Who can solve my worries??? Who can help me to relieve my sorrows, say?

You have to start by building a good relationship with the girls around her.

In general.

Excellent girls don't always like to be around good girls.

So. Her friends are well bought.

This is very useful for you.

Don't give up a few bucks.

I spent a lot of money.

As the saying goes:"If it's mine, it's mine after all, and if it's not mine, I won't get it. "

Go for it, and if you don't get any results after working hard, you should be right.

Yes, yes

Stick to it if you really like her

I believe that in the end, she will be moved by you.

But don't be too impatient, if you are too impatient, it will also arouse her disgust Whatever is done slowly, the rice cooked over low heat is called fragrant.

Good luck!

Do you know her?

Every girl will subconsciously protect herself Especially a talented girl, have you talked about dreams? She may have other ideas, and she doesn't want her feelings to hold her steps Maybe she has a sad past in the country, and she doesn't dare to take another step easily, talented people have strong self-esteem, and they are more afraid of being hurt, you are just strangers, you fall in love with her, how long can this love last, does she understand your sincerity? ? Or are you suspicious??

It is recommended that you talk to her well, get to know her better, care more about her, as long as your love is real, you will get a point of happiness.

If you like it, you can boldly pursue it Do you remember the sentence in love when you meet it around the corner, if you like it, just say it boldly Generally, girls will not abruptly meet a boy they don't know, so you will create more opportunities to meet her, and you will feel it after you get acquainted with it.

1.Get to the root of the problem: If you're feeling sad, start by getting to the root of the problem.

Is it because of work, study, interpersonal relationships, etc.? Is Liang Xiaobi because of anxiety, fear, loneliness and other emotions in her heart? Only by finding the root cause of the problem can we solve the problem in a targeted manner.

2.Seek support: If you're feeling sad, don't go it alone, seek support and help from family, friends, co-workers or a professional counsellor. They can give you emotional support, advice, and solutions to your problems.

3.Change your way of thinking: If you're feeling sad, try changing your way of thinking. For example, you can try to look at the problem positively and optimistically, looking for the positive side of the problem, so as to alleviate your worries.

4.Relaxation: If you feel sad, you can try to relax, for example, you can ascend to the mausoleum to do some exercise, listening, watching movies, reading books and other activities to relieve your stress and sorrow.

5.Find a solution to your problem: If you're feeling sad, try to find a solution to your problem. For example, you can alleviate your worries by making a plan to solve the problem step by step.

Ask how much sorrow you can have, just like a river of spring water flowing eastward.

How to solve the worries, only Du Kang.

Everyone can find ways to help themselves with their troubles.

Having relatives and friends, professional psychologists, consulting platforms, etc. can help people solve their own troubles, and physical and mental health should also be valued.

When we encounter troubles, we should not be overly internally exhausted, we should find a suitable way to solve them in time, and at the same time, we should cultivate our emotional ability and improve our mental resilience, so as to better cope with the challenges in life.

How to solve worries is to express a kind of emotion, need to use other things to solve sorrows, so often slip and hear how to solve worries, the foundation can only be said by Du Kang.

解書, a Chinese word, pinyin is jiěyōu. It means to relieve sorrow.

Source:

Three Kingdoms Wei Cao Cao "Short Song Xing": "How to solve the worries by burying it, only Du Kang." ”

Song Luyou's "Upper Palace": "Although Your Majesty is a multiplier of ten thousand times, who is the best way to relieve your worries?" ”

Ming Liu Ji's poem "Title Chen Taichu Painting Fan": "The hot sky jade shimmers with mercury, and the wind on the piano can relieve worries." ”

Ming Liu Ji's poem No. 8 of "Autumn Huai": "There is no good wine, but it is good." There are not many poems, talk about them to solve their worries. ”

Qing Liquan's "Heterogeneous Names of Things, Insects, and Crickets": "Cailan Magazine": Long heels, a blue bird, a solution to worries. See "Long heels".

When you sing about wine, what is your life? For example, the morning dew is bitter and rotten in the past. Be generous and unforgettable.

How to solve the problem? Only Du Kang. Qingqingzi shouted Ji Zaojin, and I was in my heart.

But for the sake of the king, he has been groaning so far. Yo yo deer chirping, eating wild apples. I have guests, drummers and shengs.

It's as clear as the moon, when can it be done? Worries come from it, and they cannot be cut off. The more strange it is, the more vain it exists.

Qi Kuo talks about the feast, thinking of the old grace. The moon and stars are scarce, the black magpie flies south, and the tree is surrounded by three turns, what branch can be followed? The mountains are not tired of being high, and the sea is not tired of being deep.

