My parents don t like me anymore and I m going to have a boy

I don't think parents would be like that. When I was young, I often felt that my parents were not good to me, and I thought about running away from home and committing suicide or something, but now that I am older, I look back at the past, it is very funny, my parents are very fond of me, and they are very good to me.

You should try to change yourself a little bit and work in the direction they want you to grow. I believe that your parents still love you.

This kind of thing will not be easy for anyone.

Actually, I don't think it's because they don't like you that they want to have another one.

How can any parent not love their children, of course, you also have your own problems.

So you can find a day and sit down with your parents to talk.

Say what you think.

It's all a family, and there is no problem that can't be solved.

You tell me.

Don't give up on learning, only learning can save you. If others don't love you, you must cherish yourself more. I didn't study well either, but I didn't want to give up and go with the flow.

Actually, it's nothing, you're already 17, waiting for your brother to come out.

You don't live at home, you go to college, and you don't.

Maybe eat your brother's vinegar, it's good to have a brother or sister, etc.

When your parents are old, your younger brother can follow you to take care of them.

No, you raise two old people by yourself, you say how tired you are.

To me, a bystander, it's you who are overthinking. What parent in the world doesn't love their children. Even if I scold you and beat you, it's for your good! Pay attention to the details, don't just look at the surface.

If I don't like you, you can do it yourself.

Make your own business to prove it to them.

Academic qualifications don't matter.

Tsinghua University and Peking University are just a white-collar worker.

Life is seen as emotional intelligence, you know.

17 years old is not young. Then you can make some achievements to show your parents.

In fact, every parent likes their children very much, my family is a daughter, I like it very much, I just love to tease her, I don't want you, we are going to have a boy, and I don't want you then.

Parents have their own ideas, yes, you should be grown up by now.

I suspect that you are now in a rebellious period, disgusted by your father's discipline, and think that everything your father does is a sign that he does not like his son. Every young person has this process, especially boys, who are more rebellious in adolescence, and girls are slightly better off in comparison, so they will come to the conclusion that the father does not like his son. In fact, parents like their sons and daughters the same, and they may be stricter with their sons and relatively looser with their daughters.

This is based on two considerations: one is the traditional belief that the son will support the whole family in the future, and it is all the hope of the parents and the family, and the daughter will marry in the future, and sooner or later she will be someone else's person, so there is no need to manage it too much. Second, under normal circumstances, sons are active by nature, and they are easy to make mistakes compared to their daughters, so naturally their parents discipline them more, which creates the illusion that they don't like their sons and spoil their daughters.

There is no father in the world who does not like his son, and there is no father who does not want his son to become a talent. If you knew their good intentions, you wouldn't be so resistant to them. Of course, here I would also like to make a suggestion to similar parents, when educating their sons, we should pay attention to ways and means to properly take care of the feelings of the juniors.

As long as everyone thinks more empathetically, I think there is no contradiction that cannot be reconciled. I wish all fathers and sons in the world a harmonious relationship and share the joy of family.

What you like is not necessarily what you want, and what you want is not necessarily what you like; These two are not contradictory.

1. I don't like my son because of your father's personal hobby, it should be said that I don't like my son, but he prefers his daughter to teach, which is purely a personal hobby and harmless;

2. I want a son because of the traditional concept, the son grows up to serve as the pillar of the family, raising children to prevent old age, passing incense, etc.

Daughters are different, the water spilled by the married daughter, although she is her own daughter, but she is married, especially when she has children, it is difficult to take care of her parents, and her husband and son can't take care of it.

3. As a son, you should not influence your own views because of your father's preferences or contradictory thoughts, if you behave badly, he will dislike his son even more, if you behave as filial piety as a child to his parents, and in the case of the best son, he has the same careful, considerate and other qualities as a daughter, then your father will change his mind and make himself excellent.

Don't like your son?

I don't like it.

The father likes his son because he has many unfulfilled ideals and hopes that his next generation will inherit his ideas.

The countryside likes his son so that he can rely on his old age.

Boys are naughty and difficult to manage, but they can inherit incense for the family That's all.

for the child to which the son shall be born shall bear his own surname.

It's because the father's mother loves the grandson.

Traditionally, you have to have a son.

Girl, now with the deepening of reform and opening up, there are more and more foreign-related marriages, since you have chosen a foreign husband, you should stick to it. If your parents don't like it and won't be with you for the rest of your life, it's enough for you to master the scale yourself. Parents are worried about your future, a foreign country, whether you can adapt, if there is an accident, how will you deal with it, your parents' concern is not unreasonable, so you have to be cautious about the relationship with your husband, so that you can get along with each other, grow old together, and let your parents rest assured.

If you don't get a marriage license, they can still press you away, if you don't like it, you don't like it, insist. Talk to your family again. But your parents want you to marry him, and it should be good to think about it. To be honest, many of the people who are married now are not their favorites.

What age is there now, there is still this kind of thing, if you don't marry him, will your mother still insist that you marry him, I don't believe it.

Do you have someone you like, and if you really have someone you like, then stick to it.

Just get married, and after a long time, you will have feelings, and people are such strange animals.

Marry someone you love, or marry someone you want to marry.

