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Well, you know it yourself, it's not good. But I can't control it. This is normal, there may be some mild or severe OCD, but it is not serious.
From a personal emotional point of view, you may love this man deep down, and what I want to know most now is what you think in your heart, and I feel that you may want a result, but you are overwhelmed. Right? It's just my personal feelings.
If it really doesn't work, if you think you can't hold it anymore, find him out and talk about it, and use words to communicate face-to-face, everything doesn't get any better than this! Look at what he thinks, if you feel that you can let go, I still advise you to let go, feelings can't be forced. If it's an abnormal relationship, let it pass.
Then start your life anew. You will find that in fact, without him, you will live a happy life, and you will never have obsessive-compulsive disorder again.
Sometimes, there are some things that you need to repair your own heart, and what others say may not be useful. The most important thing is to think about it yourself.
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As the saying goes"Those who are content are always happy. "
When you feel dissatisfied, the first thing you think about is how to work hard to improve your ability, and then get what you want and satisfy yourself!
If you really can't satisfy yourself, then think about the time when you were hard, compared to that time, you have gained a lot, very happy!
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Give up when you should give up, and leave a chic back to the other party.
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I often feel dissatisfied with myself, feel that I am not good enough, or I have no effort or achievement, this feeling is very normal in today's materialistic society, because some people around me are very successful or very happy. In fact, you yourself have worked hard but still make you feel very empty, which still means that your heart is not rich, even if a person is rich, but his spirit is not full, his heart is not rich, then he will still feel unhappy and dissatisfied with himself. So keep yourself busy, do something that you feel is meaningful, or go out to play, eat something delicious, see some good scenery, have something fun, don't think so much, life is beautiful, the people around you are also lovely, and you are great!
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Dissatisfaction with himself is a manifestation of extreme lack of self-confidence, he will always feel that he is not good enough, perfectionism, and then think that he is not good, and often compare himself with better people to deny himself.
Such people don't know how to appreciate themselves, and they don't know how to be tolerant of themselves, so it's easy to be conceited, which is not good, and it's easy to lose self-confidence.
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So do I. I am rarely satisfied with myself, and I always see that I have too many shortcomings, even in the eyes of others, I have taken my work and life very seriously. I think maybe I'm too serious, and I haven't been able to get out of the depressed state for some years because of some things.
There have been all sorts of speechless thoughts. Later, he forced himself to give up all kinds of requirements, reduce the burden of work, make life as simple as possible, and retreat to a state of inaction, just like Xi Murong.
As the poem says, "Just follow the crowd."
After lowering my self-requirements, I indulged myself to chase dramas, watch **, no longer reflect every day, and live in chaos.
And just like that, I slowly came back to life. Although there are still times when I am depressed, I will regulate.
People are tired of life, some of them are to win the approval of others, and the most tired are those of us who are not satisfied with ourselves.
Keep telling yourself that everything is empty, live once, take it easy, and reconcile with yourself!
We must learn to be content in life, and set our goals not too high, but be realistic. Wake up every morning and think about your goals, and then go for it! In this way, life will be full and motivated.
Exercise more in your free time to relax. Don't work hard for something unrealistic, it's not worth it and it will waste your time. Spend more time with your family, family affection is the most important.
It's okay to find something funny on your own, only when you are in a good mood, you will have a relaxed life.
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If you are not satisfied with yourself, you have high requirements for life, your dreams are not fully realized, and the life you want is far away, and your usual life is relatively monotonous, boring, without a happy life scene, you always long for a better life, which can come immediately, and the reality is far from the reality.
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Because you have not experienced the life of the poor, you will always be dissatisfied, and you will have too low requirements for yourself. So since you have never been short of money, then the money is earned by yourself or given by the family, if it is earned by yourself, then you have to move towards a higher goal, if it is given by the family, then you will use the holiday to go out to work, experience what it is like to earn money, and realize that it is not easy, then you will naturally be satisfied.
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If you are not satisfied with your feelings, your desires may be increasing. When you reach your goals, you will set higher goals for yourself to achieve, so that you will always feel unsatisfied.
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This should be a lack of confidence in yourself, you must have confidence in yourself, so you don't care what others say.
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If you're not happy with how you look or what, it's a sign that you're not confident enough.
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Everyone has different feelings, and people's hearts are not enough to swallow elephants, so it is normal for them to feel dissatisfied.
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It is normal for people to not be satisfied.
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You are demanding too much of yourself!
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In family affection, once an elder has a little more care, he will feel guilty and will immediately want to return it.
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It shows that you are not confident enough! Isn't it! You have to be courageous and confident!
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Don't compare other people's excellence with your own shortcomings, everyone has their own shining point, but they don't notice it, go their own way, let others say go, just live a good life, don't always be strict with yourself, so you will get sick after a long time!
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If you are not satisfied with yourself, you should strengthen your exercise and study, replenish your knowledge and physical strength, and be ready to meet greater desires.
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Maybe it's too demanding of yourself.
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You have to think about whether you are asking too much of yourself?
Everyone's way of dealing with it is different, and they can't empathize, so it's all on their own, and if it's me, they may leave when they have the ability, stay away, don't contact anyone, and live a life again to dilute everything.
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