It s so helpless!! What to do, I m depressed, what to do!!

Updated on psychology 2024-04-18
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's really hard, buddy, I admire you, you can say such things shows that you are very responsible, and your girlfriend should be happy because of you!

    In fact, our ordinary ordinary people spend their lives for love, for someone who can live almost the same. If you truly love your girlfriend, don't give up!

    But the opposition of the family is also a problem. It is really not easy for our parents to raise us, we can't be an unfilial son, but they oppose the marriage of their children, which is indeed wrong. But if you think about it, they are also well-intentioned - they want to make your life better, but at the same time they are selfish and ignorant

    Your girlfriend is not in good health, and they will not agree to your marriage, which is selfish; You and your girlfriend really love each other, and it's best to be together, but they can't understand your feelings, which is unknown.

    So you're having a hard time right now. You should try to convince your parents that in today's society, love is the most important thing, of course, you can't forget the kindness of your parents, and you have to say that you will support ......them well no matter what

    If it really doesn't work, if it were me, I would choose to give up my girlfriend. Maybe it's because I don't think anything is important about my parents' kindness.

    Be cheerful, friend. It's hard to be a man, and it's even harder to be an ordinary person!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you love her very much, don't give up because of the other person's shortcomings, otherwise, you will be a little too selfish to do so. If two people love each other, they should work together to overcome all the difficulties, and besides, now that technology is relatively developed, you can make money together to solve the so-called physical problems of your girlfriend. That's not the best of both worlds.

    If you don't love it very much, then it's best to let it go, so as not to face this problem after getting married. For example, your girlfriend is in good health now, but you find out that your wife is not in good health after you get married later.

    So how do you deal with this? Isn't it. The opposition of the family is the heart of the parents of the world, and there is no parent who is not worried about the future life of their children.

    It's good to understand!

    I would venture to say: If you and your girlfriend change their position, what will you do, and what will your girlfriend decide?

    Isn't it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You've repeatedly mentioned her physical problems, and we don't know and don't need to understand what it is.

    Her physical problems are your biggest concern. This question seriously affects your attitude towards doing things, think about it. Do you really care about this?

    If you don't care very much, it's just that sometimes it bothers you inexplicably. Then you should face up to this problem now, and if you keep thinking about the pain it will bring, then you will live in pain forever.

    Don't let this issue cause contradictions and distrust between each other. Is it worth it? Just because of this little thing?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Now that marriage is free and protected by the law, there is no need for anyone to interfere, if you really want to marry her quickly, hurry up! Don't give up on her, it's too late to regret it

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's similar to my last relationship, since I don't want to continue, I have to be ruthless, don't procrastinate, don't be soft-hearted.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do what you want.

    It's the 21st century and family is not God.

    They can't change everything.

    Take your heart out and share it with her

    You are her dependence

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    We can't control it.

    bai own emotions du. Sometimes inexplicably not

    Glad. Depressed DAO

    Even depressed. These cases are everyone's version.

    All have been.

    Find a friend and talk about it. Take a break from the environment. If you don't get better, you should see a doctor. After all, health is the most important thing.

    When encountering difficulties in life and work, we must know how to persevere. As long as you persevere, all difficulties will be a thing of the past.

    A person's abilities are a line. Endurance is a line. Between the two lines is the living space. If you can't. No one can bear it. There will be more room for survival.

    We can't change the environment. One can only accept the imperfections of the real world. Accept your imperfections. Perfect. Jin has no feet. Accepting oneself is also an enhancement of ability.

    I wish you a good mood every day.

    The above is purely a personal opinion. If there is something wrong. Thank you for your understanding.

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