Marriage should be based on affection.

Find what you really like.

Bring him to his parents.

Trust your parents to accept the person you love if he loves you, because both parents love their children.

Don't marry! Marriage is built on love!

You can find someone who loves you and someone you love.

If you have no feelings, you won't marry ...... if you run away from home

Don't you want anyone to force you?

This depends on yourself, parents are also for the good of their children, although sometimes it is a little excessive, if you really hate it, tell your parents directly, but sometimes it is a point, after all, people can only do this in this world, this is up to you to decide, others do not understand your situation is not the right to speak, if you are ready, do what you want to do, of course you may fail, you can also submit to your parents, but you may also fail, after all, the examples of Jiao Zhongqing and Yang Lijuan are in front.

My mother told me that boys don't want feelings, maybe you care more, but boys don't, what my mother wanted was also feelings, and now I'm very stiff with my father, and the feeling is not forever, just like I did with a song, when I first listened to it, I was reluctant to take him away from my ears, and I was responsible for hearing him a certain number of times, and I got tired of it and stopped listening to him. Actually, I like that feeling too, but one of the boys I like told me that the world is very realistic, and there will be no one to understand, no one to take care of, and no one to not think about how to live in the future. What suits you is to accompany you for a lifetime, and you yourself say that you have no experience, so it is better to try to let your parents with more experience help you.

If you really can't find a suitable one, don't force yourself, after all, emotional matters are not up to your parents. Be a happy bachelor first, believing that there is always a prince charming waiting for you somewhere in the world.

You have grown up, you have your own ability to think, you think it's worth it, you think it's not worth it, I used to love someone very much, I gave all my love for him, but then it still didn't come together, I don't regret it, at least I once had, I have a good memory in my life, love is not like investment,

Because they see farther than you and have higher experience than you!!

However, the happiness of your life is not child's play, and you must also be assertive.

You won't lose by listening to your parents. It's all so big, there's no need to be so idealistic.

As the saying goes: daughters should be rich, and sons should be poor. Parents love their children.

Maybe the requirements for your son are different, more demanding, because the boy will have to provide for the family in the future. You can't make it without some exercise. Therefore, as a son, you must know the hard work of your parents, be competitive, and have a chance, and your parents will be proud of you.

There is no parent who does not like their child, what you see is only the appearance. likes her daughter, probably because her daughter is well-behaved and obedient. I don't like my son because my son is rebellious. Of course, you should take more care of the obedient.

If you don't like it, don't force it.

Feelings are easy to refuse at the beginning, don't trust this kind of thing. If you reluctantly agree now, it will be difficult to refuse later, and you will think that you are teasing others.

Blind date is bound to be a person that parents and themselves can be more satisfied with, otherwise don't grieve yourself, your parents are thinking about your future food, clothing, housing and transportation, but feelings, days, this day can be lived by yourself!

I hope I can communicate well with your parents.

If you don't like it, you don't like it, and dragging it is not good for anyone.

This kind of thing should be straightforward, or if you don't drag it out, you will find out why I haven't fallen in love with him yet, and the families on both sides will urge me to get married.

My friend is like that, he was forced to get engaged, and now it's even harder**.

Do you know him? Do you know him well? If not, then you should first find out who he is!

Parents say that he is good always for a reason, and they will not harm you, you might as well follow the will of your parents first to have a relationship, after all, there are very few things in the world that fall in love at first sight, many people are very disgusted with blind dates, so they don't have a good impression of the object of the blind date, if you don't have a special favorite object, just date him first! If you find that his character is not good and you still don't feel good about him, just tell him! I believe he won't be stalked!

Look at yourself. Other people's opinions are only for reference (including parents). Let's take care of your own personal affairs.

Are you married or are your family members married?

After all, it's you who lives with him, and it's not your parents, filial piety is filial piety, but you can't listen to your parents in this matter.

What age is it, and the family still has to decide the major events of his life.

It's better to say it directly, but there is no other way, or there is someone you like.

Consider the opinions of your family, don't be too high-minded, and there are no good people when you come out.

It's better to make your own decisions about love, and if you don't like to come together, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

First solemnly tell them that you are serious, and then let the girl get to know them more, and finally if it really doesn't work, you will cut it first. Be sure that she is your true love and don't regret it later.

It must be that the son and girlfriend did not use the appropriate method to make them recognize, and find a way to make them recognize, provided that you really love each other, let them rest assured, and your parents don't want you to be joking.

Some people say that they have to work hard, but if it were me, I would definitely give up directly, I didn't have the courage to fight with my parents-in-law in the future, but everyone thinks differently.

Don't make excuses for puppy love

Study hard and make progress every day!

If there is no love, learn to love yourself first!

Don't cry, it's okay. I tell you, it's a woman who has to be brave, have you ever wondered why he broke up? Why? Don't say that. You think about it more, you have less of him, and you still have many of him. Try to comfort yourself.

It should be possible to use appropriate guidance, and the second is to improve your own requirements, and to perform well in front of your parents, you may be able to change your own experience. In today's era, there is not a lot of discrimination between men and women, and only by improving their adaptability can they adapt to their future life.