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Maybe so, because in the process of chasing stars, you may feel a different kind of happiness, and some of the dynamics of celebrities will inspire you, which will reduce the pain, so why not try it.
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Summary. 1. Spend a lot of time and energy to have an impact on your life.
Everyone has the main theme of the current life, such as school, work, which is the most important thing in life, and if you like your idol in your heart, you can learn the good advantages and qualities of your idol. But there is no need to blindly chase stars, lose your mind, and affect the main theme of life. There are some fanatical fans who spend a lot of time and energy chasing stars, which seriously affects their normal lives.
The dangers of excessive star chasing.
1. Spend a lot of time and energy, which has an impact on lifeEveryone has the main theme of the current life, such as study, work, which is the top priority in life. But there is no need to blindly chase stars, lose the rational shirt, and affect the main theme of life. There are some fanatical fans who spend a lot of time and energy chasing the stars, which seriously affects the normal life.
2. The mask affects the life of artists, and artists will often appear in front of the public due to the needs of their profession. However, artists should also have their own private space or private life. And blindly chasing stars will seriously affect a person's private life due to their fanatical mentality.
3. Scattered and annihilated will have psychological problems blindly chasing stars, from the fanaticism in the heart, often has lost the branch orange to reason, take the idol as their spiritual support, and live in a fantasy world all day long, resulting in psychological imbalance. Serious psychological problems.
4. It will affect the value of the guessing and disappearing celebrities due to their publicness, which will have a great impact on fans. Some fans will only see the success of the star Zhaozi on the road to stardom, but they don't know how much effort has been put in behind the success of the star. Even blindly think that success is very simple, as long as you have ideals, you can achieve success, and you can realize your own life value.
In fact, this is not the case, the embodiment of the value of life is not in success, but in the experience and harvest gained in life.
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To say that when there is a big gap between himself in reality and Wu Ziza's ideal self, he will pin his hopes on the star to achieve "substitute satisfaction", once he does not fulfill his expectations, it will be difficult to accept psychologically, and make actions that ordinary people cannot understand.
Yang Lijuan's crazy pursuit of stars, presumably not a few people have heard of the manuscript. When she was 16 years old, Yang Lijuan suddenly dreamed of Andy Lau, and since then she has lost her mind and is only obsessed with him. In order to satisfy their daughter's wish to chase stars, her parents sold their houses and even kidneys to raise funds for her to go to Hong Kong many times to find Andy Lau.
Yang Lijuan. On March 22, 2007, Yang Lijuan quietly participated in the singing meeting with Andy Lau, and finally realized her long-cherished wish and talked with Andy Lau for a group photo. But because Andy Lau refused to meet Yang Lijuan in private, her father committed suicide by jumping into the sea, leaving a suicide note to scold Andy Lau.
Although she finally lost her way back, the price paid by Yang Lijuan was really painful.
On June 25, 2009, Michael Jackson, the king of **, died of a heart attack in Los Angeles. This made the fans who supported him very sad, and even 12 fans couldn't bear to choose suicide when they heard the news, which is also a crazy act of chasing stars.
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I don't know how to chase stars, and it's hard for me to understand why those who chase stars are so crazy.
When it comes to fans chasing stars, the first thing that comes to my mind is Andy Lau's crazy fan Yang Lijuan, Yang Lijuan fell in love with Andy Lau when she was 16 years old, and then dropped out of school to chase stars, but because of her irrationality, her parents dissuaded her many times, and finally she could only sell her house for her to chase stars, although Yang Lijuan realized her dream of seeing Andy Lau, but her father committed suicide by jumping into the sea because of her crazy behavior, I think this is really crazy, no matter who I like, I think we must grasp the "degree", Don't let your parents worry about us, and you can't abandon your parents because of chasing stars, which is very unfilial.
There are also crazy fans, that is Han Xue's fans, a male fan of Han Xue is also very crazy, that male fan has been harassing Han Xue, not only Han Xue herself, but also Han Xue's family, that male fan has been calling Han Xue his "lover" on Weibo, and finally Han Xue couldn't bear it, so he could only announce it on Weibo and ask him to stop harassing himself and his family.
