How can you please a stalker???

There are two kinds of suitors who will stalk, one is that they really like you very much, so they keep pestering you. There is also a bit of a psychological illness. They think you're his, so they've been pestering you.

The first one can cause a lot of distress in your life, and the second can even cause some damage to your psyche.

For the first type of stalker suitor, you must be very firm to say "no", as long as you give them a little hope or opportunity, they will be endlessly entangled with you, they will feel that it is only a matter of time before you accept them, they will not realize that your rejection is not because they don't like it, they will only feel that you are holding and hanging them. As long as they work hard enough, they can touch you, and eventually you will be together.

For the second type, it is also necessary to refuse, but do not speak too fiercely, many times the stalker suitor is easy to become angry, from love to hate, will cause some harm to your person, and threaten your person. While refusing, you must protect yourself and try not to meet two people alone, because you don't know what the other person thinks in their hearts and what they are going to do to you.

In fact, I want to say to those stalker pursuits, there is nothing wrong with liking a person, but don't let others bother because you like others, make each other feel uncomfortable, so that both people will be hurt, I know that real love is not willing to be only friends Li Zhiyuan, but, love starts from being friends, don't let the other party feel uncomfortable, if it affects others because of your like, such a like is selfish, and the other party clearly says that he doesn't like you, I hope you don't get too much pestering and then stop in moderation. Let yourself go and let go of others.

I once read a news "In the university library, there is a girl reading a book, the boy thinks, the girl likes him, so he has been pestering the girl to WeChat, thinking that the girl is here to follow him together, the girl wants to chase him, but he is embarrassed to say, so let him say" This is the man's statement after the girl called the police, but the girl just came out of the library to borrow a book, and the boy didn't know him at all, and didn't even notice the boy's existence, The boy doesn't say that people like him, and then follows the girl all the time, asking the girl to add his WeChat, which can be regarded as the second kind of stalker we define, they are selfish and self-interested. Thinking about yourself is always yourself, to let others identify with you, if the girl in the article did not choose to call the police, she chose to ignore the boy and walk out of the store. Boys follow girls, and this news may be a different ending.

Therefore, for what you don't like, whether it is a person or a thing, you must be very decisive, brave and firm to say "no, you don't like it, you don't want to do it, you don't want to". Let everyone know what you think, so that you can avoid things that are harmful to yourself to the greatest extent.