Why are people willing to express their three views in other people s emotional problems?

Many people use the phrase "the authorities are obsessed with bystanders" to explain their actions. They always like to evaluate other people's love lives, and always feel that some of their practices are unacceptable to them. What you can't get is always in turmoil, people are like this in their hearts, if you are deeply involved, maybe you won't talk like this, and your three views may change.

Idle people who hurt like to be forced to talk in other people's feelings, always like to say something innocuous and insignificant, and always like to put their own opinions into other people's feelings. Just think about it in your heart, many people can't control their mouths with one hand, and they always like to gossip and talk about others in others.

Everyone has their own feelings, everyone is an adult, they already know how to distinguish between right and wrong, and they all know what they want. There is a girl like this in our dormitory, she always likes to discuss other people's emotional problems, and she really doesn't care about other aspects, so she is interested in love.

There is a girl in our dormitory who likes waves more, she always likes to meet some ambiguous objects through games, and she doesn't say that she gets along or not, anyway, it's like a long-distance relationship, and they care about each other every day. But the girl who likes to talk can't help it, every time she only walks with us, she will say once how the girl is dripping, and say that she is very disgusted with such an ambiguous relationship.

We're thinking, why are you so concerned about what other people are talking about, and it's not enough to say it once, and we can't listen to it if we have to say it several times. She hasn't realized that she hates it very much, other people's feelings can use your fingers, can you use your three views, everyone's views are different, just like some people agree with things like unmarried pregnancy, and some people don't agree with the same reason.

Because in a relationship, people can easily resonate with or be able to imagine themselves as the hero and heroine in it.

Nowadays on the Internet, more and more people like to share their own things, emotional things people also seem to be willing to share, when a person's feelings in real life encounter some unsatisfactory, they don't know how to deal with it, you can consult friends around you before, but after all, there are many people who don't want to listen, so they like to share on the Internet, I hope that the majority of netizens can give some useful suggestions.

The starting point is good, but I can't stand everyone on the Internet, it's messy, some people have experience in this area or are very good at dealing with these emotional problems, but some can't even do their own things, they may find it interesting to see your sharing, and they can't help but force a strong answer. You don't have to worry too much, there is no real-name system on the Internet, and the keyboard warriors are a little proud, who can care about it so much. <>

There is also a situation where he really wants to give you advice and wants to share his thoughts with you, but because everyone's growth environment and family environment are very different, everyone's personality and way of dealing with things are strange, so although he is sincerely giving advice, in fact, his advice is useless, maybe even the three views are not in line with you, but it is his sincere advice, so don't take it too seriously.

In fact, it doesn't matter if it's an emotional expert or some ordinary people who eat melons, they can only take them as a reference for this kind of thing, after all, they don't know your temperament and character, nor do they know the temper and character of your object, and they don't know the story between you, so in fact, don't believe it all, you can have some constructive suggestions, the most important thing is to rely on yourself.

People like to watch the excitement and look at other people's things from the perspective of outsiders, because everyone has their own understanding and opinions, and they all feel that their ideas are right, so they are expressing their own opinions on many issues.

Feelings are emotional, most people are also emotional, especially when looking at other people's feelings, we all like to look at other people's feelings, point fingers in other people's feelings, express their own opinions, no matter what the reason, no matter what contradictions, people like to meddle. In fact, it's like watching the excitement, but in the relationship, as an outsider, you may see it more clearly, so you like to say more, and people often only see the superficial relationship, but don't see the details of those life relationships, so the kind of people who only look at the surface and point fingers are really like talking on paper, only know theoretical analysis, but don't know whether their "three views" are correct and whether they should really comment.

Nowadays, people are more and more concerned about other people's feelings, and they play the role of "passer-by" in other people's feelings, as if they feel how much they know, they impose their own views on others, and they firmly believe that if others listen to their own views, they will definitely live a better life. Do those who make a big comment in other people's feelings seem to be perfect in their own feelings? Apparently impossible.

Everyone will encounter problems in their own lives, whether in the relationship or in life, they will encounter things that they can't solve, this is unavoidable, rather than refreshing their "three views" in other people's feelings, it is better to care more about their own lives, more care about their own feelings.

After all, everyone is not perfect, it may be curiosity, or it may be their own gossip, so they have always cared about other people's feelings, and they will point fingers at other people's feelings. But for the happiness of others and for your own life, try not to interfere with other people's feelings, after all, the feelings are two people's, they are their own, and others are not easy to interfere with.

Personally, I think that everyone will have a gossip in their hearts, and they will want to express their opinions on other people's affairs, and they will choose to help others, which is normal, but in terms of emotional matters, it is up to them to see how they make choices.

Because we all think that they are "fans of the authorities" and we are "bystanders", we have always been keen to give them guidance to the confused, but we don't know that we ourselves are also half-.

Because when it comes to one's own feelings, there will be some blindness and impulsiveness, and you can only take other people's examples.

China's three views are: first, to be open-minded, second, to get money no matter what means, and third, to be hypocritical and panicked.

Feelings mostly point to the emotions of men and women, that is, "love".

You asked, "I don't want to compromise on my feelings."

Explanation: 1, I don't want to casually find someone to set a lifelong event 2, I don't want to casually accept a relationship that is not yet clear.

3. I don't want to find a random person and talk about falling in love and "tie the knot".

The opposite of the question: I don't want to be sloppy with my life, take my life seriously, don't make a hasty life, "I don't want to settle" can also be understood as a traditional backward idea in society, and the marriage of parents is "blind date".

Mention that "blind date" and "blind date" are not at all the same level of connotation).

Life is like this, don't you just say the song that Zhuang Xinyan sang, some people walk and walk and scatter, some things look at it and fade away, this is a portrayal of life, if you love each other, sit together and don't talk and be happy, if you don't love, it's useless to say that it's just 5 years, 5 years is a hurdle, if you can't get by, you have to break up, think about it more, girls pay attention to details, is it not usually what habits you don't take seriously, but she will remember it, the longer this kind of thing exists, the more powerful it will erupt.

When love becomes a habit, it will be like this, for example, she asks you and you refuse, you ask her and he doesn't agree, it's because you are too familiar and too familiar to know it into a habit, you are used to her being by your side like that, she is the same, a move to understand what you want to do, and there is less communication, you now have doubts about yourself and your feelings, then she will also have, why not find a night, sit together and talk heartily, why is this so, only the two of you know best, and only the two of you can solve it, we say it is all in vain, Like my brother is 5 years old, now I see that you are similar to me at the beginning, but I didn't deal with it well, hey, adopt it, I will answer this emotional question for you in the middle of the night.

Students live in school, have no contact with complex social relations in society, and are very simple-minded! The definition of like, love, friendship, love, etc. is very vague and unclear! But as I get older, I have a better understanding of what I need, what I pursue, and what I am suitable for, so don't confuse the previous innocent friendship with love!

A bright future to grasp by yourself....

After a long time, they have become family, but they all love each other in their hearts.