Should our relationship continue? Everyone who is passing by comes to give a comment, I am very conf

Updated on society 2024-04-08
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Sometimes women are really more mature than men, you have to forgive him, your situation is very similar to mine.

    I was also very young when I was in a relationship with a woman, and then she got a job, and I didn't, there was a big gap, but I loved her very much, very much, really loved. I can give everything I have for her.

    But she still left me, and today I got a lot of achievements, but I can't get a word from her. I regret it very much, although she left me, I still love her, bless her, and hope her happiness.

    From your words, I feel that your boyfriend is similar to me, and if you leave him now, maybe he will be like me, miserable for the rest of his life. If you love him too, then you tell him what you want, you tell him that if you want to go to the end, he must work hard and make money, otherwise you will leave him, although it is a bit like a threat, but it is true!

    Please tell him clearly that if he still does not improve, then leave him according to your original idea!

    If he really loves you, he'll change!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He treats you too strictly, which is a sign of inferiority! It's true that single-minded men are hard to find, but it's not for nothing! There is only one way!

    Let him work hard to achieve a career on his own! Otherwise, he has low self-esteem and owns you, and he himself will be crushed, and his temper will be even greater at that time! When the time comes, two people will suffer together, so why bother!

    Give him a chance! If he doesn't work hard, he has to divide it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If it doesn't work, it's changed, now that one of my female classmates is leaving, I also feel "sad song".

    As far as I can remember, I never scolded someone I liked. In my opinion, it is morning and evening that you will be divided, unless you are reconciled.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It seems that you are very interested in a person's cultural level, the real society is rich and not rich, you have a pimple in your heart, then start to sort out your feelings, if the other party has a big problem, I will choose to score, the most important thing for a person is character, look at him will swear, character is definitely not very good.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Once doubts arise in feelings, they fade. He cares about you, so he wants to hold on to you. You are tired of it, in fact, all of this is not a reason, the reason is yourself, it is that you don't want to be with him anymore.

    You feel that he is not worthy of you, so you annoy him, are afraid of him, and want to leave him, people are selfish, and feelings are the same, you only think about whether you are comfortable or not, happy or unhappy, and you are afraid that there is no better and more suitable person to leave him, in fact, it doesn't have to be like this. Since being together has become a torture, it is better to break it off early, but everyone is happy, you can make time to take your graduate school entrance examination and live your high-quality life, and he can die early and be reincarnated. Cut off everything that is connected to him and live a new life of your own.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since you yourself feel that you are not suitable for not having a common language, why do you want to be together, marriage is a lifelong thing, it is said that men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, that's it, so you feel that you have little hope of being together, and the possibility of happiness in the future is very small, then don't hesitate, don't waste your youth, disperse, since the conditions are so good, you must find a suitable person, as for you said that you are afraid that you will not find someone who is dedicated to you, I don't think you have to worry, there are still good men now, It depends on whether you are good at discovering or not, and my boyfriend is also very single-minded, although he is not handsome, hehe.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The most important thing for two people to be together is character and get, if you feel that you can't accept his badness, you feel that you can't get along, then it's better to break up,

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since you feel tired, let's break up, maybe this is a problem that you have to face sooner or later. I wish you happiness

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If the feelings are weak, just leave him.

    Maybe he's really not for you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are many things in life that we are reluctant to do, but the problems still have to be solved, because we have to live. I think feelings are hard-won, you must have experienced a lot, the most important thing for you now is to communicate, to solve your problems in the case of communication, if it really doesn't work, or break up, because these two people are very painful, but to break up rationally, there can be no impulse, the so-called good gathering and dispersing. Actually, I hope that lovers will always be together, but reality makes too many of our dreams unrealizable.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Actually, life is one's own, in the past? , but the parents of their children are fine.

    Love is beautiful, reality is cruel, it can only be said that every family has a hard time.

    First of all, I would venture to ask the question: Do you want to love or live?

    Love and life are sometimes difficult to reconcile, and many choices are beyond our control.

    Love, but can't be together, it sounds cruel, even more brutal to real life.

    As the old saying goes: the perfect match. In fact, many people understand this sentence, this is a misunderstanding, and modern people know it: the economic base determines the superstructure, and habits determine the character.

    Love comes at a price, so when it comes to multiple-choice questions about love, be careful!

    Life is cruel, life is very realistic, very warm, not everyone feels that life is beautiful, life is very easy.

    No one has the right to talk about your feelings, and no one can make a choice for you, because life is your private sphere, love you.

    You don't have to choose, calm you need to calm down, they want to straighten out their minds.

    Think rationally about the future and think about your own life.

    What kind of life do you want to have, what kind of life you want to have.

    The youth of love, the necessities of living a life of luxury.

    When there is a conflict between luxury and necessities, you have to make difficult choices.

    Luxury is not a substitute for a simple life, but it is purely impossible to return to luxury.

