal party, a guy tells everyone that girls don't want to give money, and we boys can share their money.) ）

In fact, falling in love is to get married, this process is to see whether the two of you are suitable to live together, each man's requirements are different, so the requirements for women are also different, but when he is in love, he will always think, this woman is not suitable for himself, if he is not suitable, break up until he finds a suitable one, so that it is possible to live for a lifetime, if this woman is not suitable for you, you will be on it, I believe that it will not be long before you break up, even if you are married, you will divorce.

If there is a big gap between the ideas of two people, although there is love at the beginning, it is difficult to get along with each other, it is difficult to communicate, such love will not last long, let alone get married, usually men are more rational, which will bring a sense of security to women, so that women are more dependent on him and more trusting.

I don't know if you have noticed? Some men are obviously very handsome, they can find a particularly beautiful woman, but the women they marry are very average, and the beautiful women are all married to ugly men, and they may be married for money, men marry a woman who is not beautiful, it does not mean that they have no vision, maybe this woman has inner beauty, and the two people really love each other, so they came together.

Although such a woman is not beautiful, he has a trait that can be cherished by a man, and this trait is also his advantage, as long as two people truly love each other, can live happily together, care for each other, and take care of each other, this is the essence of love.

For boys, they will overestimate their ability and level, they will think that they are really good, and they will despise the girls' efforts, resulting in the girl's self-esteem being hurt, and breaking up is inevitable. Moreover, from common sense, it is easier for girls to chase boys, but the easier it is to get, the more they don't know how to cherish, as sung in the song, without a cold bone, where can the plum blossoms be fragrant, marriage events, to be cautious, to have more experience to test and understand each other, can not be easily decided because of a momentary heartbeat.

This situation is usually more painful and understandable for men. I believe that if your girlfriend doesn't have an ex-boyfriend, you will definitely choose her without hesitation.

But a man's self-esteem and possessiveness are hard to endure this experience. This can only be accepted on your own.

In fact, marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families. What does your mom do to your girlfriend? How did her parents treat you, how did they treat your family, how did they treat your mother?

If it's all good, in fact, you can still consider your girlfriend, after all, in today's society, it's really about reality. To put it bluntly, it's the reality, finding a good wife and a man can struggle for ten years less, or even more...

Of course, this is a more material word.

The woman you like now, are you sure you know everything, because you haven't lived together, maybe she still has some shortcomings you haven't seen, of course, it's not that people are bad, these are all up to you to measure.

In short, these things can only be considered and measured by yourself, and others can't help you.

Emotional things can't be mixed with other things, love and non-love must be clear, otherwise you are not the only one who suffers in real life.

I've had a similar experience, and at first I was very persistent, but I finally let go, not because I didn't love him, but because I loved him too much, because loving him was to make him happy, let him choose between you, or all three of you would get hurt when they got entangled, you know.

Since he has chosen someone else, then why, do you still have to choose him, love is selfish and the only one, give up on him, and give yourself a chance to start over.