Zhou Gong vomited and fed, and the world returned to the heart.

"Tanka Xing" Zheng Yi is two poems written by Cao Cao, a politician and writer in the late Han Dynasty, with the ancient title of Yuefu.

This sentence is close to the vernacular high school letter, and the meaning is easier to understand: the ancients: how to relieve sorrow, only Du Kang.

In fact, most people do not drink or get drunk because of sorrow, and they give Du Kang a new connotation: how to narrate, only Du Kang. In view of this, some people say that how deep the feelings are, how deep the drink is.

As soon as a few friends get together, they exchange courtesies, staggered plans, and get drunk. Also, when guests come, there is no alcohol and rudeness, so they will naturally drink a few more glasses. You see, wine can be fun, wine can add joy, wine can increase affection, wine can reach meaning, can you drink less?

Therefore, drunkenness is understandable. It's sincerity, it's honesty, it's friendship. This is what is called being drunk rather than being annoying.

Cao Cao wrote in "Tanka Xing":'Be generous and unforgettable. How can we relieve our sorrows?

Only Du Kang. '(Du Kang here refers to fine wine in general.) As a result, many people think that the earliest wine was created by Du Kang.

In fact, Yidi, a Xia man who was a thousand years earlier than Du Kang, was only a disciple of winemaking, not the ancestor of wine. In Dawenkou, Longshan and some famous cultural sites, a large number of wine vessels have been found. As early as 7,000 years ago, there was the storage of grain and the accumulation of fruits, which were naturally fermented into wine in the process of storage, and then repeatedly practiced by later generations, so that there was artificial winemaking, which is the saying of grain winemaking.

According to legend, wine was invented by Du Kang. "How to relieve sorrow, only Du Kang" is the allusion of Du Kang's winemaking. However, all he made at the beginning was rice wine and sweet wine.

The earliest sake was made by simmering leftovers in a wooden basin for a few days and then straining them through homespun cloth. It looks cloudy in color, and it tastes light and sweet. In order to create a clear and transparent, fragrant and strong spirit, Du Kang has experienced many failures and sleepless nights, and finally created a spirit that is as clear as water.

This kind of wine is very fragrant, and there is a saying that "Du Kang is drunk with Liu Ling, and he is drunk for three years". Therefore, this kind of wine is also called "through the bottle of incense", known as: "a bowl of drunk for three years".

The two sentences are from Cao Cao's [tanka line], and the whole poem is:

When you sing about wine, what is your life?

For example, the morning dew is bitter in the past.

Be generous and unforgettable.

How to solve the worries, only Du Kang.

Qingqing Zijin, leisurely my heart.

But for the sake of the king, he has been groaning so far.

Yo yo deer chirping, eating wild apples.

I have guests, drummers and shengs.

Obviously like the moon, he can be wiped out.

Worries come from it, and they cannot be cut off.

The more strange it is, the more vain it exists. He Juechong.

Qi Kuo talks about the feast, thinking of the old grace.

The moon stars are scarce, and the black magpie flies south.

Three turns around the tree, what branches can be followed?

The mountains are not tired of being high, and the sea is not tired of being deep.

Zhou Gong vomited and fed, and the world returned to the heart.

Anonymous 0 28-19 10:45

Other answers. Only Du Kang.

Anonymous 0 28-19 10:43

How to solve the worries, only Du Kang.

How to solve the worries, only Du Kang, hehe Li Xian...

Transformed into lines of poetry. When I feel sorry for my loneliness, I look up at the beautiful face of the blue sky, and if I am depressed and noisy, I will still store the melancholy of loneliness, so let the comfort turn into poetry.

When life is boring, look for the soil for wonderful reproduction, and if confusion always blocks people from happiness, let persistence turn into poetry.

When the enthusiasm is cold, moisturize the thirsty new house, and if the loss is still very stubborn in the face of cheerfulness, let the encouragement turn into poetry.

If the survival is suppressed, seize the opportunity to change the direction, and if the grievance still occasionally causes angry excitement, let the perseverance turn into poetry.

When love withers, we firmly believe in the dazzling light of youth, and if sorrow is forever hidden in the inseparable loss, let generosity turn into poetry.

When life is gone, remember the magnificent splendor of the years, and if grief is difficult to express the power of moving, let the tears turn into poems.

Only Du Kang. The truth of Lord Cao Mengde.

Only Du Kang. Don't drink when you're worried, it's best to sleep, and when you wake up, you start 、、、 again

What can be used to relieve boredom?