    It's a heartbreaking feeling, a painful love, not a pain.

    Some people want to share a unique experience, a unique memory, and finally choose to go to an ordinary life.

    Some people want to be heart-rending exclusive, dragging their tired bodies day and night.

    You are a good girl with a very traditional approach, and maybe the traditional approach is best for you.

    Filial piety to parents, loving memories, going their own way, living their own happy life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm also very angry about your experience. I'll help you analyze it, and please bear with me if the analysis is wrong.

    First: the issue of wages. Actually, you don't have to be angry about that salary.

    If you really can't get by, and your wife, your parents-in-law will always give an explanation to their daughter, it's definitely your fault to quarrel, no matter what the reason for your parents-in-law, you shouldn't be like that. People are fighting for breath, but you are not fighting for anger, but you are proving that your temperament is not enough, not only did you not earn anger but took a breath, making your measure smaller.

    Second: Your mother-in-law should have been angry at the time, so you don't have to worry about her, after all, she is an elder, you have to let others evaluate you and say: Your aunt is good, your mother-in-law is like that, people don't say anything, people have always said good things about her mother-in-law.

    This seems to be weak on the surface, but in fact, it shows that you are really very capable, a reliable person, knows etiquette, has energy, and is worthy of friendship.

    Third: If your wife says that she doesn't love you anymore, you have to make sure that he really doesn't love you, if it's angry, you have to analyze it thoroughly before deciding. You can apologize and say all the good things you can say or you can be white lies.

    Let me teach you a sentence: Wife, it was your decision to elope at the beginning, and I listened to you. If you really want to separate today, I still listen to you, but I will always love you.

    Fourth: If your wife really decides to separate from you. A word for you: learn to give up.

    There are some things that you know are wrong, but you have to stick to them, because you are unwilling!

    Some people, knowing that they love her very much, still have to let go, because there is no result!

    There are some roads that have come to an end, but they still have to continue because they are used to it.

    Make your own decision, friend, I can only analyze the truth, and you can decide the big idea.

    I hope you go on happily. For you and for your children.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It seems that you have not withstood the test of their family, you work for them, and the salary does not have to be calculated so carefully, it will be given to you sooner or later, or her parents deliberately test you to see if you care about money or their daughter, and it turns out that you really care about money. This is something you don't hold.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hahaha! Men should have a measure, bitter for a while, but not for a lifetime! If you love her, you also have to love her family, her parents give you 2000, maybe they will test you again, saying that the account is not coming back, why don't you say at that time: then the 2000 will be used by you first, and her parents will not take this money.

    I advise you: to love her, you must first love her parents!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1.What about her other than spending money to make you disheartened with her? Is there anything about her that you can't let go of?

    2.You are still in school, spending your family's money, and it is a bit unrealistic to talk about marriage before you start to live on your own;

    3.Tell her directly that you can't accept her habit of spending money casually; You're going to plan to split your money with her for a while; If she doesn't accept it, break up; If, in the process, she realizes that she is wrong and is willing to correct it, she can give your love another chance to continue to develop;

    4.Think about starting a career first--- and when you have your own jobs, your feelings and relationships will definitely change accordingly--- which is growth.

    5.If she has many things that have disappointed you, breaking up is the solution to the problem, because from now on it will be, then the troubles will be endless ...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's very simple, tell her directly, I can't afford your consumption like this, if you really want to be together, please correct it. If two people really want to live together, they should think about each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you can't afford to raise her, then you can't help it, confess to her.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Why be together if you don't feel it? What if you get married now? After all, I don't feel it anymore.

    She also has a bad attitude towards you, who knows if she will break up with you in the future? Since we don't love each other, we don't need to be together, let's break up. Spending money is so great, does LZ know what she spends?

    Maybe you have a boyfriend outside.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If she can break these bad habits for you, and you can accept her, then continue, the relationship must stand the test, the habits can be changed, and you have to help her work hard to get rid of them, not let them go. Now you are still young, and there are some things that you don't understand, but as a man, you have to have a sense of responsibility, of course, it doesn't mean that you have to go on like that before. Sometimes it's also a responsibility not to go on blindly.

    Both parties can think about each other at the same time, correct their own shortcomings for each other, and accommodate each other's shortcomings, so that they can live well together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Girls ** is a very serious problem, you have a good talk with your girlfriend If you really let go of listening to it like this, it's a pity, talk about economic problems, there is really no way, just get together and disperse.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You should communicate well, solve the existing problems, if you can continue, continue, if you can't, let go, this is a matter of two people.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Let it go, it's good for all of you, I don't think you're very responsible for her, a girl's miscarriage is really bad for your health, I hope you can handle the relationship between each other.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Nothing that is forced to be together is good....It doesn't matter which side it is.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Discuss it with her, and if you can't control it a little, then divide it!

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