My parents are against it, should I continue to be with him?

Updated on society 2024-04-29
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Think about it.

    One. Can He give you the happiness you want? Happiness is not just about love, material things, etc., is it and will make you happy?

    What about you, can you give him happiness? Love and marriage are never a multiple-choice question. Whether it is pain or happiness, those who love each other share it.

    Don't just think about what this person will bring to you, think about what you will do for him?

    Two. What do you think about your parents' considerations?

    Marriage is not a matter of a group of people, but marriage is not just a matter of two people. In terms of your parents' love for you and their understanding of you, they think that you may not be suitable or accustomed to things, which cannot be completely contrary to your thoughts, and despite infinitely suppressing their negative thoughts, they still hit your sore spot, right?

    Three. The above is objective. My own thoughts are that love is real, marriage is even more real, and all vanity is false in the face of real feelings.

    Whether you are poor or rich, it has nothing to do with love. There is nothing happier than finding someone who truly loves you.

    I hope you are happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Is he down-to-earth, hardworking, and motivated?

    Good character. Don't look at him now, poor and self-motivated people will definitely do a career.

    The main thing is that you like it yourself.

    Destiny is in your own hands.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Through your description, you feel that the man is serious about you, and of course you care about your boyfriend very much, right?

    Haha, the world of feelings needs to understand each other and support each other more, think about it, we can at least objectively see that when you are more than half a hundred years old, your parents will still be with you, of course you love them very much, but you must know that your life is spent with him, no matter who it is, he has been with you for the longest time in your life, talked with you for the longest, and walked with you for the longest. People are selfish! Why don't we be "selfish" for our life's work again!

    If you can appreciate this, then aren't all other things trivial?

    I hope that a lover will eventually become a family!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Parents are all about you.

    If you insist on being with him, you may suffer in the future.

    If you listen to your parents and don't experience wind and rain, how can you get truly precious love?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Reality is more important than love, and you will know when you are about to get married, without the support and blessing of your parents, without the approval of relatives and friends, without money.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think your parents are wrong.

    1.What is Blessing? Does being blessed mean that you will be happy?

    2.Years of independent life are what the majority of boys are lacking now, and independent thinking is the foundation of becoming a successful man.

    3.Regional discrimination. Without further ado, there are countless examples to prove it"Discrimination"Errors.

    He is down-to-earth and hardworking, and self-motivated, and he is quite tolerant of me"What more could you want?

    All you need to do now is withstand the pressure of your parents, and now is the time to test your feelings for him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Parents are also good for you, will take into account a lot of problems you have not thought about, in fact, if you really want to be with him, parents can not shake you, every parent will put the happiness of their children first, if you insist on being with him, I believe that parents will bless you.

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I think it depends on how you look at it, a man's love is generally only once, in their eyes, what you can't get is often the best, he will always unintentionally talk about her, but he plans to find a marriage partner, and he will tell you at the beginning, there must be a plan, so you have to take your time, it takes time for a person to go to another person's heart, on the other hand, you just broke up with your boyfriend, and then find a man, you must use your previous boyfriend to compare with him, but as long as you are destined, Slowly I got used to the days with him, so I think you can try if you like him, but don't use 100% sincerity, you have to be able to do things, don't care about him and his girlfriend so much, be smart, if you feel bored after a while, then leave.