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A 10-year-old child, ideologically still afraid of teachers and parents, in fact, is not afraid, is to take teachers and parents as authority, completely believe their words, when because your cousin's parents are not there, he is actually lacking love, so to speak, lack of parental love children, is avoidant, that is, parents or relatives are not there, he will be sad, and parents care about him, he will show rejection, which is different from the rebellion of adolescents, it is completely because of the lack of parental love. If you don't control it now, it will lead to a very rebellious adolescence. But reading your article, I have a general understanding of the situation in your family, in fact, it is not bad to discipline your cousin strictly, and there must be no other way to control your cousin's development in a bad direction.

But there is no need to scold. You reason with your brother, in fact, he doesn't understand, because he hasn't established the concept of abstract thinking, and it is more intuitive to see the problem, as you can see, why does he like to play with older children, because he feels that older children can protect him, and he is also eager to grow up quickly. Therefore, when you talk about reasoning, you can appropriately add strict requirements, what you can do and what you can't do, if you are wrong, there will be no reward, and if you are wrong, you will be punished (no corporal punishment!).

If you get it right, you'll be rewarded, which is the best way to do it in the current situation.

Your cousin's problem is that his parents don't pay enough attention to him, he doesn't feel safe in his heart, and at the same time he doesn't give more correct guidance, and in the long run, he needs someone who pays close attention to him, so that he can trust, preferably his mother! In this way, the problem can be solved slowly, otherwise there will be more problems in adolescence!

I think the most important thing is the attitude of the parents, the word "busy", almost all problems.

The roots

Children need to get a lot of love at this time, these loves should be expressed in a variety of forms, love the child, tell him, give him a hug, give him love, accompany him more, talk to him more, I think the child's dependence on parents should be irreplaceable.

Children's bad habits and stubborn behaviors should be trying to attract the attention of parents.

It is said that children are the shadows of their parents, and the shortcomings of children are all insinuations of their parents' shortcomings.

Therefore, the most important thing is the change of parents.

is only 4 years old, and he still needs his parents to love him more to get better.

Don't give up, what a pity for such a young child.

Psychological counseling, combined with parents' opinions, re-treat children.

Children can't get into the computer too early, and parental care is severely lacking.

My suggestion is to let him go to the place of child psychological counseling to receive some counseling, and then he needs to get out of the current environment, spend more time with other children, get more contact with people and other natural things, stay away from the computer, and slowly get better.

Well, it's a hassle, I'm a kid, I know, if you trust me, do what I want.

1: Let the eldest daughter have more contact with the younger daughter, and if you don't want to play together, you have to force it, the reason is to take care of your younger sister.

2: Spend more time with the eldest daughter, and tell the eldest daughter about the benefits of having a younger daughter, for example, the younger daughter can help her mother clean the room when she grows up, and the mother can rest well, or say that the younger daughter can help the family earn money and support us when she grows up.

3: Try to let the younger daughter comfort the older daughter when she cries and tell her not to cry, maybe you can increase the older daughter's favorability towards the younger daughter.

4: Try to show indifference to the younger daughter and care for the eldest daughter in front of the eldest daughter; and then comforted and coaxed the little daughter behind his back.

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Don't just care about the little one, care more about the big one, and make the big one like the little one in words and actions, and feel that she is the big one and should take care of and love her sister. Today's children are very precocious, take your time and don't rush.

You can't spoil little girls too much in normal times, it's best to treat them all equally, that's fine. It's normal to be jealous.

It's better to say less, my sister has to let my sister's words.

Just say, you are all mother's daughters, both love.

Teach the child to take care of the younger sister, but the toys, meals, and not the little girl.