I wholeheartedly give advice to my boyfriend, but he doesn t appreciate it, what should I do?

I think all boys should reflect on what they have gained in love. Some boys are the more immature side in love, but this is a more normal performance, because boys of the same age are always less mature than girls, so when girls put forward some opinions and suggestions, they may be refuted by their boyfriends on the spot. This is indeed a very distressing thing for a girl, because you give him some advice and end up with a title that dislikes him.

Give him time to calm down.

There are always differences in cognition and maturity between two people, so maybe some ideas you thought of first, but your boyfriend didn't think of them yet, so the two of you will have differences in thought, but think about whether two people are really happy together, if so, don't give up such a relationship too easily. Although many girls hope that they can rely on a mature and stable man, there are not many such men, so when you quarrel, don't mention breaking up at every turn, you should give each other time to calm down, maybe he has figured it out, he will naturally apologize to you and recognize your suggestion.

Just do your own thing.

You first have to figure out that you are only in the stage of falling in love now, and you have not yet reached the point of talking about marriage, even if you reach the point of talking about marriage, you shouldn't worry about his family's affairs, if he is an unmotivated person, then how to solve it? I think you already have an answer in your heart, what you have to do is not to change him or supervise what he does, but to let him have his own consciousness and opinion, when he wants to do something well, he doesn't need your supervision at all. You just need to do what you want to do well, don't waste your youth, when you yourself are wonderful, he will naturally feel that there is a gap between you and him, if you still want to be with you, improve yourself, it is nothing more than his first choice.

Don't try to change a person, although many people have said so, and have read a lot of articles like this, but it seems that you always want to change others through your own opinions and opinions, to make yourself more exciting, and use your own action to urge and influence the people around you.

First of all, I don't think you should give him advice enthusiastically. Because sometimes your opinions make him feel that you dislike them, or make him feel that he is very incompetent.

Ask him why he ignored your words, if he still wants to continue in 1 block, if so, then listen to your opinion more, if not, then separate as soon as possible.

You should explain it to your boyfriend well, and if you really can't do it, choose to break up, because the other party doesn't love you.