There are also Nicholas Tse's fans, in 2006, Nicholas Tse encountered an incident after the signing of his new ** "Release", one of his fans jumped into the river directly after going to the airport to see off the plane, fortunately, the police came in time and rescued the girl, and I don't understand why she went back to jump into the river. Not long ago, Yang Kun also encountered such a thing, he said on Weibo that there is a female fan who knocks on his family every day, and he has been chattering in his mouth, and attached a monitoring ** in Weibo, **A girl has been talking at the door of Yang Kun's house, and knocking on the door from time to time, and the time is very late, so that Yang Kun really can't live a normal life. There are many, many more examples of this, but I just want to say that we need to be closer to the works of celebrities, a little bit away from their lives, so that they can also have a normal life.
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This sentence often rings in the ears, they are all stars and ordinary children, it is better to make more realistic friends after stars, this is bad, because ......
I have never chased stars for comparison, but his persistence has made me feel that a person has to work hard to be recognized by this society.
They don't have a way, they just need to persevere and take every step of their way.
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I heard a news that one morning, a star-chasing girl was hacked to death by her father, the reason is that girls like stars, and stars are better than their parents. The relationship between this girl and her father is very tense, she surfs the Internet day and night during the summer vacation, and all her pocket money buys the star's ** and posters, and her words that she feels that celebrities are better than her parents deeply hurt her father's heart, and she feels that she is working so hard in exchange for such a sentence, so she lost her mind and slashed at her daughter with a kitchen knife.
There is also a girl who is infatuated with Andy Lau, thinking that she has a marriage with Andy Lau, and her parents have no effect on dissuading her, and her parents also sold her body to buy a house for the girl to go to Hong Kong to find Andy Lau, and finally her parents had no choice but to jump into the sea, and finally the girl finally got her wish and met Andy Lau, and took a group photo together. After a few years, the girl came out of the shadows and burned all the ** with Andy Lau, I hope she can live better in the future.
There is also a girl who has always been a fan of Wang Leehom, and claimed that she was Wang Leehom's wife, and even blocked Wang Leehom after he got off the plane, shouting: I have been with Wang Leehom for 7 years, don't dare to admit it. Because of love and hatred, he even harassed Wang Leehom many times.
I have to say, in order to chase stars, is it worth it for these star-chasing girls to catch up with their parents? Is it worth it to break with your family's relationship in order to chase stars? I think we should establish good values as children from an early age, and stop such crazy behaviors.
There is nothing to chase stars appropriately, you can like the TV series that the star acts, the songs he sings, and the person who likes the star, which is nothing, but don't be involved with your own life.
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There is a psychological vertical deficit as follows:
1. Let yourself get the goal of moving forward.
Stars are different from ordinary people, stars almost have shining points all over their bodies, it is difficult to see the existence of this kind of person in life, when you see such a star on TV, it is like having a goal to move forward, and has been leading yourself forward, especially when you see the efforts of stars on the screen, you will also have the motivation to move forward.
Sa Beining once said that chasing stars is chasing himself. Maybe I really want to be that kind of person, but I can't achieve it, so I can only chase stars and see in them what I want to pursue.
2. Excellent stars are liked.
In life, we will be attracted by beautiful things, the acting skills of the stars in the entertainment industry are in place, and the stars in the ** industry have a particularly strong ability to dance and sing, which will unconsciously attract people to approach.
Especially many male stars, they play a very perfect and likable role in the play, which will make the star bring a fan filter, but everyone must distinguish this in life, everyone will have shortcomings, and celebrities are the same, everyone must remain rational while chasing stars, otherwise they will gradually lose themselves, and in the end they will not even have the fun of chasing stars.
3. Look for a spiritual outlet.
While chasing stars, you can also find a spiritual outlet, want to protect a person, and see a star gradually grow up. There is also the fact that you haven't met someone you like so much in your life, so you can like celebrities and vent your emotions. It should be happy!
If you want to grow in chasing stars, such happiness is practical.
Notes:
Fan psychology divides star-chasing into three levels of psychology: entertainment and social type, personal emotional type, and borderline pathological type, the first two are relatively normal, and the last one is more extreme.
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