Why do I always end up on the stalker? 20

I'm also a girl. And you're really like it. I was also good to me at the beginning, but after we talked, I was good to him.

Sometimes I wonder if I'm so good to him that he doesn't cherish him so much? Now that I think about it, since it's been discussed, it's okay for him. Use all my power to be good to him.

Don't think about whether you shouldn't be so nice to him or whatever. Remember, he's someone you love. If you don't treat your loved ones well, who else can you do well?

Moreover, you can definitely experience that while you are good to him, you can also experience happiness. If he still scores in the end, it can only show that he is a complete fool. I don't know how to cherish such a good girlfriend.

If you give, you won't regret it. At least you have worked bravely for your happiness. Or maybe there was something wrong elsewhere that didn't get together.

Anyway, don't think about it so much. Do what you want. At the same time, remember to be kind to yourself.

I wish you happiness.

There should still be a distance between the two people.

Appropriate distance.

Every couple has their own way of falling in love.

There should be a little bit of change.

A little bit of mutual adaptation.

You are right to be nice to them.

But if it's so good that they can't stand it.

They will have a burden.

It will get tired after a long time.

I can't stand it anymore and I will propose to separate.

You can go and chase them back.

But you cherish yourself.

If you make yourself too humble for a boy.

He won't cherish you either.

Only if you love yourself will someone love you.

You always treat him as if it were your last and try to let go of her hand appropriately

He's making excuses for his actions, it's because he doesn't know how to cherish you, and you're not doing anything wrong.

On the way to chasing love, many boys think that as long as they stalk hard, they will sooner or later win the favor of girls, so most boys will take this way to pursue their favorite girls! In fact, this kind of thinking is wrong, in the hearts of girls, the charm value of boys will decline, and girls will often close the door to this kind of noisy answer stool boys! If you pursue a girl in a stubborn way, and the other party is anxious and disgusted with you, then if you continue, the girl may directly pull you into the blacklist!

If the girl didn't block you, but she was very impatient with you, avoided you, and didn't want to have an intersection with you, at this time, the girl just annoyed you, and didn't completely deny you! In this case, the most important thing you need to do is to stop the stalking behavior immediately and find another way to capture the heart of the girl you like!

Most girls are irresistible to high-quality boys, if you can't make your favorite girls recognize, you have to look at yourself, see what your strengths are, what are your shortcomings, for your own advantages are naturally to find ways to highlight, for your own shortcomings, but also to find ways to change! When you become a dazzling high-quality boy, not only the girl you like, but also other girls will throw an "olive branch" to you.

Emotional intelligence. Now most boys basically have no emotional intelligence, not only is the big man serious in the town, but also very unclear about his own positioning! Why does such a boy think that he can conquer the girl he likes?

Today's girls are very independent, and if they can't make themselves better in love, they would rather be arrogantly single! Therefore, if you want to conquer the girls who want to conquer the heart of the royal lifting edge, it is very important to improve your emotional intelligence!

Skill. There are also skills in falling in love, when falling in love, high-IQ boys often use the way of rejection to attract the attention of girls, this sense of mystery will make girls slowly approach!

On the road to chasing love, there are bound to be many ups and downs, the most important thing is to sum up the lessons and start anew!

In May 2019, Ms. Guo from Beijing and her boyfriend Mr. Kang, who had been bored for 6 years, traveled to New Zealand. As a result, the two of them quarreled on the plane because of trivial matters, and they thought that they would be fine after the quarrel, but they didn't expect to get off the plane. The boyfriend was still angry and told the security officer directly that he didn't know her.

However, because the two were traveling together and went to the address of her boyfriend, Mr. Kang's sister, in New Zealand, such a statement aroused the suspicion of the customs officers and directly repatriated Miss Guo to China on the spot.

Things have come to this point, Mr. Kang has done such a desperate job, it stands to reason that this relationship is over. But unexpectedly, Miss Guo was unwilling, and applied for a tourist visa again on October 8, 2019, and went to Xinxipin to make peace with Mr. Kang. However, this time, her boyfriend didn't even want to see her.

As a result, Miss Guo's head was hot, and she sent a lot of text messages similar to threats, such as what is dead, killing, fish dead, and broken nets. Unexpectedly, Mr. Kang chose to call the police and apply for a protective order.

Because verbal threats to someone's life are felonies in New Zealand and can be punishable by up to seven years in prison.

On October 19, 2019, ** arrested Miss Guo. Until now, it has been ** three times, and there is still no result. Miss Guo attempted suicide in grief and anger, but was rescued by the police.

Until now, the epidemic broke out in New Zealand, and a person was in a foreign country, facing a lawsuit, and he had no money. Recently, this matter has attracted a lot of attention online.

After watching their quarrel, I have an inexplicable feeling that this trip is not pure. It seems that tourism is a bureau that is set up, and quarrels are a pit that is dug. Repatriation was supposed to save her, but not only did she not rejoice, but she was obsessed with making dog skin plasters.

Regarding this kind of thing as love, whoever stalks and beats will die first. Moreover, the dead are so unworthy of sympathy. Especially women, they can't just make dog skin plasters.

