Grandma was often unhappy and thought of anything bad

This is a normal phenomenon in the elderly. The main thing is to think about people. If it is 4 sons and 9 grandchildren, they can often visit the elderly; Estimated it will be fine. Of course, the premise is that the relationship between the 4 sons is harmonious. Otherwise, the old man will not only think about people, but also about things.

What I said is very general, I don't know if you can understand it, housework is inherently difficult to decide. I hope you can think about it at a deeper level, and it will probably help you.

intergenerational parenting", many children now have this phenomenon. "Generation-skipping" means that children are closer to their grandparents or grandparents, and more distant from their parents. Many of this phenomenon is manifested in children who have been brought up by their grandparents since childhood, they have lived with the elderly since they were children, and they spend more time with them, so their parents will have a sense of alienation.

As a result, many mothers expressed their unhappiness.

1893790: My child was weaned at the age of 8 months, and after weaning, I went to work, and the child lived with his grandmother. I am also worried that the children will not be close to us at that time, so every weekend, I will take the children to play.

Even so, the child still kisses his grandmother, every time he has to take his grandmother to go, and if he has nothing to do, he will find his grandmother.

Dong'an Northwest is very good-looking: our young couple lives with the elderly, and we didn't go to work very early after giving birth, and the child only started to work when he was one year old. However, since the child was weaned at 6 months, he cried every night, and only his grandmother coaxed him to stop it, and he basically slept with his grandmother every night.

Now I don't have time to spend with my children after work, and my children are with their grandmother every day.

Hello in the future: My child is now 2 years old, and I originally wanted the child to take the child to Yu Lu Qiyuan to go to work again, but I never expected that the child who was pulling the big one hand, since the grandmother came, did not recognize the mother! Sticking to his grandmother every minute, it's like a little follower, now it's okay, you can go to work with peace of mind.

Kangkang 2008: The child's grandmother loves him very much, always feels a little doting, worried that the child will be spoiled by his grandmother, and always has some conflicts with him to tease his grandmother. Every time I talked to his grandmother about it, if the child heard it, the child always told me not to bully my grandmother and was angry with me.

The old people are like this, it should be like this throughout the ages, you are very likely to be like this when you are old, don't say it's impossible, it won't be like that, I've seen a lot of people who are young and capable, and now they are fifty or sixty and begin to nag, just coax them like children, at most the left ear listens to the right ear.

When people are old, sometimes they don't like to listen, and the youngest generation should forgive the old man more, he is a junior, and he treats the old man as a child.

1.You can try to communicate effectively, the so-called effective communication, is not as simple as you say to them, including the tone of your voice, choose the time, etc., the tone should be kind and not arrogant, and the time should be chosen when they are in a good mood, and talk to them heart-to-heart.

2.If the communication is ineffective, please don't be discouraged, within the scope of allowability, accommodate the feelings of your grandparents, and behind the scenes, you can do what you think is right, since the contradiction is irreconcilable and cannot be avoided, it can only be a dead knot, and you can only ignore this contradiction.

Grandma just loves you in the wrong way, she loves you in her heart.