Tang Dynasty poet Cao Cao's "Short Song Xing".

When you sing about wine, what is your life?

For example, the morning dew is bitter in the past.

Be generous and unforgettable.

How to solve the problem? Only Du Kang.

Qingqing Zijin, leisurely my heart.

But for the sake of the king, he has been groaning so far.

Yo yo deer chirping, eating wild apples.

I have guests, drummers and shengs.

It's as clear as the moon, when can it be done?

Worries come from it, and they cannot be cut off.

The more strange it is, the more vain it exists.

Talking about the old kindness.

The moon stars are scarce, and the black magpie flies south.

Three turns around the tree, what branches can be followed?

The mountains are not tired of being high, and the sea is not tired of being deep.

Zhou Gong vomited and fed, and the world returned to the heart.

Notes] 1. Singing about wine: Singing while drinking. When, it means should.

2. Geometry: how much.

3. There are many hardships in the past: there are too many days of suffering. There is a sigh that life is short.

4. Be generous: refers to the passionate and generous singing at the banquet. In this case, the meaning of "should be used". The whole sentence means that it should be sung with impassioned generosity.

5. Du Kang: According to legend, he was the first person to make wine, which refers to wine.

6, Qingqing Zijin (jīn), Yoyo My Heart: From "The Book of Poetry, Zheng Feng, Zijin". The original story of the girl missing her lover is used here as a metaphor for those who are eager to get talented and learned.

Son, an honorific title for the other party. 衿, an old-fashioned collar. Qingjin is the clothing of the scholars of the Zhou Dynasty, which refers to the learned people.

Leisurely, long-term appearance, describing continuous thoughts.

7. Groaning: Originally refers to whispering and thinking, here refers to the longing and admiration of the sage.

8, 呦 (yōu) yo deer song, eat wild apples. I have a guest, Drumming and Blowing Sheng (shēng): from "The Book of Songs, Xiaoya, Luming".

9. When can you pick it up? Pick, pick, pick.

10. Yue Mo Du Qian: Walk through the criss-crossing paths. Mo, east-west field path. Qian, a north-south path.

11. Exist in vain: succumb to the visit. Vain, here is the meaning of "vain driving"; with, to. Save, greet, miss.

Translation] Singing while drinking, life is short, the sun and the moon are like a shuttle. It's like the morning dew is fleeting, and there is so much time to lose! The singing at the banquet was passionate and generous, and the melancholy filled the heart for a long time.

What can be used to relieve boredom? Only binge drinking can be liberated. The student wearing the green collar (the costume of the Zhou Dynasty bachelor), you make me miss day and night.

It's just because of you that I've been chanting so much. Under the sun, the deer roar happily, leisurely nibbling on the green slope. Once the talents from all over the world come to the house, I will play the sheng and feast the guests.

When will the bright moon hanging in the air be picked up; The sorrow and indignation that I had been holding in my heart for a long time suddenly gushed out and merged into a long river. Guests from afar walked on the field path, one by one, bent down to visit me. Reunite with each other after a long absence, talk about heart-to-heart feasting, and compete to tell the friendship of the past.

The moonlight was bright and the stars were sparse, and a group of nesting black magpies flew south. Flew around the tree for three weeks but didn't collect their wings, ** to have a place for them to live? The mountains are majestic only when the earth and rocks are not abandoned, and the sea is magnificent when the trickle is not abandoned.

I would like to be like the corporal of Zhou Gong, and I hope that the heroes of the world will sincerely obey me.

Du Kang is the founder of ancient sorghum wine, and later generations will use Du Kang as a synonym for wine.

Only Du Kang is from Cao Cao's "Short Song Xing", and the original text is as follows:

When you sing about wine, what is your life?

For example, the morning dew is bitter in the past.

Be generous and unforgettable.

How to solve the worries, only Du Kang.

Qingqing Zijin, leisurely my heart.

But for the sake of the king, Shen has been chanting so far.

Yo yo deer chirping, eating wild apples.

I have guests, drummers and shengs.

It's as clear as the moon, when can it be done?

Worries come from it, and they cannot be cut off.

The more strange it is, the more vain it exists.

Talk about it*, and think about the old kindness.

The moon and stars are scarce, the black magpie flies south, and the tree is surrounded by three turns, what branch can be followed?

The mountains are not tired of being high, the sea is not tired of being deep, Zhou Gong is spitting and feeding, and the world is in the heart.

How to solve worries, only Du Kang" is often quoted, which means that only wine can relieve the worries in my heart, which is the same as Li Bai's "raising a glass to pour sorrow", but it will be "more sorrowful".