A reserved woman can be respected, like this Miss Guo, she is too infatuated, and she is a little despised and unaccustomed. Like hers, if it sounds good, it's called infatuation, but it's ugly? I'm not going to say that, you know.

Persuade men to open a little, and look down on this persuasion: "Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower". Actually, it's the same with women.

When you encounter this kind of man who doesn't want to stick to you, or tries to get rid of you like a snot shake, then let him go, and don't forget to wish him happiness.

There is nothing sad about this kind of breakup, you have to believe that as long as there are men in the world, he will not be the last. The end of one relationship means the beginning of the next. Losing someone who wants to dump you is just one more experience of being dumped. A lot of experience is experience.

Stalking, depending on what situation you use it. Pursuing the person you like, this can't be generalized and said to be bad, it should be judged according to the other party's situation.

1.If the other person is single and doesn't hate you, but during the observation period, it is necessary for you to stalk, because in the process you can give each other time and opportunity to think and measure.

2.If the other party has a partner and explicitly rejects you, then you don't want to continue to stalk, it's useless, and it may make the other party feel annoying to you, make it seem that you are very cheap, and lose the fun of liking someone.

Personal opinion, I hope it can help you.

Stalking pays attention to methods, and blindly stalking will only make the person who is pestered feel disgusted.

She is a family lover and should still be very kind, then she may have a helpless attitude towards stalking, but this shows that she may not easily find you annoying and hate you, because kind people are often very tolerant, but this stalking also has to have a way to have a degree, and it also depends on whether the woman is very attractive. If it's a beautiful woman, the man will say that she is persistent and infatuated, and if it is an ugly woman, the man will say that she is stalking.

If you come to the fate, you will gather, and don't force the fate, it's not yours, why force it, stalking doesn't seem to have any grace at all, which will only backfire and make others disgusted with you. Even if you want to know how others are doing, it's impossible, be a man, don't be dead.

That's definitely not good, emotional matters are two people's affairs, and it's useless to rely on stalking. It's better to let it go sooner.

Of course! The more you stalk, the more disgusted she (he) will be with you! It's okay to get together and disperse, and it's okay to say cherish each other!

Leave yourself the last bit of dignity, don't be stalked, since the other party doesn't like it, don't contact again, it's good for each other.

Grasp is the key, if you are chasing girls, it is very necessary, but you can't pass it.

Yes, stalking is not good, especially not good for personal image.

OK. But don't go too far, just do it in moderation. That's pretty much it.

Yes, it's still a long time, and it's not like he can't do it.

No. It is also called persistence and adoption.

Being chased by a boy to the death, then it means that you have the quality to attract him, and you don't know how to refuse, you let a person you don't like pursue you all the time, you have suffering, and he has suffering.

Because he just wants to get you, he uses all kinds of methods to get your heart, but he is actually very anxious and lacks love in his heart.

And there may also be a tendency towards obsessive-compulsive disorder, because he is obsessed with it, and you have clearly told him not to pester you anymore, so why is he still doing it?

You are not going to refuse him, but to take him to a psychiatrist, or to suggest that he see a psychiatrist, because stalking, is a sick psychology, and you will only get rid of him if he gets better through counseling.

So can you have the compassion to see the wounds in his heart? There must be a reason why he is so persistent in pursuing and letting go of his posture. I just hope you can put aside your boredom for a moment and try to understand why he is the way he is.

Taking the time to understand his inner thoughts and try to speak his mind is often a weakening of his behavior when you say what he wants to say in his heart and out of your mouth.

Don't accept or refuse, clearly tell him that it won't be possible, whatever he does in the next few days, he will be indifferent, and when one day he is really tired, he will slowly let go. In short, if you don't like him, don't leave him any space, and let him go when he understands.

I really had this experience, I thought that after I hurt him, he wouldn't come back to provoke me, but I didn't expect him to continue to stalk. Because it was so insistent that I felt like I was sorry for him in the end. But for his feelings, I really can't accept it.

It's okay not to love, but can't it hurt. So I've been ignoring some of his pestering with me.

There was once a stalker who was as stalker-heavy as ever, whether I ignored him or spoke ill of him.

In the end, I had no choice but to find a male friend to be my boyfriend, pick me up from work every day, and warn the boy to stay away from me.

After more than half a month, he believed that I really had a partner, and gave up in frustration.

On the third day of the Lunar New Year, I took a zero duck egg and went back, plus the teacher gave my parents ** in advance, as soon as I entered the door, I had four eyes looking at me directly, so serious, so scared, I had been shivering, and wanted to pretend that I had nothing to do into the bedroom, but my father pulled me over and slapped me, and punished me for kneeling and shaking me, scolding in my mouth, I could only keep saying sorry, and lowered my head in embarrassment, and then suddenly came to the teacher's ** and said that they blamed me ,......

You have to ignore him completely.

He does whatever he likes, everything he does is to get your attention, you get angry, and he achieves his goal. So ignore everything about him and don't have anything to do with him.

Whatever he does, try not to let him affect you.