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Hello dear friends, first of all, I would like to say hello to you!

True love is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question.

True love, to thank but also apologize; Be considerate and considerate; We must admit our mistakes and correct them.

True love is not to stare at each other, but to look in the same direction together.

Perhaps, love, is not the search for a perfect person; Rather, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.

If you hold hands, don't do it, just say break up.

Perhaps, love is to give willingly and share joys and sorrows.

Don't wait until you lose it to know how valuable it is; Don't wait until you're hurt to beg for forgiveness; Something is lost and will never come back.

If a person confesses to you, please cherish his love for you no matter what, even if it can only be an ordinary friend; Perhaps there will not be a second time for a person's innocent confession.

Because of kindness, so cute; Because it's cute, it's beautiful; Because of beauty, so yearning; Because of yearning, so in love.

It's not because you're lonely that you love each other, it's about making those who love each other not feel lonely.

It's love, not time, that is able to ** all the trauma.

In a person's life, there will always be a large period of blandness, interrupting unsatisfactory encounters, it is love that makes us think of beauty, and there is still hope.

With love, you don't feel that hardship is a burden.

It is far more important to cherish what you have now than to pursue what you don't have.

Love is a gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

If my answer can help you, please give a 5 star, thank you.

You don't care if you're a man or a woman, but I have a trick for a woman.

Usually you have to search for Chongxin and talk more, and then Shilun has to study more, and the next thing is to go out and climb the mountains more, judge and then go swimming, in this way, you will become more and more cheerful, and you will become more and more confident.

I think only the right voice should still learn to be smarter, at least I can do I don't deceive others, but others can't deceive my realm, if it is not related to the world of major fingers, usually suffer less losses, there is no problem, the old man has a saying that is particularly clear, called suffering is a blessing.

A person can't be too old in life, otherwise it's easy to be bullied, this fight needs to change Hongyin with himself, don't be so honest.

If you want to learn to refuse, you can't always be a good person.

Make yourself a plan to save money, and if someone breaks it, you'll be fine.

There will be no pie in the sky, don't take other people's words lightly. If you want to solve the side and group the person who will deal with you or potatoes, stay away from him if your character is not good.

has its own bottom line, and people who have touched your bottom line are also constantly dating.

Honest people, it is indeed very tolerant of the situation you said, what people say you think it is not good to refuse, first of all, you should learn to refuse, its return to the honest people are not stupid, just will not refuse, I am what you said, and then slowly it will get better and experience more, and you will not be able to say that you are very happy and auspicious.

Don't take other people's words seriously, learn from experience often, and avoid making the same mistake next time.

Often the macro is deceived by others, indicating that he has weaknesses, does not know people, and listens to the letter of the state of the light bureau!

To learn to observe words and colors, to analyze carefully, not to trust others immediately.

People who are too honest are a problem of nature, and if you want to learn to be smart, you can only learn from potato chips.

Sum up the experience, face strangers with a heart, don't bury your head in the oak and help enthusiastically. A lot of scammers take advantage of other people's empathy. Online fraud should be wary of unknown calls, and everything that makes your remittance basically not run is a fraud.

People who are too honest are actually not very good, so it is recommended that you pay more attention to them, talk normally, and think more in your head.

Make more friends, contact more with people, learn more from others, and do things on behalf of others, and you will have unexpected gains.

Read more books, there is a ** house in the book.

In fact, I think that if you are really too old and true, then you should think about the truth of what others say, but it is not only that everyone will lie to you.

People can't be too honest, think twice before they encounter something, think about the consequences, and weigh the pros and cons before doing it.

Society is cruel. Need to be careful. It will be a lot to learn more and see more. Everyone has a step-by-step process.

The premise of learning to be smart is to have rich social experience, and you still have to study in a social university.

Honest people want it, why lie to people, deceive so every time you listen to someone talk, you don't want to think about it. Put a few more question marks.

Social experience is insufficient, and as you have more social experience, you will gradually become more mature.

You are not smart, and your brain has to learn to turn more.

Was it deceived by a friend around you?

Talk less, and others will feel differently.

It's nothing simple, you still have to be kind to others, and for those who have malice towards you, just stay away from them.

I'm very similar to you, but I'm going to grow up and become scheming. This is not a pejorative term, and scheming can be understood as wise. There are different ways to deal with different people, and people who don't talk much and point to the end should pay attention to thinking about the meaning beyond the words.

Of course, if a person like you and me speaks, don't think too much, but there will be misunderstandings.

To grow, to mature, to have setbacks, when something makes you feel the warmth and coldness of the society, let you feel the stirring of the heart, then you will have one more heart, will become more and more mature, the more wise, the more scheming. Before, it is better to observe more, think more, and be cautious in dealing with others.

It's a good thing to believe. If you're too used to believing it, try not believing anyone (which isn't great, of course). How many people who have deceived you, how many should you remember?

It's good to analyze and analyze his words, and there are always loopholes in deceiving people. No lie is seamless, roar.

It's rare to be confused, let's live casually, don't be affected by too many external factors.

For your scheming friend, it can only be said that he is not a real friend, he often has a scheming for you, which means that he does not regard you as a real friend, why do you need to post it again? He's just taking advantage of you.

I'm also more honest, and I've thought about being smoother, but I've tried a lot and I still think it's good to be honest, and I'm worthy of myself.

What's so bad about being honest? Work diligently and be a down-to-earth person! This is honest people, and I admire honest people the most! An honest person will not have so many fancy intestines, whether it is to be friends or colleagues with him, it is very reassuring!

Little brother, let me tell you, honesty means just don't cause trouble, if others bully you, you will get it back, you must be tough, let Chundou and them know that you are not easy to mess with! Even if this tough meeting will be beaten, it will be worth it!

It is a blessing to be with you, people who have no scheming are generally more introverted, and when you pity others, you can first raise your pants and pity yourself.

Kindness is a choice, taking responsibility for one's own choices.

You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people.

If satisfied, hope, thank you.

Honest people are weak and can be bullied.

Honest people often become the damaged ones in a certain group or a certain relationship, and they are the "angry bags" that we usually hear about. One of the most basic characteristics of an honest person is that the word "fear" is the first word, and not "dare" first. Fear of being hurt, fear of taking responsibility, fear of breaking through the routine, fear of expressing emotional ......Look ahead and be timid in everything you do.

There are good plans that cannot be implemented, and there are legitimate interests that dare not be defended, so that they are always in a position of evading and retreating, and being passively beaten, and they have further encouraged the arrogance of those with bad intentions to gain inches and be unscrupulous, and the honest people themselves are not only damaged in their interests but also tortured in their moods, which can be described as suffering both physically and mentally.

Interaction between people is actually a process of mutual adaptation. This is like a bunch of balls colliding with each other, the ball quality should not be too hard, too hard will hurt others and hurt oneself, but it should not be too soft, otherwise it will be flattened by others and lose the basic living space. Honest people belong to the kind of people who are too soft, and their communicative behavior is basically a kind of retreat and forbearance, advocating that "harmony" is precious, emphasizing "forbearance" as the top, and the result is often unable to keep their own bottom limit, surrendering without a fight.

In the final analysis, this is mainly due to the lack of determination, courage and confidence of honest people to fight others.

Honest people don't dare to fight, which indirectly stems from the constraints of their concepts. Honest people take it for granted that as long as they abide by the principles, they will naturally get the desired results, and to fight and fight is a violation of the principle, so it is immoral and undesirable. Honest people regard peace and self-preservation as virtue, struggle for power and profit as ugliness, non-struggle as noble, and struggle as shame.

Therefore, the courage to fight was lost intellectually. Honest people mistakenly believe that not fighting is the best way to obtain benefits, the safest, most reliable and the most reasonable, which may be right under the planned economy, because even if you fight, there is no effect, you can only backfire, but under the conditions of the market economy it is very different, do not dare to fight, do not fight will not have the opportunity to send to the door, let alone a free lunch for you to enjoy.

I used to ask this question all the time, and I ...... it many timesBecause I also went all the way, I was deceived all the way, but it was like fighting monsters, every time I turned and encountered an opportunity, and then I let down my guard and was deceived again, and I squatted in the pit again and again...... againUntil one time I was deceived by a scheming and ruthless person to the point that I had nothing, and the sky was dark, and the sun and moon were dark, I began to examine my previous life, not that I was terrible, but that I was not strong and wise enough.

We often say: honest people suffer, good people are always deceived, and bad people travel thousands of miles. "Honest people" just want to live their own simple life, do as they please, do not want to hurt anyone, and have a kind-hearted, upright and brave ......When they encounter people with bad motives, they choose to be kind, not to hurt, and choose to forgive, thinking that they can exchange their conscience.

But the "honest people" are wrong, when someone is deliberately digging a hole for you, there will be no conscience and pity, and you will only treat your kindness as weakness and deception.

Please "honest people" like me, we can be kind, but our kindness is precious, not so cheap, not so widespread, it must be unattainable. We must improve our ability to identify, we can't blindly believe and not doubt, we can't indulge ourselves, and be an "honest person" with no tolerance and no bottom line.

In fact, it is wonderful to look at everything with kindness in this way, and it feels like the whole world is bright.

If you can give me a chance, I also hope that I can be a little pink who doesn't know anything about the world like you.

But then again, we are not a communist society after all, and we can't get to the same social environment as Iceland and Finland. Therefore, there must be a sense of vigilance.

In fact, it's also simple, do you think about it**What can you deceive?

It's nothing more than people and money.

In the process of interacting with strangers, do not get into the stranger's car, do not eat what the stranger gives, and do not go to inaccessible places with the stranger. It's basically safe (it feels like talking to my kids again).

As for money, it's even simpler, all issues involving money in the process of interacting with strangers can be discussed with at least two people close to you, and it's OK.

As long as you do all of the above, I can't imagine what you can be cheated of.

Being willing to believe that strangers have nothing to do with IQ, don't listen to other people's nonsense, this is a sign of your innocence and kindness, although naivety is sometimes out of place, but it is a beautiful quality that I have pursued all my life.

Thank you for the invitation, first of all, the author thinks that it is not wrong to be honest, and it is not all bad to be deceived, and sometimes it is not bad to be deceived moderately.

In fact, we are all part of this society, whether it is a student or other identity, as a member of society, we must have a certain amount of social experience.

The process of being deceived by others can also be regarded as a process of increasing social experience. If you don't get scammed, you don't know what kind of process this thing is, and only when you know where you are in the process will you find out that you've been scammed. At this time, what you need is to reflect on the whole process of being deceived and prevent being deceived by another person in the same way next time.

And in this process you will get to know the society, and to a certain extent, this will increase your social experience.

Being honest is not a sin, and being deceived means that you are still young. If young people want not to be deceived, they must read and watch more, and after more experience, they naturally have a certain understanding of various methods of deception. Of course, this time is not to advocate that you deceive others, but not to be deceived.

Recommend a very worthwhile warning TV series (Mao Liar). I believe that after reading it, you will have your own experience, and I hope that you will not be deceived by others with the same number of deceptions for the second time in the future.